11 cose che solo i migliori amici possono capire

Se siete davvero fortunati, troverete in questa vita almeno una persona che sia il vostro vero amico. And that’s priceless. To find a true and honest friendship in the sea of fake ones is truly a blessing.

Assicuratevi di apprezzarlo. Di tanto in tanto, raccontate il tuo migliore amico how much she means to you—it will mean the world to her. It’s important for her to know you don’t take her for granted.

Per poter comprendere meglio le parole di O. Henry:
“No friendship is an accident. ”, we give you the things only best friends will understand:

1. Più che parole.

Potete capirvi senza usare le parole. A volte basta uno sguardo. Lei riesce a vedere oltre il tuo sorriso e le tue lacrime.

2. You don’t have to talk every day.

But, you usually do. You like staying close and share everyday things with each other. If for some reason you don’t talk for days, that’s OK—you will just continue the conversation from where you last left it.

3. Vita sentimentale.

You are each other’s confidants when it comes to love. You learn from your mistakes and from her mistakes. She is the one who will tell it as she sees it. If he is not good for you, she will tell you openly.

4. Sostenere l'utente in ogni caso.

Even when you are making a mistake. She will tell you right to your face and she will tell you to stop. Even if you do not take her advice, she will support you. Sometimes you need to repeat the same mistakes a few times #just_to_make_ sure_ it’s_ a_ mistake

5. Cose che fate ma che non direste mai ad altre persone.

Your phone is full of screenshots of conversations with other people. There might be some unresolved issues with another friend. But, usually, they are from an ex-boyfriend, a current crush or ‘future ex’ boyfriend.

So, when you meet each other’s boyfriends, the first thing you wanna say is “Nice to meet you. I’ve been reading all of your texts!” But clearly, you won’t.

6. Fotografie.

 

You know your friendship is true when you have at least one of your BFF’s ugly pictures. You always threaten to use it against her, but you both know you never would.

There are also FB and Instagram photos that can’t be published without your BFF’s approval. You know she won’t let you publish something that you shouldn’t.

7. La chiave è l'onestà.

If something didn’t feel just right, you will discuss it. You will both be straightforward and say, “You really hurt me when you…” No hard feelings. It’s the best way to keep a good relationship.

8. Custode di segreti.

Sa tutto di voi. I vostri segreti più profondi e oscuri sono al sicuro con lei. Non vi tradirà mai, qualunque cosa accada.

9. She’s your person.

The other part of you, your soul mate. She has your back no matter what. Whether you are right or wrong, she will be standing right next to you with the maximum support. She might tell you that you are wrong when other people aren’t looking.

10. She’s your kind of crazy.

You function on the same level of craziness. That is a mutual understanding on a whole different level. “Life is all about finding people that are your kind of crazy” and you are the lucky ones.

11. Nessuna invidia.

She shares your feelings. She made you realize that it’s easier for people to be right by your side when you are sad. It’s like they could relate to sadness more.

It makes them feel better about their own lives. Only a true and sincere friend can be happy because you are happy. It shows character and it’s the most important thing.