Sarai sempre troppo per qualcuno che non ti merita

Let’s be real about one thing: As a woman, there will be many opportunities when you’ll be told that you’re ‘too much’.

Situations in which you’ll be accused of wanting too much, asking too much and expecting too much.

This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships. After all, this is something you’ve been facing for as long as you can remember, isn’t it?

You see, as a woman, you’re always expected to make compromises.

Don’t get me wrong; I’m not talking about meeting your partner halfway here, because that is something you should definitely try to do in every relationship.

I’m talking about making compromises with yourself.

I’m talking about being less demanding, less emotional or even pretending to be less smart and less successful in order for men to accept you better.

You’re expected to lower yourself in order for a guy to feel like the bigger man. Expected to do everything possible to prevent him from feeling threatened by you.

In base a ciò, un uomo non ha la colpa di non essere in grado di seguire il vostro ritmo.

Instead, you’re guilty of not stooping to his level so he doesn’t feel intimidated. Guilty for being better and for having the decency of being everything more.

Fin da giovane, diversi ragazzi ti hanno detto che i tuoi standard erano troppo alti.

Even your closest friends accused you of believing in fairy tales and telling you that you were searching for Mr. Perfect, who didn’t exist.

Well, I’m here to beg you not to believe them. Qui per chiedervi di non abbassare gli standardNon rinunciate mai ai vostri problemi e, soprattutto, non accontentatevi mai di poco.

It seems that in the modern dating world, you should consider yourself lucky to find a man who won’t cheat on you right in front of you.

Secondo alcuni, dovreste accontentarvi di un ragazzo che abbia la decenza di scegliervi e di decidere per voi, senza illudervi.

No, you haven’t won the lottery just because you ran into a guy who labels your relationship and who publicly calls you his girlfriend.

You didn’t hit the jackpot for having a boyfriend who sends you a goodnight text and who treats you as his equal.

Tutte queste cose sono straordinarie, ma please don’t let anyone tell you that you’re ‘too much’ for wanting more.

Infatti, tutti i ragazzi sbagliati che attraverseranno la vostra vita faranno del loro meglio per farvi pensare che il poco che hanno da offrire dovrebbe essere sufficiente.

Tuttavia, una volta incontrato un l'uomo che ti merita davvero, he’ll never make you settle for less.

Questo ragazzo non cercherà mai di mettervi in difficoltà per apparire più grande. He’ll never make you feel like you’re not good enough just because it’s the only way for him to feel better about himself.

Un uomo che ti merita davvero non ti chiederà mai di abbassare la voce per far sentire la sua. He’ll never hold you back from your accomplishments so he looks more successful.

For him, you won’t be too emotional, too demanding or too clingy. Instead, he’ll cherish your vulnerable heart and make sure he never damages it in any way possible.

You won’t be accused of being a smarty pants or a Ms ‘know-it-all’ just because you have opinions of your own. Instead, he’ll be proud to have una donna intelligente e capace come voi al suo fianco.

For him, you’ll never be too strong or too powerful. Instead, he’ll see you as a role model and as an inspiration to keep moving forward.

Ma soprattutto, he’ll never see you as too indipendente o troppo autosufficiente. Instead, he’ll be happy knowing that you chose him out of all the men in this world, despite not actually needing him.

So, I’m begging you, every time you are accused of being too much, remember that this guy is out there.

Ogni volta che vi accusano di far sentire un ragazzo immaturo meno uomo, ricordate che esiste colui che vi merita.

Inoltre, every time you are accused of being too much for a guy, remember this: You’re a princess who doesn’t need a smaller crown; you need a man with bigger hands.

Please, don’t dim your light just because it might blind someone and keep on shining as bright as always!