8 motivi per cui gli uomini lasciano le donne che amano
They tell us they love us. They keep talking about our future and the moment we believe them… they leave.
Gli uomini ci lasciano il cuore spezzato e segnato per il resto della vita, ci confondono con il modo in cui ci trattano e decidono comunque di andarsene.
Sappiamo tutti che attaccamento emotivo agli occhi di un uomo è qualcosa di difficile, ma deve essere davvero così difficile?
Well, let’s finally resolve this issue and learn why men leave the women they love.
Si sente minacciato
This happens mostly when you’re more successful than he is.
When you have a job, a career that you’re proud of and he simply can’t keep up with you, he will feel threatened and leave no matter how much he loves you.
This also happens when he feels like you’re outgrowing him, when you’re becoming better than him in any possible way.
Men get intimidated by women’s success even if they don’t want to admit it.
You’re nagging all the time
Women go for what they want and they don’t know when it’s enough. Let’s be honest, we do get a little crazy from time to time.
We are mostly right but wanting to control him simply doesn’t work in a relationship.
He might love you with all of his heart but if you’re clingy, if you’re nagging constantly and if you’re needy and don’t allow him any space, no matter how much he loves you, he’ll leave.
Sesso scadente o niente sesso
You’ve guessed it. It’s sad but true: men love sex!
But be sure that he’ll leave you and then go have sex with another woman, rather than cheat on you just for some one-night pleasure.
It’s up to you to decide whether you want to have sex with him or not, or if you want to improve the act, but it’s just very important for you to know how amazingly satisfying sex is to men and that they crave it like air.
Noia
Nella maggior parte dei casi, che ci crediate o no, il motivo per cui gli uomini lasciano le donne che amano è la noia.
Gli uomini vogliono azione, vogliono che le cose siano diverse e piene di novità.
Quando rimangono bloccati in un circolo in cui fanno sempre le stesse cose, si annoiano e desiderano qualcosa di nuovo che li aiuti. uscire dalla routine.
Codipendenza
Gli uomini amano essere indipendenti e nel momento in cui un uomo si rende conto di essersi trovato in una relazione codipendente, tenderà ad allontanarsi lentamente.
Anche se gli fa male, il pensiero di dipendere da qualcuno lo spaventa.
La codipendenza porta con sé molti altri problemi, come la rinuncia a trascorrere del tempo con amici e familiari o semplicemente la mancanza di tempo per se stessi.
If a relationship is about giving up other parts of your life, guys simply aren’t up for that.
You’re trying to change him
Potrebbe non sentirsi più se stesso. Tutti cambiamo quando abbiamo una relazione, ma per gli uomini perdere se stessi è come perdere l'orgoglio.
His friends might start to tease him that he has turned into a ‘pussy’ or that he isn’t who he was before because he is now spending too much time with his girlfriend.
Also, if he starts noticing that he’s watched chick flicks with you for five nights in a row, you have a problem.
Confronto
Perché dovrebbe voler stare con una donna che lo paragona costantemente al suo ex?
Vedete, il problema potrebbe anche non essere vostro.
Potrebbe paragonarsi al vostro ex senza che voi ne abbiate mai parlato.
His mind simply won’t let him have a moment of peace and he continues to think that he’s not suited to you, because your ex was way better than him.
Mancanza di apprezzamento
If a man loves a woman to the point where he is willing to do anything for her, be sure that he doesn’t do it just for fun.
He wants to be appreciated. Just like there’s no woman out there who wants to be taken for granted, it’s the same with men.
