Una vez que pierdas a la persona con la que te estás conformando, te darás cuenta de lo que mereces

Even though you aren’t aware of this, hay veces en que querer y necesitar algo son dos cosas distintas.

Momentos en los que estás convencido de que perder a alguien a quien quieres profundamente te destruiría por completo, cuando a la larga, en realidad sería lo mejor que podría pasarte.

Momentos en los que estás convencido de que aferrarte a una persona mejorará tu vida cuando en realidad dejarse llevar de ellos es exactamente lo que tienes que hacer, a pesar de todo el dolor temporal que pueda causarte.

Times when you don’t see that you are settling for way less than you deserve, thinking it’s the best you can ever have.

Esto es exactamente lo que está pasando con usted y el hombre que está involucrado en este momento.

You don’t want to let him go because you don’t know that bigger things await you once you do.

Even though deep down you are very much aware that he is not the guy for you, you keep on hoping that things will change for the better and that one of these days, he’ll become the man you need him to be.

Let’s face it—you are terrified of walking away from this man because you don’t know if you could survive without him.

Tienes miedo de que perderle te dañe emocionalmente hasta un punto irreparable.

Bueno, no estoy aquí para mentirte diciéndote que dejar ir a este hombre sería fácil porque será cualquier cosa menos eso.

Sí, al principio será un infierno. Será malo. Hasta que mejore.

After a while, you’ll finally see that all this time, you were just settling for less.

Maybe you did it because he manipulated you into thinking that you’d never find someone else, maybe you were afraid of being alone, maybe you did it because of the past you guys shared together or maybe you didn’t have the courage to escape from the comfort zone he represented.

Either way, the point is the same—you were getting back less than you were giving and less than you deserved.

After a while, you’ll understand that things had to be this way—that everything in life happens for a reason and for a bigger cause.

You’ll understand that God always has a plan and that this guy had a role in your life—that he was there to teach you some valuable life lessons.

That if it wasn’t for this man, you would never know what you don’t want from life and what you don’t need from a man.

You’ll see that all of the struggles you had to go through were just there to toughen you up and to turn you into the woman you are today.

Que tuviste que pasar por una relación sin amor para finalmente aprender a amarte a ti mismo.

Que tenías que ser traicionado para ser lo suficientemente fuerte como para confiar en ti mismo.

You’ll see that sometimes, God fixes you just to put you back together.

Que hay momentos en los que tienes que romperte en pedazos sólo para reconstruir una versión mejor y más poderosa de ti mismo.

Most importantly, once you finally move on from this man, you’ll understand that the only way to truly realize what you deserve is to lose everything and everyone you’re settling for.

Que la única forma de despejar el camino para el hombre digno de ti es deshaciéndote de todos aquellos que nunca fueron lo suficientemente buenos.

Que la única manera de encontrar a tu Sr. Correcto es dejando ir a todos esos Sr. Errores.

And once this special man finally enters your life, and he will come when you least expect him to, it is only then when you’ll grow to understand why it never worked with all those guys before him.

It is only then when you’ll grow to understand that you simply had to go through all of those half-assed loves because if it wasn’t for them, you would never know how to recognize the right one when you saw him, nor would you appreciate it the right way.