10 lati che si sperimentano quando si è perdutamente innamorati di lui

There is one person out there who has the ability to make you feel some emotions you have never experienced before with anyone else. You all know that love cannot be just a perfect road without any flaws—but the day you cross the path of this specific man, you feel like it is a no-brainer. You feel this way because of the effect he has on you.

1. Buone vibrazioni

He makes you feel a bunch of pleasant feelings. You don’t have to worry about anything with him, and it feels good.

Sei tranquillo e a tuo agio quando lui ti sta accanto; ti fa ridere e in qualche modo ti fa sentire benedetto.

Benedetta perché sai che, nel profondo, sei la fortunata che ha la possibilità di creare un rapporto unico, un legame unico con lui, semplicemente perché ha accettato di farti entrare nel suo mondo.

2. La sicurezza

He is neither Captain America nor Professor X—and he’s perfectly aware of that—but you cannot help feeling safe with him and within your relationship.

Fate del vostro meglio affinché entrambi vi sentiate così, vi sentiate a vostro agio e felici, anche se sapete di essere due individui indipendenti. Non c'è sensazione migliore dell'essere innamorati ma liberi.

3. Apertura mentale

Lo considerate speciale perché non solo vi fa sentire come se foste fantastici, ma in realtà è anche eccezionale.

Lo apprezzate sinceramente per quello che è. Ha dei difetti, ovviamente, come chiunque altro. Ma il tuo pensiero su questa affermazione non è altro che: “And so what? Nobody’s perfect.”

4. Positività

When it comes time to thinking of him, your brain doesn’t function the same way. Your mind experiments with an unlimited number of ideas and dreams; your words are meaningful; your feelings are intense; your adoration has no limits; your sweetness is pure; your honesty is genuine.

You do feel confident about being yourself with him. You are not scared of thinking about the future and including him in it. You don’t wonder if he will still be close to you in several months and/or years because you peacefully feel like you don’t need to wonder—he will.

5. Attenzione

You observe him. You may stop doing whatever you are doing at a specific moment just to look at him, and you don’t get tired of doing it.

You simply adore that human being you are looking at. You just don’t do it in a creepy way. He might ask you sometimes why you are doing that… just listen to your heart; it gives you the answer.

6. Gestione della rabbia

You don’t have time to be angry toward him. You are mad sometimes, of course—you are human after all—but it does not last more than a few minutes – or a few hours se si è davvero, davvero, arrabbiati. In questo caso, calmatevi, pensate chiaramente e aprite l'argomento. La rabbia svanirà.

7. Adorazione profonda

Amate, amate sinceramente e non vi fermate mai. Siete qui e lì per gli altri, ma soprattutto siete qui e lì per lui.

You care for any relationship you have with anyone close to you, but the one you share with him is one of your favorite ones. That man doesn’t need to try being a light in your life to feel that way. That is just who he is—your light.

8. L'onestà

You don’t need to play any mind games, to lie about your feelings, to try any kind of manipulation, and to have any kind of freaking control.

Tutto sembra naturale. Vi fidate di lui. Potreste non essere in grado di darne una ragione, quindi.., Come mai? Semplicemente perché il vostro istinto ve lo dice, e non sbaglia mai.

9. Senza paura

“What if” doesn’t exist – or at the very least, it doesn’t last because you fight for what you sincerely wish, and you dare to live new adventures with him. You are aware that life is short, and you know you don’t want to waste your relationship.

On the other hand, you don’t rush anything because you know good things take time to come, always.

10. Realistico

In the end—yes, you love him to the point that you always try to think before saying anything hurtful, painful or regretful. Si tratta di essere stupidi?

In realtà è il comportamento di chi non dà mai nulla per scontato, e soprattutto non di quella persona in particolare.

Di Mathilde Clemence Personne