6 GRANDI differenze tra lussuria e amore
Is it lust or love? How can you tell the difference when it’s so similar at the beginning of the relationship?
You feel loved and appreciated all the time with the amount of attention he’s giving you and you don’t question his intentions, even though you should.
Questi tipi di relazioni are very dangerous because you might be falling in love with him but you can’t figure out if he really loves you for whom you are or if he loves the way you two work together under the sheets.
Ecco alcune differenze tra amore e lussuria che potrebbero aiutarvi a capire cosa vuole davvero da voi.
1. Si complimenta con il vostro corpo, non con la vostra mente
Continua a dirti quanto sei sexy con quel vestito e guarda costantemente il tuo corpo. This is a huge sign of lust, because he can’t keep his eyes off of your body and he’s just thinking about how you might look naked.
If he loves you, he will look you in the eyes while you tell him how your day was or when you’re telling him about something interesting you read the other day. If it’s love, he’ll want to get to know your mind rather than your body.
2. Ogni volta che provate a parlare con lui, lo trasforma in un discorso di sesso.
Provate a parlargli della vostra relazione e delle vostre emozioni, ma tutto ciò che fa è trasformarlo in un'opportunità per dirvi quanto siete sexy e cosa vuole fare con voi stasera (o qualcosa del genere).
He can’t keep the conversation serious even though you would like to talk about your emotions with him. You know what happens when he’s in love?
He is very upfront about his emotions and he knows that you deserve to be treated with the utmost respect, so he doesn’t interrupt while you’re talking and he listens to what you’re saying.
3. Evita di parlare del futuro
When it’s lust, your relationship is clearly just on a fantasy level for him; you both have fun and there are no serious situations involved.
But when you’re in love with each other, if he truly does love you, you will make progetti per il futuro insieme.
Vi coinvolgerete a vicenda in tutti i vostri obiettivi. Questa è la più grande differenza tra amore e lussuria.
La lussuria dura solo pochi giorni, l'amore è per sempre.
4. He doesn’t care about meeting your friends or family
Vuole solo te. Nuda. Perché dovrebbe voler conoscere i tuoi amici?
Non hanno nulla a che fare con la vostra relazione o con le cose all'interno della camera da letto. Quindi non sente il bisogno di incontrare i vostri amici o la vostra famiglia. Sarebbe troppo imbarazzante.
Ma se vi ama, probabilmente aspetterà un po' di tempo per incontrarli, solo per essere sicuro che lo vogliate davvero, e andrà volentieri con voi a una cena di famiglia. Farà del suo meglio per fare una buona impressione.
5. Non siete amici l'uno dell'altro
You don’t play around, laugh or have a fun time together. He doesn’t even know how to sit by your side without touching you and showing you that he wants you.
Friends don’t do these things because what they want are conversazioni di qualità, a lot of laughter and so on. If he only sees you two as lovers, it’s very obvious that it’s only lust.
6. He doesn’t stay to cuddle
Isn’t it the purest feeling ever when you wake up in the morning by his side and you cuddle for hours on end? In a lustful relationship, he’ll be gone before you even wake up.
But a relationship filled with love shows that being together isn’t a burden, but an enjoyment. Even the morning silence feels beautiful, without a hint of awkwardness.
