23 señales de que le gustas a un chico tímido (y cómo ayudarle a abrirse)
Buscando señales a tímido le gustas pero tiene miedo de admitirlo? Welcome aboard. Today you’ll learn all you need to know about their unique mindset, how they express their affection, and how to help them abrirAsí que permanezca atento.
Mientras que hay mujeres que descartarían por completo la idea de salir con un chico tímido, las hay que ven algo único y atractivo en su silencio.
Shy guys have that sense of mystery that makes women fall for them. The ‘only’ trouble is:
Cómo saber si le gustas a un tímido y cuáles son esos signos sutiles a tímido chico le gustas?
It won’t be easy because as much as you like mystery, you would prefer to know where you stand with him at some point.
Ve un paso por delante de él y despierta al seductor que lleva dentro con Guiones de encaprichamiento.
He will be sending you mixed signals that will involve you in this guessing game that’s symbolically called ‘le gusto—he likes me not’.
Eso está destinado a suceder porque él te ha puesto en un pedestal. Para él, eres una diosa entre la gente.
So don’t blame him for lacking the confidence to approach you and ask you out. He will get there. He just needs more time.
Now that you have some quick insight into what being with a shy guy is really about, it’s time to answer the question we started with.
¿Cómo saber si le gustas en secreto a un chico tímido?
You know a shy guy likes you if his face lights up every time he sees you, if he’s nervous around you and if he tries hard to impress you.
Éstas son sólo algunas de las señales de que le gustas a un chico tímidopor lo que la forma más fácil de obtener la respuesta es revisar TODOS los señales de que le gustas más que como amiga but he’s trying not to show it! (You’ll find these signs below.)
After all the signs, you will probably want to know what to do about it and how to act. So, just keep reading and you’ll find all the tips and tricks that will help you to get him to open up to you and admit he indeed is enamorado de ti.
Recomiendo ESTA GUÍA to make sure you understand his signals and you don’t waste an opportunity to have this kind of guy by your side.
Señales claras de que le gustas a un chico tímido pero intenta no demostrarlo
You can feel his eyes on you when you’re not looking
It’s tough to tell when a shy person is flirting with you (or at least trying to) because they have their own subtle forma de mostrar interés y afecto.
En lugar de establecer contacto visual Al igual que la mayoría de los chicos extrovertidos y seguros de sí mismos, los tímidos prefieren permanecer en una zona segura en la que puedan observarte sin llamar la atención.
So, if you notice that every time you look at him, he looks away, it means he doesn’t want to be caught in the act of admiring your presence or checking you out.
He knows his look would give him away and he’s not quite ready for you to know that.
A shy man simply can’t risk letting you know that está enamorado de ti but at the same time, he can’t help but look at you and admire you (from a safe distance).
He just needs more time and reassurance to gather the courage to finally talk to you face-to-face instead of hiding his affection by pretending that he’s not noticing you. The truth is, he can neither stop looking at you nor stop thinking about you!
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Su cara se ilumina cada vez que entras en la habitación
If you want to know whether a shy guy likes you, you need to pay attention to his body language and all those little things he does subconsciously – that’s where los signos más poderosos de la química se esconden.
He likes you so much that he can’t help but smile every time he sees you. It might be a shy smile but it’s definitely one of the telltale signs a shy guy likes you A LOT!
También empezará a actuar de forma diferente cuando te vea.
He won’t know who he is or where he is headed but his smile will radiate all the happiness he feels from within because he’s so overwhelmed with emotions by simply seeing you.
And if he’s with his good friends, pay close attention to whether they’re teasing him because the chances are that they have also noticed that he’s acting differently in your presence.
Abre la boca para hablarte pero las palabras no le salen
This is the most flattering sign of all. It means that you leave him speechless. He gets so intimidated by your presence that he’s unable to produce a meaningful word, let alone engage in small talk.
Puede que se esté muriendo por dentro para demostrar que he’s a nice guy y lo mucho que se preocupa por ti, pero las palabras son simplemente incapaces de salir.
He’s worried that he’ll only mess things up, so his mind subconsciously chooses silence as an alternative to talking. His mind and words freeze in the moment.
And that’s why he treats you differently than he does others. He either manages to stutter a hello and smile charmingly or goes completely mute on you.
Either way, don’t laugh at him for doing that as he’s probably just very, very nervous around you because he likes you that much!
Relacionado: ¿Cómo saber si un hombre se siente atraído por ti?
Cuando por fin habla, sus frases pueden no tener mucho sentido
Introverts and shy guys get very self-conscious around someone they like, which is no surprise because they see a goddess in you, and who wouldn’t be intimidated by that?
Por eso, cuando por fin habla, puede tartamudear y producir frases inarticuladas que sonarán como simples murmullos. Incluso puede que se le trabe la lengua. En cualquier caso, es una buena señal.
Si hace esto, entonces sabes he’s totally crazy about you! And don’t worry, it will not stay like this forever.
Acuérdate de ser suave con él y las cosas mejorarán significativamente cuando te conozca mejor y empiece a sentirse más relajado a tu alrededor.
If you want to make it easier for him, you can pretend that you’re also a little bit shy, just to laugh it off and create a more relaxed atmosphere.
Whatever you decide to do, just don’t be too direct and dominant because this will only make it worse.
He’s clumsy
Uno de los mayores señales de que le gustas a un chico tímido es cuando empieza a ser extra torpe a tu alrededor.
It’s because his mind goes completely blank when he sees you. He is just unable to act like his true self when you are in mere proximity.
Se tropieza y se cae. Derrama café, zumo, agua o cualquier otra cosa que se pueda derramar.
He hurts himself by bumping into things that are in his way. He’s so clumsy that it makes him so damn cute. (I bet he’s even cuter now that you know that you are the main cause of his clumsiness.)
And do you know what’s even cuter?
Cuando a una chica tímida le gusta un tipo tímido, ellos Ambos se entregan a sesiones torpes y crean esa atmósfera misteriosa y excitante en la que cabe esperar que ocurra cualquier cosa.
If that’s the case with you, don’t worry that you’ll look weird because the only possible outcome of the situation is ‘cuteness overload’.
Te escucha incluso cuando nadie más lo hace
How to know if a shy guy likes you? If he’s a damn good listener, then you know he’s crazy about you!
Sometimes in larger groups, not everyone’s voice is heard but he will never leave you talking to a wall.
Silenciará todas las demás voces de la habitación y escuchará la tuya, aunque puede que ni siquiera esté frente a ti o que finja que su mente está en otra parte.
He also might respond instantly so you know he’s paying attention. He will never ignore you, under any circumstances.
Podrías hablar de tu vida amorosa, Signos del zodíacoo tus romances de instituto, te escuchará con atención independientemente del tema que se trate.
Tus pensamientos son relevantes y él quiere conocerte mejor.
Tus amigos se convertirán en sus amigos
Le resulta mucho más fácil hablar con personas que son importantes para ti que realmente hablar contigo, así que probablemente querrá hacerse amigo de tus amigos.
He will get close to them mainly to be close to you but also because he likes them. He doesn’t like being around people who give him a bad vibe.
He won’t only do it for you. He has a hard enough time dealing with his shy nature to be around people who make it worse.
Ser amigo de tus amigos es una forma estupenda de pasar tiempo contigo sin tener que pedirte una cita.
También quiere caerles bien porque podrían hablar bien de él. Sabe que están cerca de su corazón y que sus opiniones importan.
Once he’s comfortable around you, he will start confiding in you
Being open isn’t one of his strong suits. He’s afraid that you might not like what he has to tell you, that you’ll judge his personality, behavior and similar.
That’s exactly why he’ll need more time to tell you everything about him and how he feels about you.
Opening up and trusting you with his secrets will scare him and it will be a ‘mission impossible’ for a longer period of time.
So if he managed to get to this point, make sure he knows you value that. Keep in mind that it’s not easy to be vulnerable to anybody really.
By letting you into his world, he’s showing you how much he cares about you and how much he’s head over heels in love with you.
Se pone celoso de otros hombres que entablan conversación contigo
He would prefer if you didn’t talk about any other man, let alone give them your attention. That’s also one of the true signs a shy guy likes you a lot.
It’s not that dangerous kind of jealousy that makes him want to trap you in a dungeon; this type of jealousy is more related to his falta de confianza.
Así que se pone celoso de otro hombre que rebosa confianza y no tiene problemas para hablar contigo o invitarte a salir.
Guarda estos pensamientos y sentimientos en su interior, pero notarás cómo cambia su comportamiento cuando mencionas a otro hombre.
He will instinctively change his expression and try to change the topic. He is aware of his poor communication skills but it’s not something that is easy to change.
So, don’t make him jealous on purpose as it will make things worse. If things just happen then that’s OK.
Pero si ve que provocas sus celos a propósito, su actitud y su impresión general de ti cambiarán.
Quiere conocer tus gustos y aversiones.
Quiere saber si compartís algunos intereses para que os relacionéis más fácilmente. Probablemente querrá saber lo que piensas de todo.
Puede preguntarte qué tipo de películas te gustan en general, tus preferencias musicales, deportivas y naturales, tus aficiones y cualquier cosa que a él le guste y piense que a ti también te gustaría de esa lista.
Si compartís la mayoría de las cosas de la lista, él se alegrará porque para él eso significa que podéis pasarlo muy bien juntos.
After he’s collected all of the info about your likes and dislikes, he will continue creating your imaginary profile in his head.
He will take it a step further and start imagining that you’re doing all those things together until he finally gathers the courage to ask you out. He’ll enamorarse contigo antes de lo que esperas.
(So, instead of waiting for him, it wouldn’t be a bad thing if you casually asked him to see a movie or do some other activity you both like.)
Internet es su zona segura de comunicación
Being behind a screen gives him more confidence so he doesn’t hesitate to reach you from there. The Internet provides him with the sense of safety he requires to be more comfortable.
Le será más fácil mensajes de texto contigo en línea que hablar cara a cara en persona.
Incluso se podría predecir que esto sucederá porque pasar tiempo detrás de una pantalla es totalmente propio de su carácter.
But don’t get scared. He won’t text 24/7 because he doesn’t want to come off as boring. His main goal is to communicate with you and not suffocate you.
Sus amigos se burlan de él porque está enamorado de ti.
¿Recuerdas esas escenas de las películas en las que el resto del equipo se burla de un chico tímido por su aplastar ¿quién está cerca? A ti te puede pasar lo mismo.
Su mejores amigos will purposely tease him so you can hear them. They know he doesn’t have the nerve to do it himself so they consider it like giving him a little push in the right direction.
Aunque pueda incomodaros a los dos, al final os daréis cuenta de que hay mucha verdad en esas inofensivas palabras.
Tienen buenas intenciones, aunque eso le haga callarse aún más o decir alguna tontería para defenderse. Se sonrojará como un niño bonito.
Es muy protector contigo
Una de las principales señales de que le gustas a un chico tímido es que se desvive por protegerte. Te protegería y vigilaría tu espalda aunque eso significara salir de su zona de confort.
He won’t allow anybody to pick on you and he is more tolerant of the things people do to him than he is about the things they do to you.
Just because he’s quiet and keeps his thoughts to himself doesn’t mean that he doesn’t know how to speak up when he has to.
He acts as one of your protective guy friends even though he’s secretly dying to be something more to you.
He does this unconsciously but it shows how much he cares and that he will be there for you no matter what! (Please, don’t zona de amigos él.)
Tu palabra es sagrada
He basically agrees with everything you have to say. The thing with shy guys is that they’re convinced if their preferences resemble other people’s preferences, they will be liked for it in return.
He really wants to show you that he’s on the same page as you are, so he goes a bit overboard in doing so.
For example, if you say you like Grey’s Anatomy, he will say he likes it too and if you say you like Ed Sheeran, he will say he has his songs on repeat.
Si dices que te gusta viajar, él contará los lugares que ha visitado y luego te dirá los que aún espera ver. Todo lo que a ti te gusta, a él le gusta.
Le cuesta mirarte a los ojos...
He’s just too shy to look you straight in the eyes, so his gaze always goes downward. Yup, that’s also one of the signs that a shy guy likes you and that quiere besarte.
It almost makes him seem untrustworthy but it’s all because he’s self-conscious around you. Su lenguaje corporal lo delatará.
He won’t be able to stand still and he will constantly move his feet or fidget his fingers and he will lean toward you and then pull back again.
He will try to calm himself but he probably won’t succeed. It’s normal that he’s this nervous.
For starters, it’s in his nature. And the other thing is he’s feeling uncomfortable because he puts you on a pedestal and he is unsure of himself.
Puede que incluso se sienta indigno de ti (hasta que le demuestres lo contrario).
Recuerda cada cosa que dijiste o hiciste...
His infatuation with you can make him look like he’s obsessing over you but in reality, he’s just paying close attention because he likes you more than words can say.
It would probably surprise you to know that he knows something you said a long time ago even though you yourself don’t remember saying it.
There’s no doubt that he will remember your favorite book, kind of chocolate, restaurants or TV shows even if you don’t recall ever telling him.
It’s clear that he’s interested in you and he has an eye for detail. It’s one of the most obvious signs that he likes you!
Despite all the affection, he’s reluctant to make a move
This is the most frustrating of all the signs. Wouldn’t it be easier if he just got up the courage to invitarte a salir?
It would be easier for a regular everyday guy but for him, it’s an issue, so bear with him. Have patience because he doesn’t just look mysterious, he is indeed mysterious and full of surprises.
I promise you that he’ll sweep you off your feet if he is given a chance! His behavior also leaves you reluctant because you don’t know if you’re misreading the signs.
¿Le gustas o no? ¿Sólo intenta ser amable o hay algo más?
It’s really getting on your nerves but at the same time, at least you’re sure you like him. You see in him something nobody else does, something that he doesn’t even see himself.
Maybe the best approach here would be for you to ask him out anyway, so you would at least know where you stand. It doesn’t have to be anything major, it could just be a casual coffee for starters.
Además, asegúrese de consultar los consejos y trucos que le ayúdale a abrirse a ti! (You’ll find them below.)
¿Cómo ligan los tímidos?
The truth is, shy guys don’t flirt that much but when they do, they do it in a subtle way like showering you with likes, being at your service and trying hard to impress you.
Aquí tienes algunos ejemplos de cómo ligan los tímidos:
He’s there to be at your service
It’s not that you want him to be or that you ever asked him for anything but he always goes out of his way to please you.
Siempre te distingue de los demás. Nunca va más allá por nadie más que por ti.
He brings you coffee. He remembers your favorite cupcakes, so he secretly leaves them at your work desk or in front of your front door. If you say you need help with something, he’s already on it.
Su imaginación se dispara, así que hace todo tipo de cosas pequeñas y presta atención a los pequeños detalles para demostrar su afecto.
And that is when you start asking yourself: Does he like you? You’re not sure whether he’s just being helpful and friendly or if there’s more to it.
Pues que sepas que definitivamente le gustas MUCHO y que prefiere demostrarlo a decirlo.
It comes easier to him and there’s a certain amount of charm in that. And remember, actions speak louder than words ever will!
He’s interested in your mind
La forma en que piensas le impresiona. No para de hacerte preguntas sobre esto y aquello.
Your conversations go from simple chatting to brain-picking topics in a matter of moments. He’s interested to hear your opinions about things relevant to his life and your opinion means the world to him.
Quiere crecer y ampliar sus horizontes contigo. He values different perspectives and he’s genuinely interested in what other people have to say.
He’s in a constant search of improvement even though he never makes it obvious. He also wants to know where you stand on certain topics, like if you share similar core values and interests.
Asking questions is his way of making sure that you are compatible. Also, it’s his way of impressing you with his intelligence by asking you lots of preguntas que invitan a la reflexión.
So if you notice that he’s all of a sudden asking you tons of questions and trying hard to mantener una conversación, you know that he’s totally into you!
Se esforzará por hacer cosas sociales
Being a shy guy, socializing isn’t really his thing but if it means seeing you, he will do it anyways. He has a tight circle of close friends and he’s making an effort para extender ese círculo gracias a ti.
You know that a shy guy is crazy about you when he’s ready to do all these social things that have become the normsalir a tomar algo, ir al cine, salir con los amigos, o similares.
You have to keep in mind that socializing is the last thing he wants to do with anyone, let alone with someone he’s really crazy about. (It’s more awkward and there’s more pressure when it comes to impressing you).
Y si, a pesar de todo, decide pasar tiempo contigo fuera de su zona de confort (detrás de una pantalla o en su casa), sabrás que le gustas de verdad. ¡Haría cualquier cosa por ti si eso significa estar en tu presencia!
Te colmará de likes
Probablemente haya peinado tus cuentas sociales de principio a fin. Así que es probable que accidental o intencionadamente le guste alguna foto que publicaste hace tres años o algo incluso más antiguo.
Significa que he’s totally interested in youtu pasado y todo sobre ti y las redes sociales le ayudan a explorar cosas sobre ti.
También le gustará cualquier cosa que publiques en Facebook, Instagram, Twitter o cualquier otra red social porque simplemente le gusta todo de ti.
It’s also his way of showing support by liking posts that could even be solely female-oriented. It can be a bit weird or even a bit over the top but pressing the like button is all he can do to show you his intentions, at least for now.
After all, for a shy guy, it’s ten times easier to press the like button than to tell you that he likes you in person, or God forbid flirt with you in person.
Se esforzará demasiado por impresionarte
If a guy likes you, he’ll give his best to impresionarte. Un chico tímido lo hará incluso si eso significa que probablemente parecerá tonto mientras lo hace. Un chico tímido sabe que cualquier tipo de comunicación es mejor que ninguna.
His monologues will sound rehearsed and that’s because they probably are but who can blame him for that, right? The poor guy is trying and doing his best to get it out in his own way.
Utilizará chistes cursis, exagerará al contar una historia o algo similar sólo para captar y mantener su interés.
Puedes ver exactamente lo que está haciendo; está haciendo todo lo que está en su mano para impresionarte porque realmente le gustas. ¡Le gustas mucho!
Incluso podría cambiar su apariencia
Un chico tímido haría cualquier cosa para que te fijaras en él, así que podría empezar a vestirse de forma diferente o cambiarse el peinado.
Te escuchará atentamente cuando hables, incluso con tus amigas, así que puede que le hayas comentado que algo le gusta o se haya fijado en tus gustos en las redes sociales.
Sea lo que sea, asegúrese de hazle un cumplido, as it will boost his self-esteem. You have to appreciate his efforts to look his best. (After all, it’s for your eyes only.)
Cómo ayudarle a abrirse a ti
If the majority of the signs above are telling you that your special, shy guy likes you, then it’s time to do something about it, right?
We’ve already established that it’s really difficult to read the signs and all the mixed signals he’s sending. It’s even more difficult to be patient and know the right ways to deal with him.
Pero no todas las esperanzas están perdidas. Los siguientes consejos y trucos te ayudarán a conseguir que se abra a ti en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.
Ármate de paciencia
I already said it but I can’t stress it enough. It’s not about who gets the girl first, it’s about who treats the woman right.
A shy guy has more potential to be a better boyfriend because he is more attentive and he’s willing to invest in you.
The loudest guy in the room will get your attention more easily but it’s a risky business giving him your heart.
Como decía al principio, le preocupa más lo que puedas hacer por él que en igualdad o la mutua esfuerzos puestos en la relación.
Para que la espera te resulte más llevadera, no pierdas de vista el premio, porque eres consciente de lo valioso que es tu chico tímido. La espera merecerá la pena.
Preste atención a las señales
You have carefully studied all the signs in these words that a shy guy likes you and if you’re able to find your situation in them, then you’re on the right track. I bet those mixed signals have started to make a lot more sense.
Maybe you discovered some more signs that are not mentioned here or maybe you’ll discover them in the near future as time progresses.
All in all, whenever you feel confused and like you’re going crazy from all that mystery and those confusing emotions, try to focus just on the signs.
If it will help, create a list of all the signs that you’ve noticed him displaying.
Así que, siempre que necesites tranquilizarte sobre tu situación, acuérdate de todas esas señales que te harán más fácil respirar.
Esto te recordará siempre por qué hace las cosas que hace y te ahorrará pensando demasiado.
Una sonrisa significará mucho
If you want to make your special shy guy’s day, the only thing you need to do is smile. A smile is a universal sign of vibraciones positivasamor y buenas intenciones.
Una simple sonrisa tiene la fuerza de hacer que una persona se sienta diez veces mejor en un segundo y olvide todo lo que le molesta.
So, gift him with a smile from time to time. It won’t take much from you but it will mean everything to him.
Puede que él también esté buscando señales tuyas y una sonrisa seguro que le sube la autoestima. Siéntete agradecido porque tienes a alguien cuyo día puedes mejorar con una simple sonrisa.
Let him know you’re listening
Given that shy guys have difficulties opening up and talking about anything, it’s our holy duty to encourage them a little bit.
Por eso, ¡presta siempre atención a sus palabras cuando hable! Puede que no hable mucho, pero si tiene toda tu atención, puede que se anime a hablar más.
He doesn’t want to come off as annoying or someone you don’t like talking to, which is why he thinks about every single word before he says it aloud.
Por desgracia, sus nervios y pensamientos ansiosos puede que esas palabras salgan mal, pero sepa que sus intenciones no son más que puras.
Si sigues escuchándole y te aseguras de darle el tiempo y el espacio necesarios para hablar contigo, la conversación de verdad surgirá de forma natural antes de lo que esperabas.
Evite hacerse el duro
Cuando nos sentimos frustradas por un chico y sus señales contradictorias, es natural que empecemos a jugando duro e ignóralo.
We’re convinced that it is the only way to make him want us more and to haz que nos persiga. Mientras que esto puede funcionar con otros chicos normales, con un chico tímido sólo creará un efecto contrario.
Si ignoras a un chico tímido, harás que se aleje aún más. Recuerda, no es un jugador.
Ignoring him won’t make him chase you, it will do the opposite. He’s completely different from anybody you have ever met.
Go easy on him and don’t be scared to show subtle signs that you are into him. It will make him move quicker!
Formar una amistad
Pregúntale su opinión sobre esto y aquello o pídele que salga casualmente con amigos.
Las primeras veces, puedes llevar a alguien contigo, tu amigo o un amigo común, para que las cosas sean un poco menos tensas o incómodas.
Cree un entorno seguro en el que se sienta como en casa, ya que le hará sentirse más relajado y usted podrá vislumbrar al hombre que realmente es debajo de toda esa timidez.
En cuanto empiece a sentirse cómodo y relajado en tu compañía, empezará a mostrar su verdadera cara y verás que ha merecido la pena todo el esfuerzo y la espera.
Pídele salir tú misma
You have nothing to lose. The worst-case scenario is him telling you, “No.”
He will make up some excuse because he wasn’t ready for such a question and then you will both go on with your lives until he gathers up the courage and asks you out in a week or two, with an explanation as to why he couldn’t go earlier.
And even if he doesn’t do that, you will sleep better knowing that you tried and that his shyness got the better of him.
Now, the best-case scenario is that you will fall into the romance of your life and that’s definitely worth the risk!
Don’t try to change him
He’s perfect the way he is. Your mission is not to fix him, he just needs a bit of support and encouragement from your side to mover ficha (if you don’t do it for him).
He’s aware that him being so self-conscious and not the best communicator are his greatest flaws. He has to work on them himself.
Si ya empezó a darte alguna de las señales anteriores, debes saber que tiene el potencial para alcanzar la meta de tener más confianza y conseguir a la chica que le gusta.
Lo único que necesita es algo de espacio y tiempo, así que asegúrate de dárselo siempre.
Con el tiempo, empezará a sentirse más seguro de sí mismo y usted descubrirá una verdadera joya que estuvo oculta en su timidez todo este tiempo.
Mostrar afecto
Si quieres crear el viento bajo sus alas que le haga volar a tus brazos, asegúrate de mostrarle afecto y demostrarle de forma sutil que te gusta.
Esto le ayudará a dar el primer paso.
Surprise him by giving him something he was talking about or something he’s so passionate about. Hazle un cumplido siempre que tenga la oportunidad de hacerlo.
Touch him subtly while talking to him and laugh at his jokes. All of these gestures will show him that you’re listening to him and that you’re genuinely interested in him.
Le hará sentirse apreciado, querido y respetado, que es exactamente lo que necesita un chico tímido para iniciar el proceso de convertirse en una mariposa única.
Mantén su confianza
Este es probablemente uno de los mejores consejos de citas cuando se trata de chicos tímidos:
Si un chico tímido te cuenta algo en confianza, ¡nunca traiciones su confianza contándoselo todo a tus amigos o a otras personas!
Todos los expertos en relaciones te dirán lo mismo. Ten en cuenta que él valora la honestidad por encima de todo y le alegrará saber que sus secretos están a salvo contigo.
So if he has told you something in confidence, don’t spread it around and avoid mentioning it to anybody. He needs to know that he can rely on you.
Si traicionas su confíe en, he will never be ready to open up again to you out of the fear that you’ll share his thoughts with the rest of the world just like you did the last time.
Always keep his trust no matter what and he’ll appreciate you and like you even more!
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Reflexiones finales
I sincerely hope you got your answer to ‘How to tell if a shy guy likes you?’ and that you understand better all those señales de que le gustas a un chico tímido.
If you read it carefully, you must’ve caught the fact that he has more good things to bring to the table.
His flaws don’t define him. He’s aware of them and doing his best to grow and be more than his shyness.
Maybe there is a reason for his shyness, maybe life has treated him unfairly. Maybe he opened up and trusted people one too many times even when he shouldn’t have done so.
Probablemente era un poco tímido incluso para empezar, pero si su confianza o su corazón se rompió antesle resultaba aún más difícil confiar en los demás. Le resultaba más difícil acercarse a alguien o permitirse sentir algo por alguien.
There are a lot of maybes and what-ifs when it comes to him. He’s a real jigsaw puzzle. But when he finally sees that he can trust you, that puzzle will gradually start solving itself on its own. And you will probably like him even more!
