No es exigente, sólo sabe lo que vale
En cuanto un hombre inmaduro conoce a una mujer de verdad que sabe lo que quiere y no tiene miedo de conseguirlo, el primer pensamiento que le viene a la cabeza es que esa chica es demasiado exigente.
He immediately becomes intimidated, fearing that he isn’t good enough for her and ends up accusing her of being demasiado exigente cuando se trata de hombres.
Acusándola de exigir demasiado y de ser una mimada que necesita mimos y que espera que su príncipe azul llegue a su vida montado en un caballo blanco.
Sin embargo, la verdad es bien distinta.
Verás, cuando esta chica te ama, moverá montañas por tu bien.
Hará todo lo que esté en su mano para hacerte sonreír y que seas feliz.
No obstante, there is one thing she’ll never do for a man, no matter how deep her love for him is.
En ningún caso te entregará todo su ser y puso todo su esfuerzo sin que tú le devuelvas nada.
She won’t be the only trying while you are giving your minimum, while acting like you are the best man she could ever have the luck to meet.
The last thing this girl is ready to do is to waste years of her life waiting for some mamma’s boy to grow up and figure out what he wants from life.
She won’t sit around, patiently waiting for you to come to your senses and to finally get your shit together.
This is the woman who won’t lower her standards for any man, no matter how crazy she might be for him.
Sí, apreciará todo lo que hagas por ella, pero nunca te alabará por darle menos de lo que se merece.
Así que si planeas dejar a esta dama boquiabierta sólo porque tienes la decencia de mandarle un mensaje de vez en cuando o comprándole flores sólo porque es una ocasión especial y sabes que se espera algo así de ti, piénsatelo otra vez.
If you think that not cheating on her and not being abusive will make you the best boyfriend material, it’s time for you to reevaluate your worldviews.
Lo que tienes que tener claro es que cosas como la fidelidad, la lealtad y el esfuerzo se esperan en una relación normal y no forman parte de ningún trato especial.
I know that modern dating has tried to convince you that you are the best guy ever just because you agree to put a label on your relationship or because you don’t go around screwing every female who gives you a chance while you have a girlfriend patiently waiting for you at home, but none of these things make you special–they are required and they just make you a normal boyfriend.
Trust me–this girl won’t appreciate you coming back to her after dumping her, being thankful that she has you one way or another.
She won’t praise you the moment you show her a little bit of your attention or when you give her breadcrumbs of you love, thinking they are more than enough.
This doesn’t make her ungrateful or spoiled; it just means that she doesn’t want to settle for anything less that she is giving.
It doesn’t make her stuck up or full of herself.
En cambio, sólo significa que está muy bien consciente de su valor and that she doesn’t want to be with a man who doesn’t see it or who will try to diminish it.
It means that she isn’t scared of being alone and that she would always rather stay single than be with someone who doesn’t fit her standards and doesn’t see and appreciate her worth.
Así que si no eres un hombre que pueda darle todo lo que ella necesita, se lo suficientemente sabio como para alejarte de esta chica a tiempo.
Don’t even try manipulating her into thinking that you are someone you are not because she will see right through you.
Don’t try playing her because she will beat you in your own game.
However, if you think you have what it takes to be her life partner, prepare yourself because you are about to experience a love you’ve never experienced before—the type of love which only a strong woman like her can give you.
