Qué hacer cuando tu hombre Piscis se echa atrás: 9 formas de hacerlo retroceder
Todo era (casi) perfecto con su hombre Piscis. Era emocional, cariñoso y romántico. Pero entonces algo cambió. Se alejó y ahora no tienes ni idea de por qué y cómo debes comportarte.
Is he ignoring you on purpose? Did you do something that “motivated him” to back off? Is he playing games with you?
As you’re thinking about what to do when your Pisces man backs off, you feel like every second of doing nothing is taking him further away from you. Worry not, because today we’ll find answers to all your questions.
You’ll learn exactly what you should do when your Pisces man backs off, why he pulls away, how you can make him miss you like crazy, etc.
You’ll learn all you need to know to get him back!
Qué hacer cuando tu hombre Piscis se echa atrás
You could sit and wait for things to unravel naturally or you could roll up your sleeves and enter action mode! If you’re unsure about what to do when your Pisces man pulls away, just use these tips:
1. Hay que darle espacio
¿Crees que distanciarte de un hombre Piscis es una buena idea? Seguro que sí.
De hecho, cuando tu hombre Piscis se aleja, dándole espacio es imprescindible. Además, como Psychology Today suggests, you shouldn’t panic when your partner is pulling away.
Leaving a Pisces man alone will give him enough time to think about everything that’s going on between the two of you. It will also let him know that you’re not clingy or desperate.
He’ll see it this way: “Okay, she noticed that I pulled away and she respects that. Instead of blaming me, she gave me some space to sort out my feelings and I appreciate that.”
By giving him space, you’ll earn brownie points when it comes to getting him back on track.
2. Evalúe su comportamiento
Dar espacio a un hombre tiene innumerables ventajas. Uno de ellos es tener tiempo suficiente para evaluar su propio comportamiento.
Piensa en los últimos días/semanas/meses que has pasado con tu hombre Piscis. Además, piense en las siguientes preguntas:
• Were there any discusiones en la relación?
• How was your overall behavior towards him?
• Did you miss something in your relationship?
You see, when someone pulls away from you (especially a Pisces man), their decision to do so doesn’t happen overnight. Por eso tienes que reflexionar sobre tu propio comportamiento para ver si desencadenaste su decisión de guardar silencio.
Además, reflexionar sobre vuestra relación en general os dará una idea de lo que hay que mejorar en el futuro.
3. Dile cómo te hace sentir su comportamiento
Sometimes, we don’t see how our behavior is affecting others until they tell us. That’s exactly what you need to do with him. Dile abierta y sinceramente cómo te hace sentir su comportamiento..
Puedes decirle o enviarle un mensaje de texto algo así:
“Hey, I don’t know why you decided to back off all of a sudden. This makes me feel distressed and confused because I don’t know what exactly is going on. It would help me a lot if you could talk to me about it.”
Given that Pisces are known for being emotional, I’m sure he won’t ignore your “request for clarification”.
4. Aliviar su estado de ánimo
Hmm… How can you lighten the mood of a Piscis signo zodiacal? Fácilmente. Recuérdale algo gracioso que te ocurrió hace mucho tiempo.
Tell him that you baked his favorite cake (even if it’s not his birthday). Send him a funny meme, joke, or something else that will make his day.
Impresiónale con tu sentido del humor. Recuérdale lo que le atrajo de ti en primer lugar. As you can see, lightening his mood is not about wearing something hot. It’s more about tapping into his emotional side and helping him relax.
5. Evitar el juego de culpas
If you’re wondering how to get a Pisces man back, then there’s one thing you need to memorize ASAP: Avoid the blame game!
What does this mean? It means that you shouldn’t blame him for deciding to back off. Comprendo que es más fácil decirlo que hacerlo, pero a veces hay que transigir.
Uno de los cosas que un hombre Piscis encuentra atractivas es un enfoque suave. Esto significa respetar su necesidad de tiempo a solas y evitar forzarle a nada (especialmente a las conversaciones).
5. Inicie una comunicación abierta y honesta con él
As you may already know, there’s a thin line between forcing and initiating a conversation. Initiating means asking him whether he’s ready to talk to you about what’s going on in his head.
If he says that he’s still not ready to talk about it, then give him more alone-time. If he says that he’s ready for an open and honest conversation, then pawesome! (Abraza el idioma del perro. ?)
Allow him to express himself and tell you everything that’s on his mind. Show understanding, ask him some questions if you need more clarification, and then tell him your side of the story.
As always, if there’s something you have difficulty agreeing on, just compromise.
6. Muéstrale tu lado vulnerable
Cuando un hombre Piscis se distancia, lo último que tienes que hacer es culparle por ello. Eso sólo empeoraría las cosas (hablo por experiencia).
Lo que tienes que hacer es mostrarle tu lado vulnerable porque eso le ayudará a abrirse a ti.. Ser emocionalmente vulnerable hará que se sienta más cómodo expresando sus sentimientos y contándote lo que le molesta.
Así que, cuando mantengas una conversación con él, asegúrate de añadir también tu vulnerabilidad a la ecuación. De este modo, el resultado positivo está garantizado.
7. Haz algo romántico para él porque sí
Even birds know that Pisces are hopeless romantics and that’s the love language they understand best. If you’re still thinking about what to do when your Pisces man backs off, here’s a hint: Do something romantic for him!
Envíale uno de esos (para algunos cursis) romantic ‘thinking of you’ messages. Si crees que enviarle por qué Te quiero won’t seem to him that you’re “overdoing it”, then do it.
There are multiple ways in which you can surprise him romantically. All you need to do is turn on your creativity. I’m sure you’ll make it!
8. Haz que anhele tu presencia
Here’s the ultimate guide on how to keep a Pisces man wanting you summarized in one sentence: Make him crave your presence.
If you send him 384849 texts and call him 38499 times, he surely won’t crave your presence. Instead, he will feel suffocated and disturbed because you’re not respecting his decision to pull away.
You’ll make him crave your presence by continuing vivir tu mejor vida CON o SIN él. Así que aprovecha esta oportunidad para publicar algunas fotos divertidas tuyas y de tus amigos yendo de aventuras.
“Let him see what he’s lost” and he’ll be drawn to you. It’s just how we humans are wired and your Pisces man is no exception.
9. Demuéstrale cuánto le valoras y aprecias
Oh no, you’re still thinking about what to do when your Pisces man backs off. Here’s my final tip for you: Value and appreciate him.
I know that this is probably the last thing you’d want to do but keep in mind that it might be the best thing you can do at the moment. Maybe he’s having some internal issues and he just needs some encouragement to feel better.
Hazle un cumplido, and show him how much you value everything he did/does for you. Make him feel good about himself because maybe that’s exactly what he needs to “come to his senses”.
¿Por qué los hombres Piscis retroceden?
One of the most common reasons why Pisces men back off is that they’re dealing with some unresolved issues. This could, but doesn’t have to be, connected with you. Here are all the possible reasons why Pisces men back off:
1. He’s dealing with some internal issues
Perhaps the reason why he suddenly decided to pull away is that he’s going through a challenging period regarding his personality. If he’s still struggling to find a purpose, chances are he won’t be ready for commitment.
It’s obvious that he needs some alone-time to work on himself. His internal issues are forcing him to back off every time you come closer to him. Just give him some space, and he’ll come back to you when he’s ready.
2. He feels like you’re being emotionally distant
Why do pisces distance themselves? I know you probably didn’t expect this one but it’s possible that you’re being emotionally distant and that’s what made him distance himself.
Many people who are emotionally unavailable aren’t even aware of that. Luckily, Pisces men have a special radar for such purposes.
Saben reconocer instintivamente un mujer emocionalmente no disponible. Se distancian para protegerse.
3. Eras posesivo y celoso
If there’s one thing Pisces men are really “allergic to”, it’s possessiveness and jealousy. Si te comportaste así recientemente, entonces sabes por qué tu hombre Piscis decidió dar marcha atrás.
But don’t get me wrong. Los hombres Piscis pueden ser celosos too, but they’re usually so good at hiding it. (Yes, that fact makes me envy them. ?)
4. He’s not sure about his feelings for you
When a Pisces man isn’t sure about his feelings for you, this will surely make him back off. He will feel a strong urge to “go silent mode” for some time.
Y sí, acostarse con un hombre Piscis demasiado pronto can only complicate things. If you know that your Pisces man is unsure of his feelings for you, don’t rush things.
Of course, you also shouldn’t allow him to play with you because jugando con tus sentimientos es cualquier cosa menos divertido.
5. He thinks you’re playing games with him
Sometimes, Pisces men have difficulty understanding a woman’s desires, affection, and her overall behavior. Because of that, they start to think that she’s playing games with him.
Of course, in some cases they are right about. But, most often, they are not. If you know for sure that you didn’t play games with him, then explain to him that it’s only in his head.
Además, tenga en cuenta que a veces un hombre Piscis te pone a prueba to see whether you’re playing games with him. So, his decision to back off is actually a part of his test.
6. Has perdido su confianza
¿Has mentido alguna vez a tu hombre Piscis? ¿Has hecho algo a sus espaldas?
Once you lose a Pisces man’s trust, it will be really hard to regain it. Firstly, he will most certainly back off to think about what he should do next.
If you’re thinking about what to do when a Pisces man backs off because you lost his trust, it’s time to help him overcome his problemas de confianza.
If your actions caused him to lose trust, then explain to him that this won’t happen again. If he’s imagining things, then prove to him that there’s no reason to question anything.
7. You weren’t affectionate enough
Cuando un hombre Piscis se enamorase convierte en un romántico empedernido. Te colma de afecto, te escribe cartas de amor, te prepara un café por la mañana, lo que se te ocurra.
He does all these things to make you feel special and loved. If you don’t reciprocate, he will most surely be disappointed in you. Alejarse es sin duda una de las señales de que un hombre Piscis ha perdido el interés.
If you know that you weren’t affectionate enough lately, know that this is the reason why he decided to distance himself. Well, now that you know the real reason, it’s time to make things right!
8. You don’t share the same goals
Do you and your Pisces man share the same goals or is there a huge gap between your goals and his? When you don’t share the same goals, a Pisces man will see this is a huge red flag.
Se apartará inmediatamente y empezará a buscar posibles soluciones. También se tomará un tiempo para evaluar vuestra compatibilidad general.
Once he’s done with all that, you can expect him to contact you. If both you and him think that not sharing the same goals might be an issue, then it’s best to go your separate ways.
Sin embargo, si crees que es algo en lo que puedes trabajar o aceptar, no dudes en seguir tu instinto.
9. He’s anxious about committing
Dado que los hombres Piscis son uno de los signos más emocionales del zodíaco, esto podría convertirse en un problema cuando están a punto de comprometerse con alguien.
Si tu hombre Piscis está ansioso por comprometerse, se echará atrás sin pensárselo dos veces. But you shouldn’t worry about it because he’s just taking some time to think about everything and evaluate his feelings for you.
Por mi experiencia personal, puedo confirmar que una de las mayores signos de que le gustas a un hombre Piscis is if he’s being careful about commitment.
That means he’s thinking about giving you his body, heart, and soul. And he needs to be 100% sure that his decision is right.
¿Cómo pedir disculpas a un hombre Piscis?
If you’re “guilty” of hurting or disappointing a Pisces man one way or another, the first thing you need to do is say a simple “I’m sorry” and then explain the whole situation.
Assure him that you won’t repeat the same mistake again. Discúlpate como si realmente lo sintieras, incluso puedes añadir un gesto romántico significativo a la ecuación también.
A Pisces man will appreciate your efforts and that is how he’ll know that you’re truly sorry. However, keep in mind that once you lose his trust, it will take some time to regain it.
¿Cómo hacer un hombre Piscis Miss You como un loco?
Para que un hombre Piscis te eche de menos como un loco, tienes que explotar tu lado romántico y emocional. Enviarle textos emotivos, cartas o poemas le derretirá el corazón.
Simply expressing your feelings to him will also make him miss you like crazy when you’re not there with him. Tus gestos románticos deben gritar las siguientes cosas: AFECTO, ESFUERZO, GENUINIDAD.
Showing your emotional side will make him crazy about you because he’ll see that you belong to his crew. So, yes, that is how you’ll make him miss you like crazy!
Ármate de paciencia
Don’t worry too much about what to do when your pisces man backs off. But how should you do it? If your words and actions don’t come from the heart, your Pisces man will notice it.
Also, don’t forget to arm yourself with patience because it might take some time until you pull him back. As you’re in the process of pulling him back, don’t pressure him and don’t blame him.
En lugar de eso, dale algo de espacio y muéstrate comprensiva. Tu hombre Piscis lo apreciará más que nada. Mucha suerte.
