Que te trate mal es señal de que no se quiere a sí mismo
Apuesto a que era maravilloso cuando se conocieron. Hizo todo según las reglas. Llamaba y mandaba mensajes regularmente.
Te colmaba de atenciones. Era amable y dulce. Se esforzaba.
Justo cuando empezabas a pensar que vivías en una de esas novelas románticas perfectas, él te demostró lo contrario.
His behavior changed so drastically. At first, he couldn’t stand to be apart from you or to hear from you. Then all of a sudden, he completely ignored you.
Trust me when I say you had nothing to do with his behavior. It’s not that he doesn’t like you anymore. He did it because he doesn’t like himself.
A confident man, a man who loves himself, behaves differently. Even if he loses interest in a woman, he will tell her. If he’s not ready for a relationship, he will be honest about it.
He won’t string her along and treat her like she is the center de su universo sólo para poder deshacerse de ella más tarde como si no significara nada.
That’s not how a real man behaves. That’s how cobardes y los manipuladores juegan.
That’s why he deliberately started your relationship with love bombing. He knew you will hold on to that perfect beginning when he starts mistreating you later on.
Sabía que esos momentos perfectos con él te bastarían para seguir perdonándole cada vez que te hiciera mal. Que serán suficientes para que esperes que vuelva a cambiar. Pero nunca lo hará.
Men like him don’t change; they only get worse.
Sadly, you are unable to see it right away. You can’t grasp that someone who was so warm and loving to you can be so cold and heartless.
A pesar de todo, sigues creyendo en lo bueno que hay en él. Sigues reviviendo esos momentos felices con él y te aferras a ellos con todas tus fuerzas.
Te culpas de todo porque él te enseñó a hacerlo. Siempre fue tan hábil, y siempre interpretó el papel de víctima tan maravillosamente.
You truly started to believe that everything he says is the truth. And it’s no wonder because he used every atom of his strength to lower your self-esteem. He needed to make you emotionally weak, so he could rule your life.
Don’t trust him when he says he loves you. He is incapable of love you because he doesn’t love himself.
If he treats you poorly, don’t believe his declarations of love. Trust your tears. Trust your nervous breakdowns. Trust your feeling of helplessness that he is not the one for you.
Don’t trust his words because words don’t mean much when acciones fallidas.
El único que puede amarte es el hombre que ya se ama a sí mismo.
Derramará todo su amor sobre ti, desinteresadamente. Te tratará bien, pase lo que pase. Seguro que tendréis desacuerdos de vez en cuando, pero nunca te hará pasar por un infierno.
Un hombre que se ama a sí mismo será el viento bajo tus alas. Nunca se le pasará por la cabeza menospreciarte o hacerte sentir menos porque te tiene en gran estima.
You see a man like this will make efforts not excuses. He will give as much as he takes. He will never make you feel alone. A man who loves himself will know how to love you, and that’s the only truth.
So, wait for him…find him… find yourself and acknowledge your worth. Don’t allow anybody to treat you like you are unworthy. Don’t settle for someone who treats you badly. That’s not love… that’s torture.
