Carta al hombre que dejó marchar a la chica adecuada

No lo entiendes, ¿verdad?

Usted todavía no es consciente del hecho de que dejaste ir a la chica que era la correcta. La que podías presentar a tus padres y la que no te avergonzaba mostrar en público. Ya ves, era una mujer a la que amar.

Pero fuiste tan ciego para ver lo que tenías a tu lado. Y ahora, deberías pagar por tus pecados. Deberías pagar por todo el dolor que le causaste a la derecha.

You were selfish enough to forbid her to smile when you were sad, as you didn’t want to see that she was having a good time without you.

Sólo pensabas en ti y en tus necesidades.

And her? Like any woman in love, she blindly listened to all that you had to say. She respected all your decisions, even if she didn’t like them. She suffered to prove to you how big her love was.

But you didn’t even want to fight for her. Instead of that, you were fighting with her.

Every single day was a battle without an end. And every time it broke her heart to pieces. She couldn’t understand that a man who she loved so much could hurt her so tremendously. She couldn’t understand that you had the power to ruin her day by saying only a sentence.

Tus malas palabras le rompieron el corazón pero ella seguía en pie, fingiendo que todo iba bien, mientras ella se desmoronaba por dentro.

When I stop and think now, I don’t get how a man can be so stupid and blind.

Doesn’t he see that the woman next to him accepted all his imperfections and that she is still there?

 

Why doesn’t he respect a woman like that? That is the least he can do. But no! His fucking ego doesn’t let him do it. That’s why he hurt her, pushed her to the boundary of losing her mind, just like you did to her. Did you think it would change something if you hurt her? Did you think she would finally be a puppet in your hands while you were the master puppet, making her do everything that you wanted?

I don’t have a clue what you were thinking but one thing is for sure – you shouldn’t have let the right one go.

Sé que ahora te sientes mal por ello. Sé que hay pensamientos que siguen viniendo cuando te tumbas en tu cama solo. Y te preguntas si podría haber habido otra forma de acabar con todo.

¿Podría haber sido diferente?

You see, it could have been way different if you’d had the guts to love her sincerely. But since you are fucked up, you can’t love anyone without hurting them.

Y deberías habérselo dicho a ella. Deberías haberle dicho que no estabas preparado para una chica perfecta, como lo estaba ella. Y estaba muy claro que ella te amaba con todo su corazón.

She showed you that so many times while you just neglected her, because you took her for granted, thinking that she would stay no matter what you did. You see, you were wrong. A good woman is always aware of her worth and she won’t settle for less than she deserves.

Ahora, después de tantos años sin ella, sigues sufriendo, intentando encontrar el amor en lugares oscuros.

Usted busca mujeres para aventuras de una noche, pero debe saber que nunca le querrán como ella. Ahora, hay otro hombre en su vida, el que no la da por sentada. El que es el adecuado para ella.

El que es su amante, amigo y alma gemela al mismo tiempo. And no, she doesn’t think about you anymore. She decided to leave the past where it belongs.YoPuedes echarla de menos, pero nunca volverá con quien la abandonó.

You can call but she will never pick up. You can fall apart but she won’t see it, because she finally realized that you were never enough for her. She realized that you couldn’t give her all that love and affection that she desperately needed.

Ahora, sé un hombre de verdad y sobrelleva el dolor. Sólo por un segundo, siente lo mismo que ella sintió cuando la dejaste rota y sola. Y llora como ella. Nadie verá tus lágrimas, pero al menos aprenderás cómo no tratar a una mujer que te quiere. Y un día, cuando finalmente sigas adelante, espero que seas capaz de perdonarte a ti mismo por toda esa mierda que le hiciste.

Because, darling, you can bet that she won’t!