5 segni inconfessabili che ti sta tradendo emotivamente

Tradimento emotivo is devastating. Probably, most of us would have preferred our partners to physically cheat on us—that is, cheating through sex.

It’s much easier to forgive a physical affair than an emotional one because we can comfort ourselves it was only a una tantum.

È molto più facile perdonare l'infedeltà quando è coinvolto solo il contatto fisico.

Può capitare di pensare a una persona nuova che abbiamo conosciuto. Forse pensiamo che quella persona sia solo un amico, ma forse vogliamo segretamente che sia un po' più di questo.

You may have never slept with that person or hugged or kissed, but you can’t stop thinking about him or her.

That’s emotional cheating.

It’s much more serious because there are emotions involved. If you emotionally cheat on someone, you will break their trust—and that is something you can’t regain so easily.

Emotional cheating doesn’t have to be intentional.

Spesso siamo del tutto inconsapevoli di tradire qualcuno. La cosa ci coglie di sorpresa. D'altra parte, non è colpa nostra se il nostro cuore ha una mente propria. A volte le cose accadono e basta.

Ogni volta che pensiamo o fantasticare su qualcun altro, we are stepping on our partner’s self-esteem because he or she clearly lacks something we are looking for elsewhere.

Se pensate che questo stia accadendo nella vostra relazione con il partner, verificate alcuni segnali che chiariranno tutti i vostri dubbi.

Improvvisamente impegnati nei social media

You partner has never been a social media freak, but lately, he can’t live without checking his notifications or posting new posts.

Maybe he has just bloomed into a Social Media flower. Or maybe he is texting his new secret ‘friend’.

Chi lo sa? Ma se mostra interesse all'improvviso, dovete assolutamente andare a fondo della questione.

Let’s hope he is the ‘goodie-goodie’ you think he is and not some jerk who is planning to step on your heart.

You feel like you’re chasing him all the time

You’ve got the feeling you are pursuing him all the time. Maybe he’s gotten emotionally distant and he is not engaged in your relationship so much.

Se siete l'unico che sta investendo nella vostra relazione, dovresti ripensare alle cose.

The most probable thing that’s happening is that ti sta tradendo emotivamente.

He is most likely not interested in you as he used to be because he has found a new ‘object’ of interest.

Il tempo che trascorre con voi è diminuito

Before, you were together all the time, but now he seems to spend less and less time with you. His attention is not on you—it is elsewhere.

He may even start to shut you down from his life—bit by bit.

Potrebbe chiedervi di non partecipare ad alcuni eventi importanti della sua vita o potrebbe addirittura non parlarvi di alcune cose che ha fatto o ha intenzione di fare.

These are all signs of emotional cheating and if you notice them in your partner, prepare to be dumped or act on it—quickly.

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Ha un amico con cui può parlare

This friend of his may be just a friend or it may be someone who is waiting for the opportunity to jump into your place—and she will play rough to get there.

Il vostro partner potrebbe davvero pensare di poterle parlare e magari condividere i panni sporchi della sua relazione per chiederle consiglio.

Watch out because she may trick him into liking her—believe me, even that’s possible!

Il vostro intuito vi dice che qualcosa non va

Sometimes, our women’s intuition just gets it right. You have the feeling something is ‘off’. You don’t even have to have some proof to make you believe he is emotionally cheating on you.

You just know. Why do you know it?—It’s hard to explain.

Especially if you’ve been in a relationship with someone for years, you know exactly how they are reacting and what they are thinking. And if they are tradirti emotivamente, lo saprete.

Watch out for these signs but don’t follow them blindly. Maybe he isn’t cheating on you after all. Maybe he has a problem which he’s not sure how to present to you.

One way or the other, confront him and listen to what he’s got to say before you make any decision.