¿Es usted sapiófilo? 10 características de una persona aficionada al ingenio
When it comes to the definition of a Sapiophile, it’s someone who is attracted to intelligence in others.
In today’s society, where people only care for looks, sapiophiles are really rare. They seek deep conversations, simply skipping small talk.
Quieren conocer sus puntos de vista sobre la vida en general y su opinión sobre determinados temas. Miran más allá de todo lo típico de un ser humano y se enamoran de lo inusual.
Good looks and a fat bank account aren’t important to these people—what they want in life goes beyond all of that!
They want to see curiosity sparkle out of people’s eyes and they want to see your sense for self-improvement.
Existe la posibilidad de que usted sea una de las personas más raras del mundo, una de esas que miran por encima de lo físico.
Para saber si eres sapiófilo, debes reunir estas características:
Usted mismo es una persona inteligente
You attract your own kind. Intelligent people simply can’t talk with the average person, so you tend to seek personas inteligentes también.
Gente estúpida bore you and that’s the reason why your social life is a bit complex.
It’s not like you don’t want to go to a party. It’s more like you don’t want to listen to sex-talk and who’s on the cover of what magazine.
Quedarte en casa con uno o dos amigos bebiendo vino te resulta mucho más atractivo.
Hablar con inteligencia te excita
The foreplay for a sapiophile is probably a discussion about some book or an art piece. Sapiophiles don’t really care about showbiz and what someone wore.
Se preocupan por la galaxia y por los museos, no por las discotecas y las pistas de aterrizaje.
To turn you on, to make you want to have sex with your partner, the only thing they must do is to make you question your beliefs, provoke a thought process and teach you something new. That’s it.
La ignorancia te asusta
There will be times where someone will approach you and try to flirt with you,and when you try talking with them, you only see that they’re an airheaded girl or an overconfident man.
What happens next? You run off screaming. Isn’t it scary how stupid people can be?
No matter how attractive someone is, if they don’t know how to keep a conversation going, you run for the hills.
La mala gramática puede volverte loco
You have a ”grammar filter” built into your mind and it doesn’t matter if it’s a party invite or someone asking you for a date, you simply get mad because of one grammar mistake.
It doesn’t matter how nice their intention was, you can’t help but wonder if this person had a proper education or if they have ever had a book in their hands.
If you come to their house and they don’t have books around, you leave
En primer lugar, si alguien tiene libros en su casa significa que al menos ha tenido ganas de leer.
Secondly, books are a great escape if people start talking about topics you’re not interested in.
Basta con sacar un libro de la estantería y leerlo en lugar de escuchar tonterías.
Si hay algunos libros de calidad en las estanterías, puede que incluso te plantees tener una segunda cita con él/ella.
It’s just because you care more about what book someone is reading than what they are wearing.
La gente con gusto te intriga
Te encanta cuando alguien desarrolla su propio gusto por la música, la moda y las ideas en lugar de gente que hace las mismas cosas y tiene las mismas opiniones que todo el mundo.
You want to hear about new ideas and new views. You don’t want someone who is going to tell you the same thing as everyone else.
La inteligencia emocional también importa
You’re not only interested in the mind of someone, but also the heart and the way that person deals with and expresses their emotions. Sometimes, you even value EQ over IQ.
You want your partners to be introspective enough to know what’s happening in their bodies and minds and to know how to express that properly because overwhelming emotions, without the right way to express them, only lead to drama.
And you don’t want drama in your life.
Quieres un gran oyente a tu lado
En este mundo, la gente sólo espera su turno para hablar en una conversación.
They don’t listen properly, so when you find someone who truly listens to what you have to say, you will hold on to them.
You are ready to listen to whatever someone is telling you—that’s why you want the same thing from your partner.
Quiere preguntas que le hagan reflexionar
Vale, la situación es la siguiente: has tenido una cita con él/ella por primera vez y ¿qué ocurre? Empiezan a hacerte preguntas que puedes responder con una palabra.
NO! You don’t want it. You can’t handle small talk questions which everyone can ask you.
Quieres algo que te haga callar un rato y pensar realmente en la respuesta.
When someone is asking you questions which make you think about your previous thoughts and make you become more aware of a certain topic—well that’s an amazing question!
Quieres a alguien que se defienda en una conversación
Doesn’t matter if it’s your partner, your friend or a family member with some strange music taste, you love those people because they stand up for what they love.
They hold their own views as precious and they won’t let anyone tell them what to think and what to feel—and that’s the reason why these people are in your life.
You can’t stand someone who’s easy to manipulate and changes their likes and dislikes whenever he/she changes the environment.
Yes, you are different than most of the people around here, but be aware of the fact that being different isn’t something bad at all.
Te encanta ver más allá del físico y ves la personalidad pura de alguien.
That’s what makes you so unique and lovable!
