12 segnali sexy del linguaggio del corpo che vi rendono irresistibili agli uomini

Che cos'è Il linguaggio del corpo?

Quando si tratta di i vostri migliori amici, parents, and people you’re generally familiar with, you have zero problems communicating with them. But when it comes to a man you’re head over heels for, it’s like the cat caught your tongue!

All'improvviso, pronunciare una sola parola fa paura. Ed è qui che il linguaggio del corpo si rivela utile.

Che lo sappiate o meno, con il vostro corpo emettete molte vibrazioni, senza nemmeno rendervene conto. È così che le persone comunicano tra loro quando le parole vengono meno.

Body language has probably saved your ass more times than you’re aware!

Il contatto visivo, la mimica facciale, la buona postura e molti altri elementi possono essere utilizzati come elementi estremamente attraenti. segni del linguaggio del corpo che attireranno il sesso opposto. Tuttavia, è necessario saperle usare con saggezza.

Luckily, you’re probably already doing okay, but here you’ll learn to perfect your craft.

I tre mezzi di comunicazione più importanti tra le persone sono i seguenti (in quest'ordine):

•  Body language

•  Tone of voice

•  Words spoken

So you see now how crucial body language is. This is something that can come in really handy when you want to win over that hot guy you can’t stop dreaming about!

Le parole sono praticamente superflue se si utilizzano questi fantastici consigli sul linguaggio del corpo e si passa al livello successivo.

Se solo ci si mette d'impegno, il tuo corpo saprà cosa fare.

A volte basta avvicinarsi delicatamente, incrociare lo sguardo e flirtare senza usare le parole.

Give him a sexy yet coy look, and when you lean back from him, he won’t know what hit him.

Ma ci sono molti altri consigli e trucchi su come sedurre un ragazzo senza passare troppo tempo a pensare a come approcciarlo e a cosa dirgli.

Seduction is not a test, so let’s not make it into something tedious, but rather make it fun and spicy!

Il linguaggio del corpo femminile è uno strumento potente (e seducente) se usato nel modo giusto.

Può creare tensione sessuale that will drive you both insane and make you feel like it’s the first time you’re feeling this way.

So, let’s get going and learn the art of using your gorgeous body to make him yearn after you!

1. Usate il potere del vostro sorriso

You don’t have to be among the most attractive women on the planet to be able to sedurre un ragazzo.

Basta un sorriso sincero e genuino per illuminare il suo mondo per un secondo. 

Il sorriso è qualcosa di così semplice, eppure ha un significato così grande. Significa felicità e fa emergere il bambino che è in noi.

It tells him you’re genuine and don’t take yourself too seriously.

La vita a volte fa schifo, ma invece di perdere ore a preoccuparsi, sfoggiate uno splendido sorriso e fategli vedere il vostro punto di vista positivo.

Show him that when he’s worried, frustrated, and in a bad place, there is still someone out there who will be there with a smile on her face showing him it’s not all that bad.

And yes, I’m aware that a smile won’t solve anyone’s problems, but it WILL make it better for a short period of time. And I’d take that any day.

2. Puntate il vostro ombelico su di lui

I know that right now you’re probably thinking that I’m insane, but hear me out. It’s actually really simple.

Researchers have discovered that guys respond very positively to seeing a girl’s belly button! It shows him you’re comfortable around him and establishes trust!

Even if your head is turned from him, it’ll still do the trick!

3. Toccarlo moderatamente

If you’re on a date with a guy and you’re constantly invading his personal space, touching him (or his crotch), rubbing him, and not giving him any breathing room, it doesn’t really make him lust after you.

It feels a bit excessive and it’s suffocating him. The guy literally has no space to sit without you being all over him. But check this scenario.

You’re sitting at dinner, having a lovely conversation, keeping contatto visivoed entrambi prestate attenzione a ciò che dice l'altro.

Di tanto in tanto, si tocca dolcemente la sua mano (quasi per caso) e ci si tira indietro nel giro di pochi secondi.

You give him a little smile and then fix your T-shirt (or whatever you’re wearing) which makes you accidentally brush his shoulder.

This will feel sexy, mysterious, and he’ll be wondering if you’re doing this on purpose or by total coincidence.

Either way, he’s going to feel very open to this. A touch can mean so much when you don’t overdo it.

4. Non incrociare mai le braccia

Incrociare le braccia trasmette esattamente le vibrazioni che volete evitare. Vi fa sembrare distaccate dal ragazzo e sembrate disinteressate al vostro appuntamento.

It can also make him think you’re feeling attacked and insecure.

So unless these are the signals you’re going for, my suggestion is to keep your arms how you normally keep them and avoid crossing them at all costs.

5. Assumere una posa di potere

This sounds way more complicated than it actually is. You don’t have to be a boss ass bitch to strike a power pose.

It’s all about carrying yourself with confidence and grace! ANY girl can do this with ease.

Don’t slouch, but rather stand firmly with your shoulders to the back.

As I’ve already mentioned above, keep your hands down or on the table if you’re sitting, but never cross them.

Another idea is to put your hands on your hips, or simply choose one. Keep your head high, your eyes locked at the ”target,” and act as fiercely as you look.

6. Chiudere gli occhi con il ragazzo

I’ve already mentioned it, but the importance of eye contact cannot be stressed enough.

Si tratta di uno strumento estremamente potente del linguaggio del corpo che fa sentire chiunque più a proprio agio in vostra presenza. Pensate alle vostre conversazioni per un secondo.

Try to remember how it makes you feel when the person you’re having a conversation with keeps evading your look and twirls around the room as if totally uninterested.

E ora ricordate l'effetto completamente opposto che ha su di voi un contatto visivo deciso. 

Vi fa sentire convalidati, ascoltati e visti. Dimostra rispetto e carattere.

Si capisce quindi quanto sia importante guardarlo dritto negli occhi mentre si flirta con lui.

You want him to know that you’ve got eyes only for him. And that’s all there is to it. Pay attention to him and you’ll get him hooked.

7. Usate le labbra per sedurlo

Le vostre labbra sono probabilmente la prima cosa che un ragazzo noterà di voi e, onestamente, chi può biasimarlo?

Le vostre labbra sono la parte del corpo più attraente per lui e probabilmente sta fantasticando di baciarle più di quanto voi sappiate.

Use this to your advantage. Guys love the color red. Especially on a woman’s lips. It screams passion and fierceness.

It makes you look bold, confident, and sexy AF. Try on a sexy red lipstick and see how he responds. My guess is he won’t be able to stop staring at you.

Next thing you can do is bite your lower lip (it NEVER fails to make the guy hot for you) or to subtly lick your lips. It’s always the simplest things that do the trick!

8. Giocare con i capelli

You can do so much with that hair of yours. And don’t even feel bad if it’s not that long, so what?

È ancora possibile giocare in modo seducente con una ciocca di capelli sopra l'orecchio. Ma per chi ha i capelli lunghi, le opzioni sono infinite.

You can flip your hair to the back. You can look him in the eye as you’re placing your hair behind your ear.

You can pick a lock of your hair and play with it as you’re having a conversation with him. Put your hair in front of him and proudly display it.

The trick is to not overdo it. You don’t want the guy to think you’re some hair-obsessed gal. Pick one or two of these, tops, and use it wisely.

I capelli sono una parte sexy di una donna che i ragazzi sono estremamente attirato da. So you really don’t even have to try that hard. He’s probably already hooked.

9. Utilizzare le espressioni facciali per mostrare interesse

Sapevate che le persone fanno circa 25.000 espressioni facciali al giorno?

Le persone usano il viso per esprimere i loro sentimenti molto più spesso della voce, quindi prendete nota e usate il vostro viso per mostrargli come vi sentite!

You can do this very simply. At first, pay attention to what he’s talking about and nod as he’s speaking.

That will show him that he hasn’t lost you.

Poi, potete inclinare un po' il collo da un lato, il che rivela il vostro collo (la parte del corpo più vulnerabile) e insinua che vi fidate di lui.

Mirroring his expressions is also a fun idea. Just carefully observe not to smile if he’s talking about something serious or actually laugh if that wasn’t his intention.

Everything in moderation. He’s going to notice that you are carefully listening and reacting accordingly, which makes you look like a desirable partner in his eyes.

10. Sporgersi delicatamente verso di lui

Imagine you’re talking to a friend, colleague, or really anyone you normally converse with, and you notice they’ve leaned in as you’re speaking on a serious matter.

How does that make you feel? I’m guessing quite nice, as it shows you’ve got their undivided attention.

Do the exact same thing to this guy. Lean in when you want him to know you’re listening.

Se ci si piega all'indietro, si denota mancanza di interesse, quindi non bisogna mai ricorrere a questo.

Always lean a bit forward, as it shows him you’re interested in what he’s saying and it subconsciously makes him more attratti da voi.

11. Indossate qualcosa che vi faccia apparire (e sentire) agguerrite.

My opinion is that one should never do, say, or wear something they aren’t comfortable with. If it doesn’t make you feel good, just leave it.

Quindi siate fedeli a voi stesse. Il modo migliore per sentirsi bene in sua compagnia è indossare qualcosa che vi faccia sentire voi stesse e completamente a vostro agio.

Può essere una qualsiasi maglietta con cui vi sentite bene e un paio di jeans skinny.

It can be a hot little black number in which you feel like a bombshell. Or it can be something completely different. It’s up to you!

If you feel comfortable, it is much more likely that you’re going to appear relaxed and like you’re having a good time with him.

So don’t listen to your friends who keep telling you to slut it up (unless that’s what YOU want as well). Be YOU!

12. Don’t plan too much, go with the flow

I can give you all the tips on sexy body language signs in the world, but at the end of the day, it’s all up to you and him.

You really can’t know what this guy likes until you try! Some guys like it when you seductively lean in and shamelessly flirt, and others love it when you play coy.

You can’t plan these things. All you can do is read up, keep all of these useful tips in mind, and if it feels appropriate, use them!

You’ll be able to tell then and there, and not a minute sooner.

So my last tip is to simply be yourself. Don’t change your behavior excessively.

Utilizzateli a vostro vantaggio, ma solo per accentuare e sottolineare le vostre caratteristiche già sorprendenti.

Questo ragazzo dovrebbe amarti per chi sei. Use your body language to seduce him, but never cross any lines you’re not comfortable with.

Pensieri finali

Seducing a man might seem like a mighty task, but it really isn’t. It is all about using what God gave you to the best of your ability.

Tutti questi favolosi consigli e consigli sulle relazioni are here simply to help you use what you’ve already got. And I’m sure you’ve got plenty!

It’s not about becoming somebody you’re not. It’s about showing yourself that you’ve got what it takes to win over any man that you want. And if it doesn’t work, know that it’s not you.

Alcuni uomini sono semplicemente ciechi di fronte alle cose straordinarie che hanno davanti.

Indossate qualcosa che vi faccia sentire bene, truccatevi quanto volete (o poco) e mettete le vostre scarpe da ginnastica o i vostri tacchi preferiti.

When you feel the most like yourself, you’ve got the best shot to impress your desired man. And if he doesn’t like you for you – his loss!