Tus lecciones más duras te empujan hacia tus mayores bendiciones

I won’t lie to you: nobody’s life is all roses and butterflies. Yes, there are some people who pretend that they have it all figured out and their every day is perfect, but that is nothing more than deception. 

De hecho, lo cierto es que todos tenemos malos momentos, días, semanas, meses o incluso años. Todos pasamos por algunas cosas que preferiríamos no experimentar, si tuviéramos la opción.

La verdad es que todos tenemos nuestra parte de tristeza. Tenemos nuestras batallas que nadie más conocenuestros fracasos los ocultamos al resto del mundo (incluidos nosotros mismos), y nuestras derrotas nos encantaría olvidarlas. 

The worst part is that sometimes, life isn’t fair, whether we like to accept it or not. 

Sometimes, you do everything by the book, you’re extra careful about other people’s feelings, and you make sure that you don’t hurt anyone, but you simply don’t get the same treatment in return. 

As hard as you try to be the good guy, there are moments where you go through some things you don’t deserve.

Experimentas un duro desengaño causado por un hombre al que diste todo tu amor. Te despiden de un trabajo por el que hiciste tantos sacrificios. 

Que mejor amiga a la que trataste como la hermana que nunca tuviste te apuñala por la espalda cuando menos te lo esperas.

You can’t seem to make ends meet when it comes to money, even though you’ve been working hard ever since you can remember, while it seems that other people’s cash is falling from the sky without them ever doing anything to earn it.

When you look at things from this point of view, you can’t help but see yourself as cursed.

It’s like you are some kind of a magnet for all the misfortune that exists in this world, even though you don’t deserve it.

You can’t see the point of life. Where is the justice and why do bad things have to keep on happening to good people?

Bueno, déjame revelarte un pequeño secreto: Everything you’re going through now will at one point serve as a lesson.

You don’t have to see it at the moment, but eventually, when time passes, you’ll notice that each one of your experiences, including the bad ones, taught you something.

You will learn that all of your pain, sadness, and heartbreaks happened for a reason. That they all shaped you into the person you’re today.

Most importantly, one day, you’ll realize that what you initially thought of as your worst curses actually turn out to be your toughest yet most valuable lessons.

Al fin y al cabo, estas lecciones te empujan hacia tus mayores bendiciones. 

Te enseñan a agradecer todo lo que la fe te envía. A estar agradecido por todas las personas que se cruzan en tu camino, incluso cuando su intención es hacerte daño. 

These lessons shape you into a better, improved, and updated version of yourself. They build you into the woman you’ve been destined to become all along. 

Todas tus malas experiencias te hacen más sabio e inteligente. Además te hacen más fuerte de lo que nunca imaginaste ser. 

Y esa es la mayor bendición de todas: Volverse más poderoso y tener la fuerza y la capacidad de conseguir lo que quieras de la vida.

Todo por lo que has pasado te ayudará a abrir los ojos. Tus maldiciones te enseñarán que puedes vivir sin todas esas personas sin las que pensabas que nunca podrías sobrevivir.

It will help you take off your rose tinted glasses and see reality. It will make you realize that you’re way better off without all those toxic people in your life.

These curses will give you the most valuable lesson out there: Sometimes, when you think that you’ve lost someone or something, you’ve actually won a lot. 

After all, you can’t open your heart or your path to the ones who deserve you until you get rid of those who don’t. 

Basically, you can’t have happiness until you go through sadness and you can’t receive your blessings until you show that you have what it takes to truly understand your curses.