Por eso es tan importante la lealtad en una relación

La lealtad se ha convertido en algo parecido a un lujo. La gente mantiene relaciones abiertas en las que acepta acostarse con otras personas, obligando a sus parejas a aceptarlo. Nadie entiende realmente lo que es la lealtad porque it’s more than not sleeping around. La lealtad es una parte sagrada de la relación. La lealtad te da la completa capacidad de ser tú mismo porque puedes confiar en que tu pareja estará ahí para ti porque ama a tu verdadero yo.

¿Por qué es importante la lealtad? Why can’t people just go around texting whoever they want, sleeping around and never committing to one person fully?

I have a story about a man who didn’t know that he would destroy me with his games and his necesidad constante de tranquilidad y la atención de otras mujeres.

Siempre he sido un monógamo serio. If I fall in love with you, it’s all or nothing and it can’t be anyone else in my life but you. But what he did to me was unbelievable. Of course I sat him down to talk with him about how loyalty really is important to me and that I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t take me seriously.

Vi cómo miraba a otras chicas, diciéndome siempre que no era nada serio y que el problema era que yo era demasiado sensible. A sus ojos, yo no era más que una mujer con baja autoestima, sin pensar nunca que sólo querría que él me demostrara que me respeta lo suficiente como para dejar realmente de flirtear y microtrampas.

Pasaron los días y nada cambió. I, as someone who really did love herself and would always respect my own wants and needs, started to doubt the thoughts that were going through my head. I started to believe that I was paranoid and that my mind wasn’t open enough for this modern type of dating.

Realmente empecé a pensar que no era nada. Quería que siguiera en mi vida porque le quería y quería que nuestro amor fuera libre. Pero a partir de ese día, no volvería a dormir a mi lado.

Hablar de esto me duele mucho. Just imagine how I have must felt. I thought of myself as stupid because I wasn’t able to express my needs in a way to keep everyone who doesn’t want to follow them out of my life. I decided not to let my standards down for a man, ever again.

If you want to be with me, you have to be loyal and show me that you only want me in your life. If for some reason loyalty isn’t that important to you, than move on. Don’t even start flirting with me. Don’t call me on dates. Bye.

I know that this may seem extreme, but the importance of loyalty is seen in the aftermath that remains after the person has left you for another woman. The pain that remains afterwards, the self-doubt and the constant thoughts that keep on telling that you are not enough and that you can’t be loved the way you are, simply make me believe that there is nothing that can break a woman more than a cheating man.

La importancia de la lealtad se ve en la forma en que no soy capaz de volver a confiar en nadie. Cuando un hombre me dice que me quiere y me desea, sólo oigo las palabras de un infiel. Cada vez que un hombre es amable conmigo, me imagino a su novia, esperando a que vuelva a casa.

You see, that’s why loyalty is so important.

You have to know what you’re doing to the person you’re cheating on! They will ask themselves for the rest of their lives why weren’t they good enough for you and what could they have done better to make you happy and to make you love them more.

Don’t ever cheat on your partner. Loyalty really is the most important quality a person can have. Amar a un infiel te rompe como ninguna otra cosa.