10 segni che sta solo giocando con le vostre emozioni

Sometimes we’re so fixed on searching for ‘segni che gli piaci’ that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark.

Non riusciamo a capire che è uno stronzo totale e manipolatore il cui divertimento più grande è torturarti e trasformare la tua vita in un inferno.

It’s frustrating to face the fact that all you’ve wanted was someone to love, someone who loves you back and you’ve got a manipulative, immature, toxic person who feeds himself with pain and suffering.

You’re his supply, he needs you, so he manipulates you into staying.

I’ve been through this hell and thank God I managed to run away from it. I dumped his sorry ass and went no contact. I don’t want to know whether he is alive or not.

I don’t even want to know se gli manco. That’s how little I think of him.

I went through all of this but there is something I learned after all. No matter what kind of a relationship you’re in, a guy will play with your emotions if he wants to.

Potete pensare che vi ami fino alla luna e ritorno, ma può essere solo una grande e grossa bugia.

Signs he’s playing with your emotions

La vostra relazione sta cambiando in peggio

Instead of meeting his friends and family, he’s keeping you a secret. Your relationship should have gone to another level by now. Instead, it’s decreasing in quality.

He isn’t asking to spend more time with you, he seems to be getting away more often.

Tutti questi sono segnali che indicano che lui non fa sul serio con voi e che vi sta solo usando per divertirsi.

He is not taking your emotions into consideration because he doesn’t care about you.

Fa cose che vi fanno arrabbiare

Eravate arrabbiati per qualcosa che aveva fatto e lo avete affrontato. Gli avete detto che si è comportato in modo maleducato e che ha ferito i vostri sentimenti, ma nonostante il fatto che vi siate aperti con lui e abbiate mostrato vulnerabilità, lui continua a fare la stessa cosa.

He still hurts you the same way. He does this because he doesn’t care how you feel. He is playing with your emotions and he doesn’t feel sorry for you.

He’s not that available anymore

This right here shows you how much he’s interested in being with you or in a relationship. At first, this wasn’t an issue, you were only starting to get to know each other.

Ma mentre passavate più tempo insieme, lui voleva passare meno tempo con te.

Usually, he uses some lame excuse as to why he can’t come and see you, he cancels dates last-minute and he has slowly distanced himself.

Lui non è più così presente e voi state lentamente perdendo la sensazione di avere una relazione.

He is interested in you when you’re not there

Quando un uomo gioca con le vostre emozioni, ha una tattica perfetta per tenervi con sé.

When you are next to him, he won’t give you the time of day. He’ll push you away from him and he’ll try to see you as little as possible.

Ma quando prenderete in mano la situazione e prenderete le distanze da lui, vi chiamerà in continuazione.

If you’re out with a friend and you hadn’t announced a week earlier that you were going to be, he will bomb you with texts that gli manchi e ti vuole al suo fianco.

These men do this because they don’t want to let you out of their grasp that easily.

They don’t want to be with you but they still want to have you as an option, so they give you enough attention to keep you hooked.

Mostra interesse per altre donne

It’s one thing when he does it when you don’t see it but completely another when he does it in front of you.

When you don’t see it, you don’t know it and it can’t hurt you despite the fact that he is a great douche. But when he does it right in front of you, it hurts like hell.

He is proving to you that he doesn’t care about you or respect you. Him flirting with other women is just proof he is playing with your emotions.

He makes you feel you’re not good enough for him

Around him, you feel you’re not pretty enough or that you’re not smart enough. This is not on you.

You wouldn’t feel that way if he didn’t treat you that way. His snarky comments and his mean jokes are killing your confidence in a second.

He sees that as having fun because it makes him laugh. He doesn’t care that the things he says are not even the slightest bit funny to you.

È perfetto quando ha bisogno di qualcosa da te

When you are the only person who can help him, he is the official winner of the ‘boyfriend of the year’ prize.

He’s there for you, he supports you, he listens to you, he basically does everything that a normal boyfriend should do.

And once he gets what he wants, he shuts you down again because he’s done with you. You’ve given him what he needed so he can continue to treat you like shit.

Mandare segnali contrastanti è il suo forte

È il re assoluto quando si tratta di questo. Nessuno può batterlo o agire in modo così subdolo come lui.

One day you’re his world, his love, his everything and the next he is capable of walking by you in the street without even saying hello.

Queste montagne russe emotive provocano un dolore emotivo che può facilmente trasformarsi in un vero e proprio dolore fisico. Potete letteralmente ammalarvi a causa dei continui abusi emotivi, del terrore o della sua indifferenza.

Si aspetta da voi il perdono

He can get away with everything but you don’t. His double standards are ridiculous.

When he doesn’t call you for days, he doesn’t show up on a date or doesn’t text you back, you’re supposed to let it slide and forget all about it after his pitiful ‘sorry’.

Ma quando la situazione si inverte, quando sei tu a prenderti la libertà di comportarti come lui, come un farabutto, allora si scatena l'inferno.

He calls you, he goes out looking for you and he makes a scene. And God knows how long he will be mentioning that one ‘fallout’ and rubbing it in your face while he is doing the same thing.

Mente sempre

First, you notice those ‘white’ lies and you tell yourself how they are not that big of a deal.

But later on, those ‘white’ lies become way too frequent. Later on, you find out that lying is in his blood.

He’s capable of lying about everything—his past, about what he’s doing, he’s even changing some facts about him so people would like him. He is a manipulator in disguise.