13 motivi per cui se n'è andata

She left because she couldn’t do it anymore.

She couldn’t pretend everything was fine. She couldn’t keep counting on you when you were no longer there. She couldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t feel her anymore. She just couldn’t sit next to you and feel she doesn’t have you.

She left because you didn’t want to know what to do with her.

You couldn’t tell when she needed a hug, when she needed you to tell her she’s panicking without a reason and that everything will be fine, or when she needed to be left alone. At the beginning of the relationship, there were times when she didn’t even need to say what was wrong and you’d know. With time, you became oblivious, and you let that instinct of yours go. You shouldn’t have gotten her used to it if you planned on denying it to her after some time.

With time, you became oblivious, and you let that instinct of yours go. You shouldn’t have gotten her used to it if you planned on denying it to her after some time.

Se n'è andata perché il vostro amore si è esaurito.

You just forget she needed your love and you forgot that love builds slowly over time, but it also fades away with time. You thought it’ll all be alright and you never even bothered to see where you stand. You hoped that because she loved you once, she’ll love you forever. How could you expect her to love you forever when you gave her nothing to love?

You hoped that because she loved you once, she’ll love you forever. How could you expect her to love you forever when you gave her nothing to love?

Coppia che si tiene per mano

Se n'è andata perché ha dimenticato come essere felice.

You made her forget what happiness looks like and she let you do that. She lost her smile and it got replaced with the sadness in her eyes. She just wasn’t the same person because she was worried sick for both of you. It’s not a one-man job to take care of the relationship. It takes two to tango.

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Se n'è andata perché l'hai fatta sentire insicura.

You made her feel like she wasn’t good enough. You made her feel like you could leave anytime and never look back. Sometimes, you behaved like she meant nothing to you and that if you could take the time, you’d make her disappear from your memory.

Se n'è andata perché l'avete scelta una volta e mai più.

L'hai trascinata nel tuo uragano e poi l'hai lasciata ad affrontarlo da sola. You chose her only so she’d chose you and that’s where the story ends. And it shouldn’t have been like that. It should’ve been different.

You should’ve chosen her and her love and everything she has to offer every day and in return, given her at least as much love as she has given you. But you didn’t.

Se n'è andata perché ti amava.

She loved you from the bottom of her heart. She wanted to have everything with you, but she was insecure about you wanting the same. She didn’t want to put you in chains.

She didn’t want to make you feel miserable. She left because she thought that’s what you wanted and that’d make you happy. And the only thing what she wanted was to make you happy.

Se n'è andata perché la vostra relazione è diventata solo un guscio di ciò che era prima.

La scintilla che c'era tra voi due non c'è più. Non c'erano più chiacchiere a letto, non c'erano più risate, non c'erano più flirt, non c'erano più confidenze l'uno con l'altro. Tutto è scomparso con il tempo.

She didn’t want to remember you as the man who hurt her. She wanted to remember you as the man who made her feel loved and whom she loved with her whole heart, once upon a time.

 

Se n'è andata perché aveva bisogno di qualcosa di nuovo.

She didn’t need somebody new, she needed something new—she needed a change. You trapped her and made her age even though she was so far away from being old.

You never brought excitement into the relationship—it was all only about where and what you’ll eat or if she wanted to go out, but there was nothing done with excitement or thrills, the hint that something fun might happen down the road. You were unwilling to try new things. You made your love boring.

Se n'è andata perché avete smesso di darle ciò di cui ha bisogno.

Ogni giorno ha avuto sempre meno di te. Ha ricevuto meno attenzioni, meno tempo e meno amore. E lei non ha mai accettato questo. Meritava di più.

Se n'è andata perché si è stancata.

She became tired of trying and you became obsessive. You held on too tight thinking that’s the way she’ll stay with you. That wasn’t the way. She didn’t do anything bad, she didn’t hate you, and you screamed at her in vain.

Non c'è mai stato nessun altro. C'eravate solo voi fin dall'inizio, ma lei si è stancata di dovervelo dimostrare in continuazione.

Donna che si allontana

Se n'è andata perché ha provato di tutto.

Ha provato a prendere le distanze, ha provato ad amarti più di quanto tu ami lei, ha provato a parlarti, ha pianto, ha implorato, ha spiegato, ha cercato di farti ricordare, e poi si è arresa.

She left because you didn’t try anything.

You didn’t try to stop her. You never cared to tell her how much she means to you or how you wanted her to stay. You never gave her the reasons to stay. You only showed her why she should leave and that’s what she did. That’s why she left.

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