6 señales alarmantes de que tu novio necesita tiempo a solas

¿Has notado algo diferente en tu novio últimamente? ¿Se ha mostrado distante de repente y siempre que intentas hablar con él parece ausente?

Se enfada fácilmente por las cosas de las que antes se reía y te sientes impotente sin saber qué hacer y cómo llegar a él.

The biggest problem with guys is that they won’t tell you when something bothers them because they are taught to find solutions on their own and to keep things to themselves.

Les cuesta abrirse a ti porque temen ser juzgados o mostrarse vulnerables ante ti.

And that is why he’ll choose to stay silent instead of telling you that he just needs some time for himself.

Pero se olvida de que sus acciones dicen mucho de cómo se siente y siempre puedes ir un paso por delante de él si prestas atención a estas 6 señales alarmantes que indican que sólo necesita un tiempo a solas.

He’s feeling down all the time

It is completely normal to feel down sometimes but if he’s constantly in a bad mood and when you ask him for a reason, he tells you that he doesn’t know, this might mean that he needs some alone time in order to recharge.

Another indicator is if he’s no longer enjoying the activities the two of you used to enjoy before. This means he has some barriers that are preventing him from relaxing and enjoying spending time with you.

He’s making excuses

Si te das cuenta de que tu novio es poner excusas every time you ask him to go for a drink or something else, it is the ultimate sign that he needs alone time. Don’t confuse this with his affection toward you.

This has nothing to do with you and you shouldn’t be offended if he starts making excuses all of a sudden. Just be patient and leave him be for some time and he’ll come back to you rejuvenated.

Pasa mucho tiempo con sus amigos

When a guy feels like he’s suffocating in a relationship, he’ll start spending a lot of time with his friends. His friends will become his shelter from the things that might bother him and that is why he’ll spend more time with them than he’s spending with you.

Perhaps you’re ser demasiado necesitado or you’re not giving him some space for himself? Think about the possible reason that might have caused this sudden change of behavior.

Also, don’t forget to give him some time with his friends because it is his way of dealing with things. And don’t forget that this is just temporary.

He’s not that interested in sex

If a guy is not interested in sex, you can be sure that something’s going on with him.

He’s probably lost his will for sex due to being overly annoyed or irritated by some trivial things. He simply cannot be relaxed because his subconscious is telling him that he needs some alone time to come to his senses.

He’s delaying his replies

If you’ve noticed that it takes him more time than usual to text you back, it means he needs some space.

Te dejará esperando su respuesta no porque quiera castigarte, sino porque no puede luchar contra el impulso de hacerte saber sutilmente que quiere estar solo.

I know it’s hard not to get mad when something like this happens but try to respect his decision and he’ll appreciate you even more. Next time you find yourself waiting for him to reply, simply ignore it and give him some space.

Hiere tus sentimientos sin querer

If he’s constantly looking for arguments (for no apparent reason) and only to get rid of his rage, you’ll know it’s time to intervene and pull away.

He might even say something insulting to you just because he’s desperate to have his alone time.

I know it would be much simpler if he decided to say this to you (instead of making a scene) but that’s just how guys work. You can never know what’s on their mind until their actions show it.