Una vez que me costaste la tranquilidad, tenías que irte

There is a lot I am prepared to take for love. If it’s the real deal, there is not much I wouldn’t do, and nowhere I wouldn’t go. But there is one thing I would never sacrifice for ANYONE, and that is my inner peace.

I’ve been in enough relationships to know that if there is one thing you should never tolerate, no matter how much in love you are, that is somebody disturbing your inner paz . That is the one thing I’m not giving to anyone. And you shouldn’t either.

It is totally normal to expect certain trials and tribulations in a relationship. It is also normal to feel an array of emotions, some that you don’t even understand yourself, but it’s never okay to not have your peace of mind due to your significant other.

How do you know when you’ve had enough? How do you know when to call it quits? That is a difficult question. Everyone has their boiling point. But in my opinion, if it even comes to that, I have no more patience for you.

La paz interior es algo increíblemente difícil de alcanzar. Es difícil incluso explicarlo. Tienes que entrenar tu mente para que no te altere algo que normalmente te molestaría. Tienes que decirte a ti mismo que no hay nada por lo que merezca la pena perder la cordura.

So, what do you do when a guy comes in like a storm, crashing your sunny day and making you question everything you’ve been telling yourself thus far?

It’s easy to just throw everything in the water, and let yourself be consumed by an individual that you feel like you’re falling hard for, more and more with every waking hour. It’s easy to let yourself enjoy it when it’s good, and just accept that he comes with some downsides as well. In other words – make excuses for him. You know better than that.

Pero si esos inconvenientes son el hecho de que te cueste tu paz, eso no es algo que debas pensar ni por un segundo. ¿Cuánto tiempo tardaste en volver a estar bien? ¿Cuánto tardaste en recuperar por fin tus emociones y tu identidad después de tu última relación? ¿Durante cuánto tiempo fuiste un desastre? ¿Cuánto sacrificaste de ti mismo?

Después de pensarlo largo y tendido, pregúntate una cosa. ¿Realmente merece la pena volver a pasar por todo eso? ¿Realmente merece la pena pasar loco for at times? More often than not, the answer is going to be ‘NO’, so listen to yourself. Learn to spare your mind. You owe yourself that much.

Sé amable contigo mismo. A veces tienes que ser tu mejor amigo.

Let me be your voice of reason. I’ve had a few guys in my life who made me feel like I was depressed at times. Like I could just scream and throw something sharp at them. Like I couldn’t have one sane thought in my mind, and I thought I would completely lose it. I was frightened of myself at times. That’s how far I let it go.

But the thing is, it wasn’t me. It was them. Now I know it, and nobody can tell me otherwise.

Todo depende de la gente de la que te rodees. A las personas que no tienen en cuenta tu bienestar NUNCA les va a importar lo que te cuesten en la vida. Recuérdalo.

Nunca les va a importar el hecho de que estés reventando poco a poco, sin saber cuándo te romperás del todo. Esas son las personas que debes evitar a toda costa.

It’s easy to think that there must be something wrong with you. But ask yourself this. Do you feel this way at all times or does it only occur when you are around HIM? And that should answer your question.

You are okay. You are fine. We all lose it sometimes. It’s normal to feel like you’re not in control sometimes. But if that feeling is only evident in the presence of that certain someone, than you know what to do.

Nobody is worth your peace of mind. And when you feel like he’s costing you that – he’s got to go.