Haz estas 6 cosas coquetas para ayudarle a dar el primer paso

I’ll be the first to admit I’ve been in numerous situations where I was crushing on a guy así que tan mal que sólo quería que por fin captara mi indirecta y diera el primer paso.

But unfortunately, guys don’t read minds… (if only, right?), so I had to muster up the courage and give him a hint or two that I was more than open to him making a move on me and that usually did the trick!

So let’s go back to the guy you’re trying to win over.

¿Estás seguro de que he’s interested?

There’s always a possibility that maybe you’re not on his radar yet but that can all be easily changed, no worries.

There are many potential reasons why he still hasn’t made a move, so there’s no reason to be alarmed just yet!

Let’s see some possible explanations:

Se toma su tiempo. This guy doesn’t like to rush things and believes that everything that’s worth a damn is worth waiting for.

Teme que le rechaces.  Don’t we all? Show him how wrong he is and give him a reason to ganarte.

He’s just not sure how to make his move.  Algunos chicos están más que ansiosos, pero no saben exactamente cómo hacer su movimiento. Ayúdale a descubrirlo.

Quiere que tomes el volante.  Which is not a bad thing. When you show some initiative, he’ll be hooked and more often than not—reciprocate.

He doesn’t know you’re into him.  Some guys are just oblivious to what’s in front of them. But it’s a good thing you’re about to learn how to make him swoon.

Now that we’ve covered some potential reasons why he still hasn’t made his move, hopefully you’ve managed to find your possible explanation and now you’re ready to embark on a mission to flirtatiously let him know you’re hooked and ready to be swept off your feet!

Lánzate a ligar.

Esto es bastante obvio, pero siempre merece la pena mencionarlo.

It all starts with a little flirty fun. I mean… how else is he supposed to know you’re even interested?

Give him something to work with and he’ll find the courage to win you over. 

Tal vez preguntar a algunos preguntas coquetas? O puedes utilizar el poder de bromas coquetas. 

Don’t forget about the sensual power of touch!

And I’m not talking about being aggressively straightforward or groping him in public.

What I mean is a light, innocent touch on his arm as you’re passing him by… followed by a smile and a perhaps a friendly wink? Totally up to you!

Maybe brush against him while trying to walk toward something in a crowded room and pretend to be sorry (but we both know you’re really not…)

Deja caer una indirecta obvia mientras chateas.

Podría estar hablando de cualquier cosa en realidad, todo lo que tiene que hacer es desviar ligeramente el tema hacia algo que pueda relacionarse con las relaciones y la búsqueda del amor.

Then casually mention you believe guys should always make the first move and that you’re always more than happy to be wooed.

He’ll take the hint unless he’s totally oblivious (let’s hope he isn’t).

Make gazing eye contact as much as possible! (But don’t overdo it).

Occasionally, while you’re in his company, focus your gaze on his eyes and don’t let up for a few seconds minimum.

Profundo contacto visual es una de las cosas más calientes que puedes hacer mientras ligas.

Mantente concentrado, con una mirada sutil y misteriosa y cuando hayan pasado esos segundos, baja la cara, suelta un suave suspiro con una sonrisa tímida y sigue hablando de lo que sea que estuvieras hablando, tan interesado como sea posible.

He’ll be thinking about that smile while trying to remember what the hell he was even talking about.

Don’t be afraid to get close to him!

Stand close to him while you’re talking, sit next to him on nights out, no matter how many people there are and always find an excuse to whisper something in his ear.

Like when you’re in a crowded bar and you can’t hear each other over all the noise.

Be in close proximity, let your bodies touch and always look at him as if he’s the only person there.

Who wouldn’t be able to decipher those signals?

Podrías estar a segundos de que finalmente te bese, así que mantente cerca.

Unless he’s made of steel, his guard will let up.

Menciona una película que realmente quieras ir a ver.

Es una forma estupenda de animarle a que por fin te pida salir.

You’re being more than upfront with your subtle suggestion and all he needs to do is say you should totally go see that movie and there you go!

All he needs is a slight nudge in the right direction and to know he’s not going to be faced with rejection and he’ll be making all sorts of moves on you.

After all, first dates are more often than not exactly that—going to the movies.

So there’s nothing really to decipher there, just a guy who’s about to figure out he’s being asked out in a subtle, clever way where he just needs to put a dot on that ‘i’ and seal the deal!