Si notas estas 8 señales, estás saliendo con un psicópata real y legítimo

Of course, you can’t know for sure that you are on a date with a psychopath because they are the masters of disguise. You’ll never see their true colors because they are such good actors. They can hide their true selves for as long as they need to.

Years can pass before you realize that you are completely emotionally used by a very dangerous man. And when you realize it, it’s too late to run away from pain and heartbreak. You have already fallen into his trap.

People usually think that psychopaths can’t feel any form of love but that isn’t true. Usually they have one person they are extremely attached to. It’s their mother or one of their grandparents.

But, when it comes to romantic relationships, you can be sure they won’t have any feelings for you.

Check out some of the traits of a psychopath and use them as a warning next time you’re on a date. There is no way to get out of a relationship with a psychopath quickly, but there is hope of avoiding one if you react in time.

1. Son demasiado encantadores

Hay una diferencia entre las personas que son encantadoras por naturaleza y las que exageran. Los psicópatas te dejarán boquiabierto con sus historias y su encanto.

Sus historias sonarán demasiado buenas para ser verdad y se convencerán a sí mismas.

After talking to them, you’ll think that you’ve just met the most perfect person on the face of the earth. That should be your first red flag that you are on a date with a psycho.

2. Jugarán con tus emociones

Utilizarán historias simpáticas y jugarán con tus emociones. Te convencerán de que son guapos y tranquilos, y de que odian el drama.

After, you’ll see that drama is basically all around them because they provoke it.

También es probable que mencionen a su ex, que es una perra total y, por supuesto, sigue enamorada de ellos, pero de alguna manera se las arreglaron para alejarse de ella.

3. Sus egos son enormes

Son parecidos a los narcisistas, pero a la vez diferentes. Narcisistas quieren ser superiores y los mejores en cada situación en la que se encuentran, mientras que los psicópatas quieren tener el control sobre otras personas.

They want to use them to their benefit and they never feel remorse. Moreover, they feel happy when they’ve hurt someone.

4. Ponen excusas a su comportamiento todo el tiempo

They are just perfect at changing your reality. Although they will act like total jerks and hurt you over and over again, they will rewrite reality and make it look like it’s all your fault.

If you face them with evidence and try to prove to them that it’s not your fault, they will completely ignore it and redirect the conversation in another direction to get away with it.

In the end, you’ll end up fighting about something that has nothing to do with your initial confrontation.

5. Nacen mentirosos

You’re faced with one lie after another. Their lies will be so truthlike and filled with details. They can come up with a false answer to your question in a matter of seconds.

You probably won’t have any idea whether they are telling the truth or not. And if you try to bust them and confront them about their lying, be sure they are going to get their revenge and hurt you on purpose because you’ve hurt their egos.

6. Crean el caos encubierto

They will make you jealous on purpose and they will provoke you. Don’t be surprised that after they have given all their attention to you, they go online and post photos with their exes or comment on their exes’ posts using inside jokes just to mess with your head.

El caos es su serenidad.

7. Carecen de culpa

When they do something nasty to someone, they don’t feel remorse or guilt. They don’t possess that feeling. Other people’s suffering means absolutely nothing to them.

They will go on doing whatever they want, no matter whether it bothers someone. They don’t care for anyone but themselves.

8. Carecen de empatía

Si les cuentas una historia sobre cómo alguien te rompió el corazón or something bad that happened to you, you won’t get an emotional reaction from a psychopath.

Intentarán mostrarse emotivos, pero tú sabrás ver a través de ellos.

Será una emoción falsa. Lo que hacen es estudiar cómo reaccionan las personas ante distintas situaciones e intentar copiarlo porque son incapaces de invocar esas emociones por sí mismos.

En general, tienes que tener mucho cuidado. Hay muchas posibilidades de que te topes con un auténtico psicópata en algún momento de tu vida.

Maybe it doesn’t have to be someone you’re dating; maybe it’s a colleague from work. But if you’re dating a psychopath and you don’t know it, the risk is huge.

You can end up heartbroken, broke, homeless and if you’re an extremely emotional type, even dead.