10 motivi per cui ha chiesto il tuo numero ma non ti ha chiamata

I bet there isn’t a single girl who didn’t ask herself at some point that famous question: Why hasn’t he called?

Cento scenari nella vostra testa e nessuna risposta.

You try hard to find a reasonable excuse for his behavior just because you like him a lot and because you still hope that he will eventually call. But, that doesn’t happen.

Perché? Perché i ragazzi hanno questa tendenza a ask for a girl’s number solo per non chiamarla?

Well, perhaps someone has stolen his phone or your number somehow mysteriously disappeared from his cell phone…or perhaps not? Let’s not fool ourselves.

In realtà, ci sono alcuni motivi per cui un ragazzo sarebbe così coraggioso da chiedere il vostro numero e poi evitare di chiamarvi come la peste.

To be exact, there are 10 reasons why he asked for your number but hasn’t called you yet!

Ha dimenticato quale sei

The night/day he met you, he gave his number to plenty of other girls as well, and now he’s having difficulties remembering which one you were.

Sì, ci sono ragazzi la cui priorità principale è dare il proprio numero a quante più ragazze possibile (o a chiunque incontrino), e di conseguenza dimenticano quale sia il tuo numero.

And if that is the case, it is good that they didn’t call after all.

He’s waiting for a few days to call

Ci sono alcuni ragazzi che amano aspettare un po' prima di chiamare.

Decidono di aspettare qualche giorno e, durante questo periodo, elaborano tutto nella loro testa e pensano ai loro approcci.

These guys don’t like to rush, and they are all about taking it slowly.

Aspettano il momento perfetto per contattarvi e l'unica cosa che dovete fare è dar loro un po' di tempo.

He’s busy pursuing other priorities (or women)

One of the biggest reasons why he didn’t call you is perhaps because he is too busy pursuing other goals or other women.

He’s doing that because obviously, he has other top priorities at the moment or because è un donnaiolo e ha l'esigenza di rimanere in contatto con molte donne, il che significa che non è in grado di dedicare il suo tempo a una sola donna.

In that case, you shouldn’t wait for his call either.

Hai saltato la pistola

You had an amazing time together, he asked for your number, and he still hasn’t called you?

Forse l'affetto è unilaterale o eravate troppo ubriachi e avete interpretato male gli indizi del suo affetto per voi.

Perhaps you jumped the gun, and now you’re expecting him to call you, but even that night it was obvious that he wouldn’t.

Vuole che sia tu a fare la prima mossa

He’s not that confident when it comes to texting girls or calling them, and that is why he expects you to make the first move.

Now, it would be much easier if men had the courage to tell women this…but then it would mean that they would have to call you to tell you.

È davvero difficile distinguere tra un ragazzo che non è interessato e uno che sta aspettando che siate voi a fare la prima mossa.

But, if you notice that he’s way too shy around you, then it is probably the second.

Il momento non è quello giusto

He has other serious things going on in his life (which doesn’t include chasing other women).

Maybe he’s still grieving over his past relationship, and he needs some time to process all of it.

Ritarda a chiamarvi perché non è il momento giusto, ma lo farà sicuramente quando si sarà schiarito le idee.

He’s afraid of commitment

When he asked for your number, it definitely seemed like a good idea, but once he got home, he realized that he’s afraid of commitment.

Ha passato ore a pensare a cosa sarebbe successo se l'avesse chiamata.

He doesn’t want to be the initiator of anything because he’s obviously not ready for anything. He’s a commitment phobe al cuore.

He’s not sure how you feel about him

He’s a little bit insecure when it comes to how you feel about him, and that is why he still hasn’t called you.

He’s afraid of potential rejection or similar, and that is why he waits for some signal or reassurance of your affection for him.

He’s not into you

He asked for your number just for the sake of asking, but in reality, he’s not that into you.

Or even worse, you’re just his alternative. Maybe one day he will call you only when he realizes that he has no one, and by then it will be too late.

If he’s not into you, you should certainly not waste your time on waiting for him to call you.

He’s married

Quando l'hai incontrato, hai controllato tutti gli indizi che ogni ragazza controlla quando incontra un nuovo ragazzo.

You checked whether he was wearing a ring and, of course, he wasn’t. But, this doesn’t mean that he isn’t married.

La maggior parte dei uomini sposati Oggi chi è incline all'infedeltà si toglie l'anello quando sta per inseguire un'altra donna e il giorno dopo se lo rimette come se nulla fosse.

Lame, I know. So, if he didn’t call you yet, you should actually be thankful for that.