18 Señales claras de que otra mujer se siente intimidada por ti

¿Alguna vez sientes que otra chica se siente amenazada por ti de alguna manera? In the beginning, you think that you’re imagining it all, but as time goes by, your doubts continue to grow.

Pues bien, te ayudaremos a aclarar esas dudas de una vez por todas con una lista de las señales más sutiles y evidentes de que otra mujer se siente intimidada por ti.

I know that it isn’t a pleasant feeling. You start questioning yourself, searching for the reason that might explain that fear, but you can’t find a logical explanation. Intentas encontrar la mejor manera de afrontarlo y parecer menos intimidantepero también fracasas en eso.

But don’t despair. You’re in the right place to find out all the answers you are searching for, and I will gladly help you become less intimidating to others.

18 señales evidentes de que otra mujer se siente intimidada por ti

A decir verdad, la mayoría de estas señales son bastante obvias y puedes reconocerlas fácilmente. Por otro lado, hay señales sutiles de que otra mujer se siente intimidada por ti que puede que no veas inmediatamente.

Now, we’ll go through all of them, and I’ll explain each one of them carefully. Your only task is to pay close attention.

1. Lenguaje corporal nervioso (inquietud)

Have you noticed that she behaves differently when you are around? She’s fun and friendly around everyone else, but every time you’re around her, she becomes nervous and just keeps quiet.

El mayor firma otra mujer se siente intimidada por ti puede ser revelada por su lenguaje corporal. She can control everything else, her jealousy and envy, but this part of her can’t be controlled that easily.

Así que presta atención a su lenguaje corporal y a su comportamiento general contigo. If she’s inquieto, pacing, drumming her fingers, chewing gum while you’re talking to her, it’s obvious that she feels intimidated by you.

2. Le cuesta mantener el contacto visual con usted

If she can’t make and maintain eye contact with you, there are two possible explanations: either she’s a shy and mujer insegura in general, or she’s intimidated by you.

Evitar contacto visual es también otro signo de su propias inseguridades porque las personas con bajo autoestima les cuesta conectar con los demás de esta manera.

Si quieres ayudarla y hacerte ver menos intimidante, you shouldn’t be overly aggressive with establishing contacto visual con ella. That way, you’ll only scare her even more.

Don’t look her straight in the eye. Have an open body language that will encourage her to trust you. Let her make eye contact first, and when you catch her gaze, smile gently and then just look away.

3. Está a la defensiva

Whether it’s your mother/sister-in-law, a co-worker, or your friend, if a woman has a defensive attitude towards you, it’s because she’s intimidated by you. She doesn’t want to allow you to get too close because she is, in a way, afraid of you.

It’s how she tries to protect herself from you.

Maybe you did something that made her defensive, but maybe it’s only because of her propio inseguridades. Understanding why she acts that way may help you solve those issues between you and make her understand that she’s got the wrong idea about you.

4. She’s bitchy for no reason

You’ve probably noticed that from the first time you met, she’s had a actitud de zorra hacia ti. I know it’s an uncomfortable feeling because you know you did nothing wrong to her, but you still feel like they hate your guts.

However, that’s again only because she’s intimidated by you. Through that bitchy attitude, she tries to send you a message that you aren’t a threat to her in any way… A message she doesn’t believe in herself.

Honestly, you shouldn’t allow this to bother you. If someone has the wrong impression of you without even getting to know the real you, it’s their loss, not yours.

5. 5. Hacer cumplidos

She will compliment you a lot, but if you listen to her compliments carefully, you’ll understand that she’s only being ironic. She’ll make it look like she’s being nice to you, but the fact is, she’ll only offer you cumplidos a la espalda.

The truth is, she can’t pay you a genuine compliment because that would mean that she accepts and admits that you’re better at something than she is. And if she could accept it, she wouldn’t feel intimidated by you.

However, this doesn’t mean you should change your behavior towards her or respond to her ‘compliments’ in a rude way. You should actually accept her game… Just say thanks or ignore it completely.

6. She constantly brags about her accomplishments…

Cuando un mujer siente la necesidad de presume about herself all the time in your company, it’s probably because she wants to make you jealous of her.

In the beginning, you might think that she’s just a boastful person, but after a while, you’ll understand that she does it only in your presence. She doesn’t feel the need to boast in front of other people because those people don’t intimidate her the way you do.

Boasting is simply a coping mechanism. She thinks that by emphasizing her own accomplishments, she’ll manage to make yours less important.

You may think that it’s because she wants to show you and everyone around you that she’s better than you, but the truth is, she’s only comforting herself in this way.

7. …While she tries to downplay yours

Cuando otra mujer intenta restar importancia a tus logros y a tu éxito, puede ser porque she’s jealous of you or because she’s deeply insecure. However, the most common reason is that she feels intimidated by you.

She thinks that by diminishing your success, she’ll take away your power. And the fact is, your power is what intimidates her the most.

You see, it’s not like she’s doing it on purpose or that she wants to hurt you. She simply does it because it makes her seem ‘better’ than you, making you less intimidating to her.

8. Intenta menospreciarte delante de los demás

If a woman uses every opportunity to insult you or make fun of you in front of others, there are two possible explanations: either she’s jealous of you, or she’s really intimidated by you.

En el primer caso, te menosprecia porque quiere menospreciarte delante de los demás. Quiere que te sientas incómoda y avergonzada, y probablemente quiere poner a los demás en tu contra.

En el segundo caso, menospreciar y faltándote al respeto vuelve a ser un mecanismo de supervivencia. Quiere mantenerte a una distancia segura y cree que esta es la forma correcta de hacerlo.

9. It’s like she’s avoiding you all the time

She wants to be in your circle, but she’s also afraid of being alone with you. Whenever there is a social gathering you’ve both been invited to, she finds an excuse to skip it and doesn’t show up.

It’s all because she is afraid of you. Don’t take this the camino equivocado; maybe the problem isn’t in you at all, but there is something about you that she just finds intimidating.

10. Hablar a sus espaldas

She’ll cotillear sobre ti 24/7. Y cuando se quede sin material, empezará a mentir y a inventarse historias sobre ti.

She’ll do it only to ruin your reputation and turn everyone else against you. She wants you to be all alone because she hopes that’s how you’ll seem less intimidating to her.

11. Utilizar a tus amigos para saber más de ti

She’ll approach your friends but not because she wants to hang out with them or anything like that; she’ll do it only because she wants to get to know you better through them.

So, don’t be surprised if your friends tell you that she has been asking questions about you. She sees you as her biggest enemy, and that’s why she’ll try that hard to find out every little thing about you.

12. She’s trying to take over your best friends

Empieza a pasar cada vez más tiempo con tus amigos y se esfuerza mucho por ganarse un lugar en tu círculo. Siempre les invita a pasar el rato en su casa y hace todo lo posible para que vean que es mejor amiga que tú.

In the beginning, she won’t badmouth you in front of them, but once she gains their trust, she’ll trash talk you at every corner.

13. She’s your biggest critic

Everything you do, every step you take, she’s always there to judge you. She can’t wait for you to make a mistake so she can brutally criticize you.

Hay un par de razones por las que lo hace. Firstly, she wants to harm your self-esteem so you’ll be left with no faith in yourself. Every time you make a mistake, she’ll gladly rub it in your face because she intends to make you think less of yourself.

Secondly, she wants to change the image all the other people around you have of you. In Layman’s terms, she wants to bring you down and ruin your reputation completely.

14. Sus celos son más que evidentes

She is jealous of you, and she doesn’t even bother to hide it anymore. She’s envidioso de su éxitotus amigos y casi todo lo que tienes.

In her head, she’s convinced that you’re living a una vida mejor que ella, y eso la vuelve loca.

She also tries to steal the spotlight every time you’re around. Taking over all of your friends and ser el centro de atención 24/7 es lo que la haría la mujer más feliz del mundo.

15. Irónicamente, en realidad te idolatra

I know this sounds funny after everything you’ve read above, but, trust me, it’s true. In her eyes, you’re the best, most successful, and most mujer hermosa vivo.

Quiere ser como tú más que cualquier otra cosa. It’s like she’s found an idol in you, and she’s aware of that. That is the reason for her awkward behavior around and towards you.

16. Te sabotea siempre que puede

It’s not just that she rejoices every time you fail at something, but she also makes sure that you’re going to fail. Whenever she gets the opportunity, she’ll sabotage you because she can’t stand your success.

She’ll also try to undermine you and make you lose faith in yourself. She’ll want to weaken you in every possible way because that will allow her to finally be better than you.

17. Nunca quiere salir contigo a solas

You’ve tried to invite her to hang out with you, but she always had some excuse prepared. It’s like she’s afraid to be alone with you.

That is probably because she is afraid that you might figure out that she’s intimidated by you. She’s afraid of both your reaction and the future of your ’friendship.’

She’ll continue to hang out with you, and she’ll keep you in her circle but not because she thinks of you as a true friend. You know what they say… keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

18. Sus redes sociales están llenas de señales sutiles

If you’re looking for signs a girl is intimidated by you, the first place you should look is social media. Tanto tú como ella redes sociales perfiles estarán llenos de indirectas que pondrán al descubierto su miedo a ti.

She’ll leave unpleasant comments on your posts and may even mention you in other people’s posts. That’s all because she hates that she is intimidated by you and wants to make you feel the same way she does.

She’ll become so annoying that you’ll want to take a full redes sociales desintoxicación. However, remember that you’re enjoying real life to the fullest while she’s obsessing about you in the virtual world.

6 posibles razones por las que otra mujer podría sentirse intimidada por ti

Cuando un la persona siente intimidado por ti, debe haber una buena razón. And when a woman feels threatened by you, there are a few possible reasons for that, and of course, I’ve listed all of them for you below.

Espero que esto te ayude a comprender a esa mujer y, en cierto modo, te haga ser solidario.

1. Su aspecto

La forma en que un la mujer mira desempeña un papel importante en esta cuestión. If you’re a beautiful woman, if you have both outer and belleza interior...definitivamente puede ser la razón por la que otra mujer se siente intimidada por ti.

She might think you’ll steal her man and see you as competition. I think this is pretty normal because, honestly, we are all a bit jealous when we see a good-looking woman talking to our man.

2. Su estatus social

Desde mi punto de vista, el estatus financiero y social son dos de las razones más comunes por las que las mujeres se sienten intimidadas entre sí.

It’s mostly because this modern world of redes sociales y nuestras vidas virtuales han establecido nuevos estándares. And if you’re a successful and popular woman, tons of other women will definitely feel intimidated by you.

3. Su personalidad intimidatoria

Algunos de nosotros simplemente tenemos un personalidad intimidante, and unfortunately, we can’t go against it because it is part of our natures.

However, when you notice that another woman really feels threatened by it, you should approach her and let her know that it’s just part of your personality.

Deberías permitirle conocer las otras partes de ti y ver por sí misma que no hay nada que deba temer.

4. Sus propias inseguridades

En mujer insegura se sentirá intimidada por cualquier otra mujer con alta autoestima. She’ll think that another woman is better than she is in every possible way, and that will simply terrify her.

I know this isn’t your fault, but still, you should try to help that girl deal with her insecurities.

Show her that you have your own insecurities that you’re trying to overcome, and maybe that will encourage her to work on her self-confidence too.

5. Le preocupa que su pareja esté enamorada de ti.

Si su hombre le ha dado alguna vez una pista, una razón para sospechar que le gustas, creo que su temor hacia ti es perfectamente razonable. She’s afraid you might take her man.

Now, it’s all up to you. If you don’t like him, you should let her know that directly. And, on the other hand, if you do have feelings for him… Well, you should decide if you really want to take someone else’s partner.

6. Celos

This is definitely the most common reason another woman might feel intimidated by you. She thinks you’re more beautiful, more successful… Cree que tienes un una vida mejor y esos celos la están comiendo por dentro.

She feels that no matter what she does, you’ll always be at the center of attention and that others will love you more. Celos es de hecho uno de los peores rasgos que alguien puede tener.

Cómo ser menos intimidante para otras mujeres

Algunos las mujeres simplemente tienen una personalidad intimidante...como las hembras alfa, por ejemplo, e involuntariamente hacen que otras mujeres les teman. If you are one of these women, I’m going to help you slightly tame your intimidating nature.

• Stop using your personalidad intimidante como mecanismo de defensa

Más hembras alfa utilizan realmente sus intimidante personalidades como un escudo, un mecanismo de defensa que impedirá que otras personas les hagan daño.

Si ese es tu caso, tienes que dejar caer esos muros. Si alguien quiere ser tu amigo, debes darle la oportunidad de demostrar su valía, porque puede convertirse en un amigo para toda la vida.

• Let them approach you

If you behave like you are a level above them all the time, like you’re better than them, it’s actually normal for them to feel intimidated by you.

Tienes que darles la oportunidad de acercarse a ti y conocerte mejor. Once they get the opportunity to meet the real you, they’ll understand that there is no reason to feel threatened by you.

• Stay humble no matter what

Don’t ever point out that you’re better than them or more successful than they are. That won’t just make you seem intimidating to other women, it’ll also make you seem like a bitch.

You should be proud of yourself and your accomplishments, but don’t presume sobre ellos. Vive en silencio y deja que tus actos hablen por ti. Y recuerda que nada en la vida es constante, así que intenta siempre ser y mantenerte humilde.

• Remind them we’re all unique in our own ways

If you’re a beautiful woman, a smart and successful one, an independent one who knows what she wants from life and how to get it, then it’s no wonder other women feel intimidated or envious of you.

However, your job isn’t to rub it in but to remind them that we are all different, that we all have our own unique qualities.

Show them that you aren’t perfect as well. Expose your flaws to them. It’ll motivate them to do the same and may change the image they have of you.

• Celebrate their success as your own

Don’t be jealous of your friend’s success. On the contrary, be their support. Let them know you’ll always be there for them… to smile with them in good times and offer them a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on during the difficult times.

• In the end, don’t ever change who you are to please others

It’s okay to work on yourself and change certain things about yourself that you don’t particularly like. However, it’s never okay to try changing yourself to get someone else to like you.

Eres quien eres, y nunca deberías avergonzarte de ello. Sé humilde, sé bueno, sé amable, pero también abraza esa parte intimidante de tu naturaleza porque también forma parte de ti.

If you try to change or lose that part, you’ll only end up losing yourself. Your best friends and the people who honestly love you will accept you, all of you, and they’ll learn to handle those great and not-so-great parts of your personality.

¿Cómo saber si una mujer está celosa de ti?

To be honest, it’s not that difficult to recognize jealous people or people who are envious of you. They might pretend, but their jealousy will come to the surface, and they’ll show you their real face sooner or later.

Si su compañero de trabajo o su amiga bad mouths you whenever they get the chance, if they judge every single one of your actions, if they rejoice over your failures, if they try to sabotage you in every possible way, it’s clear that you’re dealing with a mujer celosa.

When another woman is jealous of you, the first thing she’ll do is attack your self-esteem. She’ll want to make you doubt your self-worth because she’ll want you to feel bad in your own skin.

She’ll try to be better than you in every possible way, and that’s why she’ll try to use your low self-esteem against you. That is, of course, if you allow her to have such a huge influence over your self-confidence.

Para concluir

If you’ve recognized most of these signs another woman is intimidated by you, you shouldn’t feel bad about it. Just understand that we all have different perspectives on certain things and that this definitely doesn’t make you a bad person.

Quizá el verdadero problema esté en esa otra mujer y en sus propias inseguridades. And if that is the case, then you need to accept that it is something you can’t change because it’s beyond your influence.

Lo que debes recordar es que siempre necesitas trabajar en ti mismo y en tu autocrecimientopero nunca debes cambiar sólo para gustar a los demás.

Sé fiel a ti mismo pase lo que pase y, si a los demás les intimida, sigue caminando con la cabeza alta y déjalos en paz.