F*ck Him For Like You, But Not Enough To Commit

Some believe that when it comes to love, there is no grey zone. Either you’re enamorado or you’re not. There’s no room for anything in between.

But what happens when the one you’re in love with wants to spend time with you but doesn’t want to commit? He wants to be with you, but he doesn’t want a relationship? Why would he show interest and then bail on you?

Siento tu frustración. Puede ser tan confuso cuando alguien es tan atento contigo, te hace sentir tan querida y luego se aleja y te fantasma durante un tiempo. Puede ser tan difícil intentar descifrar qué podría poseer a un hombre para comportarse de una forma tan cruel.

Regardless of how much it kills you not knowing and trying to get to the bottom of his behavior, don’t waste your precious time and nerves on figuring out somebody who clearly has no idea lo que quiere and cannot appreciate a good thing, even when it’s standing right in front of him.

If you want the honest truth, here it is. Yeah, he likes you – just not enough to commit to you. And screw him for that!

Por eso siempre vuelve arrastrándose después de romper. Porque está claro que le encanta tu compañía, pero no lo suficiente como para comprometerse permanentemente.

F*ck anyone who treats you like you’re not enough!

Que le jodan por pasar un fin de semana increíble contigo y luego negarse a coger tus llamadas durante toda la semana siguiente.

Que se joda por decirte lo increíble que eres y luego seguirte la corriente durante semanas.

Que se j*da por enviarte un mensaje a altas horas de la noche diciendo que te echa mucho de menos pero negándose a poner una etiqueta a vuestra relación.

Que le den por no esforzarse nada, después de asegurarte que quiere estar contigo, pero esta vez de verdad.

You’ve experienced enough lies and tricks from him to expect nothing more than empty words substantiated by occasional professions of affection, which usually translates to sex and a few scattered texts.

You’re better than una llamada de botínRecuerda que, por muy buen amante que sea o por mucho que consiga convencerte para que le perdones por milmillonésima vez. Ya es suficiente. Que le den.

The most important thing here is to know better than to take it personally. You should know by now that it most definitely isn’t you. It’s him. It’s not your fault that he can’t appreciate you for the amazing woman that you are.

Never change who you are for someone who won’t know how to appreciate you either way. Never change how you see yourself due to somebody not being able to see you in your full glory. And never let someone diminish your worth by treating you like you’re only what he makes of you.

I know you’re hurting right now. But the reason for that is not because you’re losing the guy who’s right for you because he’s not.

The reason you’re hurting is because your ego has been rocked by his inconsistent pattern of behavior. Don’t let that faze you too much. He’s not important enough to shatter your self-confidence.

This sucks, sure. But you can’t force people into feeling things that aren’t there. As brutal as it is to hear this, it’s true.

Lo único que puedes hacer es apreciar a los que saben lo que vales y dejar marchar a los que te hacen sentir menos que nadie.

You’re a smart, badass, sexy specimen of a human being. And no temporary man can prove you otherwise. Let that f*cker go, and make yourself available for when the right guy comes along.