Si hace estas 7 cosas, tiene miedo de perderte

Every relationship is perfect in the beginning. You feel like you’re on top of the world and you’re crazy in love. Even the things you wouldn’t normally tolerate you let slide because you’re head over heels in love.

Actually, that is not even love, it’s that initial infatuation, the craziness when you’re completely blinded and obsessed with your new boyfriend.

Pero tarde o temprano, esa llama inicial empieza a desvanecerse y llega la vida real. Sólo entonces verás si estás realmente enamorada de él o si simplemente te entusiasmó demasiado la idea del amor.

In this period, all the things you overlooked earlier become a burden. His quirks and his flaws become too real and it’s up to you whether you would learn to love them or grow to resent them.

You may even struggle with this new side of him and you don’t know how to react. You don’t know how to make him realize that he’s losing you. It can go that way, or sadly (though this happens more rarely), he will realize that you’re slipping away, that something is distancing you from him.

That’s why he’ll bring out the big guns if he truly loves you and do these things to keep you:

1. Coqueteará contigo

He knows that he has won you already but he won’t stop trying. If he senses that you might leave, he will flirt with you again. He will try to win you back. He will take you to a nice dinner, he won’t be late for your dates, and he will answer your texts as soon as he gets them. Basically, he will try to seduce you all over again.

2. Dejará todo para estar contigo

No other plans are important as you are. If you watch his behavior closely, you’ll notice that está real, verdadera, loca y profundamente enamorado de ti.. He cares for you and he doesn’t want to gamble away this chance of being with you.

Le importas y luchará por ti. Si le necesitas, cancelará cualquier cosa que hubiera organizado solo para estar a tu lado y, por supuesto, nunca te lo dirá ni tú te enterarás, a menos que sea por accidente.

3. Te hará regalos

It doesn’t even have to be a special occasion. He will buy you something to prove that he loves you or he will walk in the park and pick a flower or two and bring them to you.

Demostrará su apego emocional y lo mucho que significas para él haciendo estas pequeñas cosas que tanto significan al final del día.

4. Te tratará como su prioridad

Nada es más importante que tú. Siempre te pondrá en primer lugar porque en este momento eres lo más importante de su vida y quiere hacértelo saber.

He wants to make sure that you won’t leave him ever by treating you the way you deserve, the way every woman deserves to be treated. He is smart enough to see it.

5. Te felicitará

Quiere que te sientas especial y deseable. Quiere que te sientas guapa porque lo eres. No se trata de un intento desesperado de retenerte diciéndote palabras vacías para hacerte feliz; no, lo que dice lo dice de verdad y lo demuestra con hechos.

Te felicita por tu aspecto porque es loco de amor with you and to him you are the most beautiful girl on the face of the earth. He compliments things you’re doing and how you’re doing them because he truly admires you and your competence.

6. Se preocupa por tu familia y amigos

He knows they are important to you, that’s why they are important to him, too. He will try so hard to make them like him, like he is trying to win you over.

Even if he doesn’t like them, he will never show you that and he will keep it to himself because he loves you and doesn’t want to hurt you.

7. Estará a tu lado cuando lo necesites

Usually, people who are together for a while start taking each other for granted. Even when one person in the relationship needs help, the other one doesn’t take it that seriously because they believe they can handle it.

He won’t act that way. He will see when you’re stressed out and he’ll come to help you. He will either just be there for you and listen or he will give you advice, whatever works for you the best at that moment.