Gente miserable: 19 hábitos de la gente crónicamente infeliz
Life will not always be easy. There will be some bad times and we’ll all have to deal with them. The only way we can make it easier is to be an optimistic person, someone who always believes that better times will come.
Gente miserable seem like they can’t understand that everything in life is temporary.
Those bad periods in your life won’t last forever. Your problems will be solved and then cosas malas volverá a ocurrir porque la vida es un círculo.
Si actualmente está lidiando con algún cosas malas in your life, you should be patient and have faith because good times will come soon. You don’t have to worry about them because your perspective is what really counts.
How you look at your problems is what’s important and that’s why you should always choose to be happy. Choose to see something positive in every situation. See only the best in others. Hope always for the best.
Piensa en positivo. Sé optimista con todo en la vida. Elige enviar sólo lo bueno vibraciones to other people. That’s how you’ll always be happy in life.
Unfortunately, some people can’t think like this. They are always miserable and they don’t think that they can help themselves or change it. Being miserable has become their modo de vida. That’s why you should be careful.
En vibraciones they’re sending out are somehow addictive. Personas negativas como para hacer que otros se sientan miserables y ya sabes, la miseria ama la compañía.
He aquí algunos hábitos de gente miserable. Para su bienestar y bueno salud mentalIntenta evitar a las personas que tienen algunos de estos hábitos.
1. Nunca ven lo bueno en nada
An eternal pessimist always hopes for the worst. Even if everything is good, they’ll try to find something bad in it and they’ll enjoy it.
Eligen convertir un vista gorda to everything that is good and right in this world. Their perspective of the world is miserable and that’s what also makes them miserable.
They’ll always point out only the cosas malas in every situation because that’s what makes them happy, in their own weird way.
2. Crean una identidad negativa
They weren’t born this way. Something happened to them and it made them create that whole new identity for themselves.
Algo les ocurrió algo malo en el pasado y les deja problemas de autoestima. Incluso puede provocarles sentimientos de ansiedad y depresión.
They weren’t strong enough to fight those feelings and they let them define them. They let those feelings create a negative identidad para ellos. Se convirtieron en una persona tóxica llena de emociones malsanas.
3. Siempre buscan pelea
Por supuesto, podemos tener algunos desacuerdos con algunas personas de vez en cuando, pero estos cróni gente infeliz se buscar pelea de la nada, sólo para hacer infeliz a alguien más también.
They won’t even fight about important things, they’ll choose something irrelevant and absurd. Because for them, the only thing important is to fight with someone; the reason isn’t so important.
It’ll be difficult to stop that fight because they won’t stop until they finish their purpose—to make that other person miserable.
4. Su única motivación es el beneficio personal
Nunca ayudan a los demás si beneficio personal isn’t involved in it somehow. The word ‘help’ just isn’t in their vocabulary.
They’ll do everything to get what they want. They don’t pay attention to other people and they don’t care if they hurt others.
Their personal interests are most important to them. They don’t like to please others because they are selfish and self-centered.
5. Son egoístas
We are all a little bit selfish at times. Sometimes we need to be a bit selfish to protect what’s important to us but if selfishness is one of your personality traits, then you are a miserable persona.
An egoist prioritizes their own needs over someone else’s. They don’t care about other people, their bienestar is what’s only important to them.
They don’t have an understanding of the needs of other people. They aren’t generous and they don’t do things for other people if that doesn’t involve beneficio personal.
6. Su mayor temor son las pérdidas económicas
Gente miserable are always greedy. Money is one of the most precious things to them. They don’t realize that money is a material thing and it won’t hacerte feliz.
You’ll never see them participating in charity events because they consider those events stupid. They aren’t generous and you won’t see them giving their money to anyone, not even to their partner.
Siempre tienen un gran fondo de ahorro y nunca hacen nada con ese dinero.
Creen que las vacaciones son un lujo para ellos y nunca gastan dinero en viajes o vacaciones. Sólo ahorran dinero porque son avariciosos y siempre quieren más.
7. Tienen envidia de las personas de éxito
Other people’s success makes them envious. Odian cuando ven que algunos de sus amigos o conocidos han triunfado en algo.
They’ll never have any good comments on that; they’ll just try to find and point out all the negative things about someone else’s success.
Envidian tu éxito porque siempre piensan que son los únicos que merecen tener éxito. Por extraño que parezca, creen que tu buena fortuna roba a los suyos.
8. Siempre se comparan con otras personas
It seems like some people can’t understand that we are all unique individuals and that we all have different lives.
Gente miserable don’t appreciate anything and no matter how good their life is, they’ll always be jealous or envious of other people’s lives. They just can’t help themselves with those feelings.
Someone will always be more successful, richer or more famous than them and comparing their life with someone else’s will only make them realize it and bring them more misery.
9. Les gusta mucho cotillear
We have to be honest and say that we all love to gossip sometimes and that’s perfectly normal as long as that doesn’t happen every day.
Gossiping about other people’s lives todo el tiempo es un hábito muy gente miserable. The truth is that other people’s lives are more interesting to them than their propias vidas.
Pasan horas en sus redes sociales cuentas, espiando a otras personas sólo para poder cotillear sobre ello más tarde.
10. Siempre se aburren
Nothing is ever adventurous enough for them. They don’t like to try new things and that’s why they feel bored all the time.
They complain about it all the time but they don’t want to do anything about it. They want everyone to know how bored they are and when someone suggests that they do something, they immediately resent that person.
Nunca participan en ninguna actividad de tiempo libre con sus amigos porque les gusta estar todo el día tumbados en casa y todos sus allegados ya se han acostumbrado a sus comentarios sobre que se aburren.
11. They can’t admit their mistakes
Todos somos seres humanos y todos cometemos errores, pero también debemos admitir nuestros errores y disculparnos por ellos.
An apology is unfamiliar to these kinds of people and you should never accept one from them. They don’t think that they can make mistakes and if they have made one, they would never admit to it.
If you’re the one who made a mistake, then they’ll expect you to apologize immediately and they still won’t forgive you that fast. They’ll expect you to prove to them that you are truly sorry.
12. Culpan a los demás
After they have made a mistake, it will be easy for them to point their finger at someone else. They won’t mind lying because lying is easier for them than admitting that they are wrong.
De hecho, pretenden culpar a otro de todos los cosas malas en su vida como su inteligencia emocional les permite jugar a culpar a los demás.
It takes courage to admit that you are wrong and that you’ve made a mistake. These people aren’t that strong and that’s why they choose the easy way—shifting the blame onto someone else.
13. Quieren tener el control
Si tienen pareja, intentarán controlar su vida. They’ll want to have control over every single thing in their life.
They would like to know more about their partner’s life than they should because they’ll think that they have every right to it.
Su inteligencia emocional is high and they’ll first use it to make their partner dependent on them; then they’ll be able to have complete control over their life.
They crave control. They think it’s how they’ll prove to themselves that they are a real alpha.
14. They don’t trust anyone
Maybe someone hurt them in the past and those past hurts still hold them back so they don’t think that they should trust anyone.
They consider that no one is trustworthy and they’ll use your secrets against you sooner or later, which is why they don’t have so many friends.
They don’t think that they would survive confiding in someone and then getting their trust broken again. For them, it’s safer for them to keep it all to themselves.
15. Nunca quieren tener una conversación seria
They are afraid of responsibility and every time you ask them to have a serious talk, they’ll find a way to avoid it.
They are always satisfied with their life and they don’t want to change things so often; in fact, they are afraid of change.
La primera vez you ask them to have a serious talk, you’ll see how nervous they’ll look. They won’t immediately have an excuse ready but you’ll see that they’ll manage to successfully avoid the conversation.
16. Siempre buscan llamar la atención
They are like little kids. They’ll behave so silly just to be in the center of attention, as it’s important for them to feel important.
Todos queremos y necesitamos cierto grado de atención. Sin embargo, hay que poner un límite. Gente infeliz don’t know when to draw the line. They will always be prone to attention-seeking behavior.
17. Nunca están satisfechos con su aspecto físico
They always have a negative body image and they don’t like anything about their looks. It affects their self-esteem and makes them feel miserable.
Siempre se comparan con los demás y sienten celos de todas las personas que tienen una nariz más bonita que ellos o que son más guapos o más bellos.
Esos celos son los que les hacen la vida imposible. Dios creó a todas las personas diferentes y únicas y siempre habrá alguien más bello o más guapo que tú.
Sólo debes centrarte en ti mismo y en crear la mejor versión de ti mismo, pero esto es algo que gente miserable can’t understand.
18. They don’t have any plans for the future
They don’t like to make any plans for the future. They are pessimistic about the future and they always think of the worst.
They overthink every decision they make and that is how they actually create problems that don’t exist. It’s like they can’t accept the fact that there are good things in life and that those good things are happening to them.
Overthinking doesn’t allow them to enjoy cualquier situación de la vida.
They don’t have any expectations in life because they think those expectations would always lead to disappointment and suffering. They are living empty lives, without any dreams and goals.
19. They don’t want to improve
They are never satisfied with anything in life. They don’t like their job, they hate their looks and nothing in their life seems to be right.
Still, they don’t want to do anything about those things. They will complain about those things every day but they’ll never be ready to change anything.
Para terminar
‘A man’s as miserable como he thinks he is’ says Seneca. Being miserable is a choice. If you decide to be truly happy, no one can make you miserable; only you have control over your feelings.
Algunas personas siempre elegirán ser gente miserable, porque tienen perspectivas pesimistas y realmente disfrutan siendo crónicamente infelices.
Don’t try to help those people because they don’t want to change. They are addicted to their misery and it has become their modo de vida.
It’s easy to recognize these people because you’ll immediately feel the negative vibraciones coming from them. That’s why you should try to avoid these kinds of people because their vibraciones puede ser contagiosa.
Life is short, don’t waste your precious time around people who have negative energy. Ignore them. Don’t let anyone’s negativity ruin your happiness.
