5 motivi per cui non vi rendete conto di essere dei veri e propri imbroglioni
1. You assume you’re a 1 when you’re actually a 10
La fiducia è la chiave che vi porta al successo, sia in amore che nella vita. Siete molto più di quanto pensiate; tutto ciò che vi manca è più amore per voi stessi.
Don’t sell yourself short. Establish higher standards when it comes to choosing your partner. If you keep settling for men who don’t value themselves, there is no way they will value you.
Con l'aumento dell'autostima, aumentano anche le possibilità di trovare l'amore.
2. You pretend like committed relationships don’t mean that much to you
La maggior parte degli uomini al giorno d'oggi ama gli incontri occasionali, quasi relazioni and any other form of a relationship that doesn’t assume them getting too attached.
So you say you are OK with that too, that you don’t care much about relationships and that you are good on your own. You are lying to them and to yourself.
Don’t settle for something fleeting when you want someone who stays. Don’t say you don’t want a relationship if you do. Men will take that seriously and they will take you for granted. You are only sabotaging your prospects of finding love.
3. State puntando alle persone sbagliate
Scegliete di vedere il buono in tutti, specialmente in qualcuno per cui avete già sviluppato dei sentimenti. Per questo motivo, tendete ad andare verso persone uguali o simili. tipi di ragazzi.
It’s time you change that. Learn from your past. You are able to notice all the red flags, all you need to do is look with your eyes, not your heart.
Change the pattern, put yourself first for a change, don’t tolerate mistreatment from anybody and whatever you do, never settle for less.
4. You are trying too hard because you don’t see how great you are
Pensate di dover sempre dare di più e lavorare di più per mantenere un partner al vostro fianco. Per questo motivo, anche se le vostre intenzioni sono buone, vi spingete oltre. Portate sempre in tavola più di quanto ricevete.
You get attached too much too soon, you do your best to accommodate another person and make them happy and you disregard your needs in the process. That’s the quickest way for them to take you for granted.
You are doing all of this because you are unable to see how amazing you are. You don’t see how lucky someone would be to have you in their life and it’s time you change that.
5. You don’t believe you are worthy of love
Maybe it’s your past that made you believe that you are not good enough. That you don’t deserve to be loved.
It’s time to shake all those feelings away because they have nothing to do with reality. Of course you are degno di amore. Just because you haven’t found someone who knows how to give love, this is a totally different thing.
Remember what I said at the beginning: don’t sell yourself short, you are a 10, not 1, and it’s time you see that for yourself. Work on your insecurities and emotional baggage from the past.
Nel momento in cui inizierete ad amare davvero voi stessi, tutto andrà per il meglio.
