Por qué tienes que ser una chica a la que simplemente no le importa una m**da

Sé egoísta. En serio. Sé egoísta. ¿Desde cuándo está bien ignorar por completo tu vida y tus necesidades para hacer que otra persona se sienta mejor? ¿Qué hay de ti? ¿Qué pasa con tu vida? ¿Tu vida cuenta?

You’re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can’t turn back time and if you don’t take care of yourself, one day you’ll be sorry. One day you’ll regret putting yourself last.

Focus on your goals and your dreams because if you don’t try to make yourself happy, no one else will do it for you.

Sé quién eres porque yo soy tú.

Eres el único hombro en el que pueden llorar los demás. Cuando tus amigos se sienten mierda, they go to you because they know you’ll make them feel better.

You’ll tell them to put themselves first, to love themselves and do what makes them happy. But are you doing the same thing for yourself?

Let me tell you the answer: You’re not. When someone else is hurting, you know just the right thing to say but in the meantime, you don’t even see that you’re going through the same thing.

Ignoras completamente tu propio dolor.  

You don’t even see that you are unhappy, that you put everyone else before you. Your dreams and your goals decay because you’re too busy saving other people’s lives. Just stop it!

Sigue tu propio consejo y vive tu vida al máximo.

Cambia toda tu vida si es necesario. Empieza de nuevo.

Sé que es más fácil decirlo que hacerlo, pero si quieres que las cosas mejoren, no tienes otra opción.

You can pretend that you’re happy and keep living the way you live but you’ll reach your punto de ruptura and you’ll want to start all over. The thing is, it may happen too late. Maybe then you won’t be able to do anything about it.

Así que, ¡hazlo ya!

Si quieres, múdate a otra ciudad. Si te levantas cada mañana con una sensación desagradable en el estómago porque tienes que ir a un trabajo que odias, cambia de profesión. Encuentra algo que te haga sentir mejor.

Here’s a thought: If it’s possible, do it.

Don’t worry about other people. Don’t worry about what they are going to say to you or how they are going to react. Think of your new decisions as a means of understanding who actually gives a damn about you.

You’ll see; people who really care for you, people who love you, will support you. They will try to make your path easier and they won’t judge you.

Los que te dan la espalda son los que más energía te quitan. Son vampiros emocionales, personas que se alimentan de ti para sentirse mejor.

Life is not easy and this is the cheesiest sentence ever but it’s true: You never know where it’s going to take you. You never know what you are going to live through.

All the roads you have taken, you chose to take for a reason. All the wrong choices you’ve made led you to maturity and realization. Not giving a fuck is just one of the things you have to do.

Tienes que aprender de tus errores y trabajar en ti mismo. Tienes que aprender a quiérete a ti mismo porque nadie es más importante para ti que tú mismo.

Don’t be scared of the people who judge. They will always have a reason to say something, no matter what you do. Even if you give it everything you’ve got, they will find a reason to say something bad.

Hang out with whomever you want to hang out with. Do whatever you want to do, even if you know it’s wrong. You have to do it to make sure you won’t do it ever again. Blow off some steam and never hold anything inside.

If you do, it will explode eventually. You won’t be able to hold it in any longer, and then you’ll be screwed. Then you’ll realize that every time you wanted to do something and you didn’t, that was a time you destroyed yourself a little bit more.

Ponte lo que quieras y mantén la cabeza alta. Camina por la calle como si fueras su dueña porque si quisieras, podrías. Nadie puede hacerte daño y lo sabes.

Muestra tu amor propio y brilla con confianza. Simplemente deja de dar por culo.

You’re not supposed to live life unnoticed. You were born one of a kind, unique. Live your life that way. Don’t let that beautiful interior of yours perish. Don’t let it go unnoticed.

Brilla lo más que puedas porque sólo tienes esta oportunidad de hacerlo.

Hoy.

Ahora.