15 señales de que estás exactamente donde debes estar ahora mismo
¿Cuántas veces has necesitado que te aseguren que estás exactamente donde debes estar en ese momento? Seguro que demasiadas, como yo mismo y el resto de la humanidad.
Cuando rompemos con nuestro amado or something bad happens, we instantly start thinking that things are going south and we’re not on the right track.
Y esto no es nada que deba preocuparte. Cuestionarte dónde estás en relación con cada aspecto de tu vida no sólo es normal, sino deseable.
Life’s zonas difíciles are inevitable, but this doesn’t mean that dónde estás ahora is not where you’re supposed to be. The truth is otherwise: Estás exactamente donde debes estar.
But, I understand. It’s hard to believe that this is true when you have no evidence of it, right?
No worries. That’s exactly why I’m here today – to help you realize the validity of this statement. (You see, I’m also where I’m supposed to be at the moment of writing this and I could’ve been somewhere else. Hmm…)
You’re not afraid of feeling a wide array of emotions
El deseo de experimentar únicamente emociones positivas como la felicidad está profundamente arraigado en todo ser humano.
We often think that if we’re laughing 24/7 and nothing bothers us then we must be doing everything right and the universe is in our favor.
As you already know, such a thing doesn’t exist.
So, if you no longer feel that way and you’re actually welcoming and embracing a wide array of emotions from joy to heartache, then you know you are exactly where you are supposed to be.
You’re not afraid to cry when you feel like it or when someone makes you sad, and you’re excited about experiencing different emotions.
You don’t try to reprimir los sentimientos de tristeza. En cambio, los expresas sin ninguna vergüenza.
This is the number one sign that you are in touch with your higher self. So, trust me, you’re on the right path and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Desafiarte a ti mismo se ha convertido en tu nuevo hobby
A menudo sales de tu zona de confort y desafía tus creencias, habilidades y conocimientos para seguir evolucionando.
Por eso, a menudo te encuentras en situaciones incómodas, pero para ti, esto ya no es algo de lo que huyas.
En lugar de eso, acepta cada nuevo reto y deja que enriquezca tu mentalidad y tu vida en general.
Since I’ve started practicing a challenging routine, my life has changed completely. Before, I would never agree on streaming video games with my boyfriend, but I did it because I wanted to “face my fears.”
Me puse deliberadamente en una situación incómoda y me di cuenta de que era lo correcto.
Hay muchos otros retos cotidianos menores y mayores que me empujan constantemente a esforzarme más y a cambiar mi perspectiva de las cosas.
They say that the hardest battle you’ll ever fight is against yourself, and if you’re doing just that, then you know dónde estás ahora es exactamente donde tienes que estar.
Other people’s success doesn’t make you feel resentful
When you see that someone is successful in a certain area of their life, you don’t get instantly jealous or think that you’re doing something wrong.
En lugar de eso, recuérdate a ti mismo que cada uno de nosotros tiene su propio camino.
You know that just because you don’t have the same expensive car or aren’t in a relationship at the moment, this doesn’t mean your life is broken and needs fixing.
Te mantienes alejado de compararse con alguien más guapo que tú porque sabes que este hábito es tóxico.
This is a legit proof that you’re happy with your own life and because of that, you don’t compare it with someone else’s or think that they have something better than you.
You understand that every single one of us has our own unique pace and you’re not trying to rush things or overthink the past.
You’re happy where you are at the momento presente and that’s why your perception of other people’s success is positive rather than negative.
Las cosas por fin encajan (y lo sientes con cada fibra de tu ser).
¿Alguna vez ha tenido la sensación de que por fin todo empieza a tener sentido? Tu pasado, presente y futuro se interconectan de repente y ahora entiendes por qué tenían que ocurrir algunas cosas.
Usted experimenta múltiples coincidencias semanal, mensual o incluso diariamente y las cosas van como la seda.
Se podría pensar que estos coincidencias are nothing more than just that, but the truth is that you’re connected with the universe and it’s communicating back.
Las cosas que antes le angustiaban ya no están en su lista de preocupaciones. En general, te sientes bien con todos los aspectos de tu vida y crees que todo encajará tarde o temprano.
And that belief is the essence of being where you’re supposed to be.
Ahora el tiempo es más valioso
You’re aware of the fact that your time here is limited and that is why you value it more than ever before.
Quizá en el pasado dabas el tiempo por sentado, pero ahora te acuerdas a menudo de la fugacidad y de lo pequeño y frágil que eres.
And you’re not afraid of that. You accept it and decide to make the best out of it. Instead of worrying about being stuck in a certain aspect of your life, you focus on finding a solution for it.
If there’s no solution, you won’t waste your time on it; you will move on (this is especially the case with relationships).
You’re determined to spend your time wisely because you know you won’t be able to get it back one day.
Eliges rodearte de aficiones satisfactorias, personas inspiradoras y cosas que te merecen la pena. Romances mediocres, gente tóxica, and other negative things don’t have a place in your life.
Siempre que se encuentra en un entorno nuevo, se pregunta si debe seguir adelante con una determinada idea o echarse atrás.
If your intuition is telling you that it’s not something that will enrich your life one way or another, you listen to it and act accordingly.
El rechazo ya no te asusta
Ya no ves el rechazo únicamente como algo destructivo, sino como algo necesario para tu bienestar y para seguir creciendo.
Of course, you’ll try to give your best to avoid experiencing rejection, but if it still happens, you won’t be paralyzed by it.
You understand that rejection, just like acceptance, is an inevitable part of your life and there’s nothing you can do about it.
You can strive to be the best version of yourself and do the best you can each day, but you don’t have power over every aspect of your life.
That fact doesn’t bother you because you turn rejection into something helpful rather than discouraging. You see it as a chapter of your book called Lecciones de vida.
Other people’s opinions don’t bother you anymore
La razón número uno por la que la gente tiende a preocuparse por lo que piensen los demás es porque inconscientemente buscan validación.
No están satisfechos consigo mismos (sobre todo por su baja autoestima) ni con su vida en general, y por eso buscan la aprobación de los demás.
If you’re less preoccupied with what others will think, then it means you basically don’t give a damn about others’ opinions of you.
You don’t care about gossip, whether they’ll approve of your job or outfit, or anything else. In the same breath, however, this doesn’t mean that you’re disrespectful.
Respetas su opinión, pero más que eso, te respetas a ti mismo y alimentas el amor propio.
You’re open to receiving advice, but you don’t play to their tunes for the sake of winning approval. If you’ve achieved this level of self-growth, then you know you have nothing to worry about.
Preocuparse constantemente por lo que dirán, pensarán o harán los demás es uno de los mayores enemigos que te impiden alcanzar todo tu potencial.
Una vez que callas esas voces, te centras más en ti mismo, en lo que realmente quieres hacer en la vida y en tus sueños.
You no longer do things only to appease others, but because YOU want to and because YOU believe that it’s the right thing to do.
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El pasado se ha convertido en tu amigo
Solías culparte por cosas que sucedieron en el pasado y pensabas demasiado en demasiadas Y si..., but now you’re totally okay with it.
Para el primera vez, comprendes tu pasado y ves tus errores como parte de tu crecimiento.
You accept responsibility for everything you’ve done, but you don’t blame yourself, others, or the universe for anything.
Comprendes que todo sucede por una razón y por eso ya no cuestionas la validez de tus decisiones y resultados pasados.
Ha aprendido mucho de los acontecimientos pasados y está decidido a aplicar esos conocimientos en el presente y el futuro.
Rodearse de gente inspiradora está en la lista de sus prioridades
Perhaps you used to surround yourself with toxic people, narcissists, and other negative crew without even being aware of it. But, now you’ve become selective when it comes to your friendships.
You no longer surround yourself with people who make you feel drained, gossip, or don’t bring quality into your life. You don’t really care if you’re going to have one or one hundred friends.
The only thing you really care about is that those relationships are inspiring and genuine. You have ditched or you’re in the process of alejar a las personas tóxicas de tu vida and you know you’re doing it for your own good.
You know that sacrificing your own happiness and well-being is basically self-destruction, so you’re selective about who you welcome into your life.
Also, you’re constantly working on yourself to be the best you can as a friend, lover, daughter/son, and husband/wife.
You’re less afraid of the unknown
Even though you have no idea what will happen tomorrow, in a week, month, or year from now, you’re still not afraid of it. You’re less afraid of the future because you believe that everything will be alright in the end.
You don’t focus on overthinking things or fearing them. Instead, you focus on finding a solution and you’re optimistic about every aspect of your life, even if others are telling you that you shouldn’t be.
You trust in yourself and because of that, you’re not afraid of what might happen in the future. You know that you’ll fight like a warrior and do the best you can, and that’s all that matters.
Oficialmente, el futuro ya no es algo que te asuste cuando piensas en él, sino que te inspira para ser más fuerte, más sabio y más audaz.
El tiempo a solas se ha convertido en su método de autocuidado favorito
You don’t have a problem being alone because you’re at peace with yourself. Do you know how I know that? Well, one of my friends was constantly in action and she literally couldn’t sit for a second in peace with herself.
She was overly anxious about everything and didn’t even realize that all this time she was running from herself and her problems.
So, if you value alone time and enjoy it, it means you’re in touch with your higher self and you don’t need to be constantly surrounded by other people in order to feel alive and happy.
You don’t need to attend every single event in your area in order to feel like you’re living your life to the fullest.
Pasar algún tiempo a solas se ha convertido en una rutina para ti porque te ayuda a recargarte y a evaluar tus conexiones y dónde te encuentras en este momento.
Este es uno de los mejores autocuidado methods. You see, the fact that you’re worrying whether you are exactly where you are supposed to be is proof that you truly are.
Discutir y juzgar es cosa del pasado
The main reason why we tend to judge others is because we don’t like ourselves.
Al acentuar las peculiaridades y defectos de otras personas (especialmente en redes sociales), we’re making ourselves look more presentable, but that’s not a real perception of how things truly are.
When we try to outsmart others, we’re actually doing it because we think they are smarter than us and we want to prove to ourselves or the world that they are not.
We see everyone as a potential threat to our self-esteem (especially those who are “better than us” in certain areas of life). People sometimes do that because they are not happy with donde ahora mismo.
So, if you don’t feel the need to judge others or argue with them (or you’ve never had the need at all), then you know you’re satisfied with yourself and your life.
It means you’re connected with your verdadero yo y saber que tienes un buena vidapero también dispuesto a mejorar las cosas esforzándose día a día.
La importancia de buscar ayuda no pasa desapercibida
You don’t have a problem asking others for help when needed because you don’t think that this will make you look weak or less competent.
You understand that every single one of us excels at some things that others don’t and you respect that.
So, whenever you have some difficulties that you can’t deal with on your own, you ask for help or advice because you know that this is how it should be.
You’re not supposed to go through or do everything alone and that’s more than okay.
You’re an active, fully responsible participant in your life
Cuidar de sí mismo y de su seres queridos es tu principal objetivo en la vida. Desde tu trabajo hasta autocuidado rituales, you try to do everything the best you can and you’re proud of that.
Su estado de ánimo is in active mode instead of passive because you’re a fully responsible participant in your life. Perhaps you don’t enjoy doing certain things, but you know it’s necessary for improving your existence.
You don’t want anything to be served to you just like that because you value hard work, invested time, and dedication above everything else.
En tu mente, todo es una oportunidad para crecer
Ya no percibes los retos, las contradicciones o las discusiones como algo negativo, sino como oportunidades para aprender cosas nuevas y adquirir nuevas perspectivas.
You’re open to improving your mindset and you’re constantly on the lookout for new ways to grow both mentally and physically. Recently I stumbled upon this amazing quote that is still ringing in my ears:
“You must always be willing to truly consider evidence that contradicts your beliefs, and admit the possibility that you may be wrong. Intelligence isn’t knowing everything, it’s the ability to challenge everything you know.” – Unknown
And here’s one extra sign that you are exactly where you are supposed to be:
Eres único.a-kind unique human being and there isn’t another YOU in the whole world. You are special and you have your own unique path and pace of evolving.
No matter how you’re feeling right now about where you are, remember these wise words by John Lennon:
“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”
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