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1. Qualcuno che gli dia spazio

Dategli spazio per respirare. Lasciategli fare cose che lo rendono felice e che non vi coinvolgono. Ha bisogno del suo spazio personale come voi.

Lasciatelo uscire con i suoi amici, perché alcune cose i ragazzi vogliono condividerle con i loro amici e hanno assolutamente bisogno di un po' di tempo da soli con loro.

That doesn’t mean he doesn’t valorizzate la vostra relazione. Significa solo che vuole mantenere la sua indipendenza.

2. Qualcuno che lo fa aspettare

You never show all your moves right at the beginning. It’s perfectly normal that you want to bring out your big guns because you want this relationship to last, but that doesn’t have to mean it is okay to give him everything right away. Save a bit of your magic for later.

This is also a matter of respect. If you invest too much too soon, he will think you act that way with everyone and therefore, he won’t respect you. So, remember that it is important when to reveal what.

And on the other hand, it’s much better to leave him tempted than to show all your tricks at once. If you let him in right away, he might get bored later.

3. Qualcuno che chiede il suo consiglio

Most men have this need to save a damsel in distress. They just have to feel they are needed. They need to feel they are the ones we can’t live without. So, however small the problem you’re dealing with is, just ask your man for his advice.

Ask for his opinion because it will mean a lot to him and won’t cost you anything. This will probably approfondire la vostra relazione che a livello fisico.

4. Qualcuno che non è bisognoso

They don’t get turned on by women who are so needy it’s like they can’t live without them. Sure, men want to feel useful and they want their women to need them, but take this neediness with a dose of caution.

Maybe even this overly neediness can be cute at the beginning, but that will soon go away and it will annoy them like it would annoy you if a man goes behind you and watches every step you make and doesn’t let you breathe.

Dimostrate al vostro uomo che avete bisogno di lui per le piccole cose, ma allo stesso tempo dimostrategli che sapete prendervi cura di voi stesse, perché niente è più sexy di una donna indipendente.

5. Qualcuno che ha un'alta considerazione di sé

You have to have a good relationship with yourself if you want to build the strong foundation for a relationship with someone else. That’s why you have to have self-respect. You can’t expect someone else to respect you if you don’t respect yourself.

You have to watch your actions at the beginning of the relationship. You have to be careful with things you let slide and things you will hold against him. If you ignored something that bothered you at the beginning, you can’t expect he will change it later on.

6. Qualcuno che ammette di aver sbagliato

A nessuno piace una persona che pensa di avere sempre ragione. Sii un adulto responsabile e affronta le tue azioni. Se avete detto o fatto qualcosa di sbagliato, ammettetelo e ammettete di aver sbagliato. Se vi ostinate e cercate di dimostrare una tesi non valida, metterete in pericolo la vostra relazione.

We are all human and it’s impossible for us to be right or wrong all the time. It’s perfectly normal for us to make mistakes, so when you make one, own up to it and admit it. It will show that you are a mature woman worthy of respect and respect you’ll get.

7. Qualcuno che lo sfida

Keep your true self. Don’t adjust to him because you are nice and you want him to like you. If he is the right man for you, he will like you just the way you are. He needs a woman who will challenge him mentally, emotionally and physically.

We are all attracted more to the person who mentally teases us—although we don’t want to admit it. Also, showing your vulnerability is something he will appreciate. It means that you are not scared to show him how you really feel. It means you trust him enough to let him into your heart. You need to push him out of his comfort zone.

8. Qualcuno che lo ascolti

Spend more time listening to him than obsessing what you are going to say next. Don’t be selfish in that way. Remember things he told you and show that you support him by paying attention to what he says. He will cherish that and realize that you are the perfect girl for him.

Show him that you remembered his interests and things he likes or doesn’t like. That will give you a great start and it will make you a better person in his eyes.

9. Qualcuno che sia presente per lui

Non dimenticate mai di dimostrategli il vostro sostegno. A lot of people will doubt him and tell him he isn’t good enough. Don’t be one of those people. Show him that you care and that you believe in him.
Even if you don’t agree with his choices, give him a chance—maybe he will be right after all.

If he fails, don’t rub it in his nose. Help him to pick himself up and encourage him to keep trying because nothing will be handed to him. He needs to try hard for the things he loves and you know that. Make sure he knows that, too.

10. Qualcuno che è onesto

Always speak your mind. Don’t sweep all your problems under the rug because they are going to reappear sooner or later and then it will be too late to solve them all. So, the best thing is to be honest with your partner and tell him right away if something bothers you, so you can work on it and act in time.

Don’t hide anything from him under the excuse that it will hurt his feelings. That is a childish thing to do. If he is an emotionally mature man, he will take your criticism and try to be a better person. After all, that is one of the reasons you are together—to make each other the best versions of yourselves.