6 segnali allarmanti del fatto che il vostro ragazzo ha bisogno di stare da solo

Hai notato qualcosa di diverso nel tuo ragazzo ultimamente? Si è comportato improvvisamente in modo distante e ogni volta che cerchi di parlargli sembra assente?

Si infastidisce facilmente per le cose di cui prima rideva e voi vi sentite impotenti non sapendo cosa fare e come raggiungerlo.

The biggest problem with guys is that they won’t tell you when something bothers them because they are taught to find solutions on their own and to keep things to themselves.

Hanno difficoltà ad aprirsi con voi perché temono di essere giudicati o di apparire vulnerabili di fronte a voi.

And that is why he’ll choose to stay silent instead of telling you that he just needs some time for himself.

Ma dimentica che le sue azioni dicono molto su come si sente e che potete essere sempre un passo avanti a lui se prestate attenzione a questi 6 segnali allarmanti che indicano che ha bisogno di stare un po' da solo.

He’s feeling down all the time

It is completely normal to feel down sometimes but if he’s constantly in a bad mood and when you ask him for a reason, he tells you that he doesn’t know, this might mean that he needs some alone time in order to recharge.

Another indicator is if he’s no longer enjoying the activities the two of you used to enjoy before. This means he has some barriers that are preventing him from relaxing and enjoying spending time with you.

He’s making excuses

Se vi rendete conto che il vostro ragazzo è trovare scuse every time you ask him to go for a drink or something else, it is the ultimate sign that he needs alone time. Don’t confuse this with his affection toward you.

This has nothing to do with you and you shouldn’t be offended if he starts making excuses all of a sudden. Just be patient and leave him be for some time and he’ll come back to you rejuvenated.

Trascorre molto tempo con i suoi amici

When a guy feels like he’s suffocating in a relationship, he’ll start spending a lot of time with his friends. His friends will become his shelter from the things that might bother him and that is why he’ll spend more time with them than he’s spending with you.

Perhaps you’re essere troppo bisognosi or you’re not giving him some space for himself? Think about the possible reason that might have caused this sudden change of behavior.

Also, don’t forget to give him some time with his friends because it is his way of dealing with things. And don’t forget that this is just temporary.

He’s not that interested in sex

If a guy is not interested in sex, you can be sure that something’s going on with him.

He’s probably lost his will for sex due to being overly annoyed or irritated by some trivial things. He simply cannot be relaxed because his subconscious is telling him that he needs some alone time to come to his senses.

He’s delaying his replies

If you’ve noticed that it takes him more time than usual to text you back, it means he needs some space.

Vi lascerà aspettare la sua risposta non perché vuole punirvi, ma perché non riesce a combattere l'impulso di farvi sapere in modo sottile che vuole stare da solo.

I know it’s hard not to get mad when something like this happens but try to respect his decision and he’ll appreciate you even more. Next time you find yourself waiting for him to reply, simply ignore it and give him some space.

Ferisce involontariamente i vostri sentimenti

If he’s constantly looking for arguments (for no apparent reason) and only to get rid of his rage, you’ll know it’s time to intervene and pull away.

He might even say something insulting to you just because he’s desperate to have his alone time.

I know it would be much simpler if he decided to say this to you (instead of making a scene) but that’s just how guys work. You can never know what’s on their mind until their actions show it.