Essere single è sempre meglio che lottare per la relazione sbagliata

Avete paura di ricominciare? Pensi che sia inutile cercare qualcun altro, quando tutti gli uomini là fuori sono proprio come il tuo ex?

Vi ha reso emotivamente dipendenti da lui? Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can’t survive without his presence in your life?

Oppure è la vostra storia insieme? Si sente triste per il tempo e l'impegno che ha dedicato a questa storia?

Siete ancora aggrappati a questa farsa di relazione a causa degli anni che avete investito in essa?

Because you’ll see it as a waste of time the moment you admit that your romance has failed?

Is it because you can’t stand losing? Do you consider the breakdown of your relationship to be a personal defeat?

O avete paura di quello che la gente potrebbe dire? Are you afraid that you’ll be seen as an outcast just because you don’t have your plus one?

Are you still in this relationship because it’s become your comfort zone? Because you’re terrified to step out of it, even though you’re anything but happy.

Cosa la spaventa così tanto di vita da single? Why exactly do you think that you can’t make it without a man by your side?

Don’t you see yourself as whole? Do you think you need an emotional partner to complete you and to give your life meaning?

At the end of the day, the answers to these questions aren’t important. What matters is that either way, you’re fighting a battle you know you’ll lose.

Sooner or later, you’ll have to admit that it’s time for you and this guy to part ways.

One of these days, you’ll have to accept that the relationship isn’t right for you and that it’s time to say your final goodbye.

Allora, cosa state aspettando?

Lasciate che vi dica che non c'è assolutamente nulla di sbagliato nell'essere single. Anzi, può essere il periodo migliore della vostra vita se decidete di viverlo nel modo giusto.

I won’t lie to you – getting used to a new scenario in your life won’t be easy at first. There will be times when you’ll feel alone, abandoned, and heartbroken.

Times when you’ll regret your choice and moments when you’ll feel like giving everything you have just to become a part of a couple once more.

However, these crises will pass. And once they do, you’ll be more than happy for making the best decision of your life.

Quando succede, you’ll realize that you’re much meglio se single di aver vissuto una relazione sbagliata.

You’ll see that you’re way happier laying in a cold, empty bed than spending the entire night looking at your boyfriend’s back and wondering where things went wrong.

That it’s much better spending a Valentine’s Day alone che addormentarsi vestiti di tutto punto, aspettandosi che si presenti, come avevate concordato.

After the initial trauma fades away, you’ll realize it’s much better having your phone silent all the time than spending the entire day arguing over a text, or desperately waiting for a phone call that should but will not come.

That you’re way happier without anyone waiting for you to come home than you were with a possessive jealous psycho who tried to follow your every move.

Most importantly – you’ll understand that fighting for your own future beats combattere per qualcosa che è destinato a fallire.

Che è molto meglio investire tempo ed energie nella propria vita piuttosto che sprecarli in battaglie inutili.

All'inizio sarà dura, ma con il passare del tempo vi renderete conto che non avere affatto l'amore è meglio che doverlo elemosinare e che sentirsi soli è sempre meglio che sentirsi soli in una relazione.

When you least expect it, you’ll realize that it’s way better to give yourself a chance to be happy on your own than to settle for being unhappy with to the wrong person.