Ser soltero siempre es mejor que luchar por una relación equivocada

¿Tienes miedo de volver a empezar? ¿Crees que es inútil buscar a otra persona, cuando todos los hombres que hay son como tu ex?

¿Te ha hecho emocionalmente dependiente de él? Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can’t survive without his presence in your life?

O ¿es vuestra historia juntos? ¿Se siente triste por el tiempo y el esfuerzo que ha dedicado a esta historia?

¿Sigues aferrado a esta farsa de relación por los años que invertiste en ella?

Because you’ll see it as a waste of time the moment you admit that your romance has failed?

Is it because you can’t stand losing? Do you consider the breakdown of your relationship to be a personal defeat?

¿O tiene miedo de lo que pueda decir la gente? Are you afraid that you’ll be seen as an outcast just because you don’t have your plus one?

Are you still in this relationship because it’s become your comfort zone? Because you’re terrified to step out of it, even though you’re anything but happy.

¿Qué le asusta tanto de vida de soltero? Why exactly do you think that you can’t make it without a man by your side?

Don’t you see yourself as whole? Do you think you need an emotional partner to complete you and to give your life meaning?

At the end of the day, the answers to these questions aren’t important. What matters is that either way, you’re fighting a battle you know you’ll lose.

Sooner or later, you’ll have to admit that it’s time for you and this guy to part ways.

One of these days, you’ll have to accept that the relationship isn’t right for you and that it’s time to say your final goodbye.

¿A qué espera?

Permíteme decirte que no hay absolutamente nada malo en estar soltero. De hecho, puede ser el mejor periodo de tu vida si decides vivirlo como es debido.

I won’t lie to you – getting used to a new scenario in your life won’t be easy at first. There will be times when you’ll feel alone, abandoned, and heartbroken.

Times when you’ll regret your choice and moments when you’ll feel like giving everything you have just to become a part of a couple once more.

However, these crises will pass. And once they do, you’ll be more than happy for making the best decision of your life.

Cuando ocurra, you’ll realize that you’re much mejor soltero que estabas en la relación equivocada.

You’ll see that you’re way happier laying in a cold, empty bed than spending the entire night looking at your boyfriend’s back and wondering where things went wrong.

That it’s much better spending a Valentine’s Day alone que quedarte dormida toda vestida, esperando que aparezca, como acordasteis.

After the initial trauma fades away, you’ll realize it’s much better having your phone silent all the time than spending the entire day arguing over a text, or desperately waiting for a phone call that should but will not come.

That you’re way happier without anyone waiting for you to come home than you were with a possessive jealous psycho who tried to follow your every move.

Most importantly – you’ll understand that fighting for your own future beats luchando por algo que está condenado al fracaso.

Que es mucho mejor invertir tu tiempo y energía en tu propia vida que malgastarlos en batallas inútiles.

Las cosas serán difíciles al principio, pero con el tiempo te darás cuenta de que no tener amor es mejor que tener que mendigarlo, y estar solo es mejor que sentirse solo en una relación.

When you least expect it, you’ll realize that it’s way better to give yourself a chance to be happy on your own than to settle for being unhappy with to the wrong person.