7 ottimi modi per fargli rimpiangere di averti scaricato

Nessuno può scappare da un cuore spezzato. Tutti soffriamo a un certo punto della nostra vita e fa schifo.

Le rotture fanno schifo per tanti motivi. Ma la cosa che fa più male è il rifiuto.

Volevate stare con quella persona, ma lei non voleva più stare con voi.

It’s normal that your ego is hurt and il tuo cuore è spezzato. Especially when you dream your whole life of having your own happy story and a fairytale ending. It’s normal that you feel bitter and broken.

You want him back even if it might not be the best thing to do, but in that state of mind, you can’t think rationally.

It’s normal you want him to be hurt, too. You want to hope that he is hurting too, but deep inside you know that you’ve had it much worse than him.

You will go over your breakup in your head millions of times trying to find the reason why he dumped you, why he decided to continue his life without you, but you just can’t think of any, because for you, there is no one.

Ha semplicemente perso interesse per lei. Whether you’re still interested in him or you just want to make him pay for leaving you, there are ways to get there.

If you insult him and yell at him every time you see him, he will thank God for breaking up with you because you’re crazy AF, so take the high road and do this smart.

Come fargli rimpiangere di averti scaricato

Tell him what you’ve been up to

Quindi, invece di urlare a squarciagola quando lo incontrate, provate un approccio diverso.

Fill his head with all the wonderful things you’ve been up to since you broke up.

And make sure to mention these words ‘since we broke up’ or ‘since the breakup’.

That will get his attention and he will really understand you did all those things after you broke up. Don’t restrain yourself in order to spare his feelings.

Remember that he hurt you, too. But either way, do it classy—as long as you don’t go beneath your principals.

Mantenere la felicità e la fiducia in se stessi

The way you feel reflects on the way you look. If you’re down, your face looks sad, your eyes don’t smile and your grin is upside down.

People can notice when you’re hurting or when your confidence is next to non-existent. Also, people can see, so does he, when you’re happy and confident.

Go out with your friends and move on with your life. Make him see that the breakup didn’t affect you, even if it did.

He doesn’t need to know that. Your positive attitude and your self-confidence will make him regret his decision of leaving you.

It’s up to you whether you’ll do something about it.

Regola di non contatto

Il regola del divieto di contatto è una delle cose più importanti dopo una rottura.

Not only will it help you get better much sooner, but it will also provoke a dose of curiosity in him. He will definitely wonder what is up with you and how you’re doing.

Quanto più infelici sarete, tanto più grande sarà il suo ego perché il fatto ti ha scaricato and you are unhappy makes it appear as if you can’t live without him and that makes him feel important.

Don’t contact your ex at all. It will help you with the healing and it will drive him crazy. He will probably even regret leaving you.

Rifacimento del look

Questo è sempre un ottimo modo per ricominciare da capo. Se vi vede dopo che vi ha scaricato e siete assolutamente splendide, lo scherzo è su di lui. Si trasforma in un idiota che ha lasciato andare quella ragazza così sexy.

So, redo your hair, go shopping and take off those extra pounds (if you have any). Just a bit to make his jaw drop. You’ll be an absolute winner.

Even if you don’t want to get back with him, you’re going to make him regret dumping you big time.

Immagini postali

Quindi, i social media sono stati creati per situazioni come questa e altre simili.

It was made to show what I have and you don’t. So, people post pictures, places they go and it’s pretty much only to brag about how they look and where have they been.

So, don’t be a fool and use this great potential social networks have given you to post pictures of yourself and your friends having a good time.

He’ll probably regret losing you after he sees how great you’re doing and how beautiful you look.

Menzionare la propria carriera

When you meet him, subtly hint that you’re killing it at your job. Having a great career is a big thing, and maybe it’s even bigger if he’s not as successful as you are.

I mean, you’re not going to make fun of him or rubbing his nose in the fact that you’re doing better than him, but casually mention how you’re so happy doing what you do and mention some new opportunities or whatever.

Just try not to overdo it because it can sound like you’re trying too hard.

Trascorrere del tempo con altre persone

They don’t have to be men, but it would be better if they are. Hang out with different people to make him see that you really have that special something that interests and intrigues others, and he’s an idiot for missing it.

Fargli mettere in dubbio la sua decisione con un innocuo flirt with other men. You’ll definitely stir some feelings in your ex.

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