10 cose che lo terranno incollato

Ci sono tanti consigli e modi per tenerlo agganciato, ma quello che dovete tenere a mente è che ognuno è diverso.

The best way to keep him hooked is to be yourself and avoid all the games, such as ignoring his texts for twenty minutes, being available for another twenty, then sacrificing two kittens while you’re ghosting him for three hours. Repeat as necessary.

Sul serio, l'amore non è così complicato e se lo è, it’s not real love. So, here’s the list of things you can do to keep him hooked, without sacrificing kittens or your soul or counting the minutes.

Fatevi prendere la mano

There is no point in getting him hooked if you’re not hooked yourself. You need to be sure that this is what you want and that it makes you feel truly good.

If you’re genuinely interested, he will be too. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who wants you.

Divertitevi

When a relationship passes the honeymoon phase it gets serious, and that’s what you want. But when it’s too serious, it loses that spark that keeps it going and that keeps it alive.

So be spontaneous and have fun. Buy water balloons and declare war with him and just go for it. It’s also a great way to let go of some of the pressure and tensions that build up over time.

Siate appassionati

About him, about your relationship and about yourself. He fell in love with your passion and if you put it aside because someone said that love is supposed to be steady and serious, you’ll just end up losing yourself and the parts of yourself he fell in love with in the first place. Don’t change who you are just because you’re in a relationship.

Don’t be afraid to slay

Men are usually the ones with a fragile ego but a real man will be proud of his woman slaying. So don’t put your life on hold for him, because he will hardly notice it.

And even if he does, he will say that he never asked you to do it and be angry because you think he’s fragile (even if he is).

Tu fai te stesso e c'è un modo migliore per farlo appassionare se non con il tuo fantastico gioco? Le coppie che giocano insieme, restano insieme!

Mostra l'indipendenza

While asking him for help and advice is really good because it shows that you believe in him and his opinion, don’t overdo it. Waiting for him to help you with every decision is only going to chase him away.

Ricordate che possedevate il vostro mondo molto prima che lui vi entrasse e potete farlo anche adesso.

Avere una vita propria

Just because he’s not into the same things you are it doesn’t mean you should give up on them. There are always compromessi da fare e i modi per risolvere le cose.

Andate a fare shopping con le ragazze e lasciatelo andare alla partita. Entrambi apprezzerete il tempo trascorso da soli e quindi sarete più desiderosi di tornare insieme alla fine della giornata.

Siate onesti

Nascondergli la verità non vi porterà da nessuna parte. Le piccole bugie bianche sembrano innocenti, ma a volte la verità è tutto ciò di cui avete bisogno.

So don’t be afraid to say what’s on your mind, because he will appreciate the fact that you trust him enough to speak your mind.

But keep in mind that there’s no need to be brutally honest. Always go with the idea of how you would you like to be approached and there’s no way you can go wrong.

Mostrare iniziativa in camera da letto

Showing him how attractive he is to you will help him feel better about himself. But don’t do this just because you feel you have to.

Do it if you really want to do it. If you feel like ripping his clothes off and getting it on right there in the middle of the kitchen, do it. But if you don’t feel like it, he will notice and you will both feel shitty afterward.

Siate solidali e dimostrate apprezzamento

A little bit of support can go a long way and we all know it. If he’s super-passionate about following his dream, be passionate with him.

Se ha fatto qualcosa per entrambi, assicuratevi di ringraziarlo. La cosa peggiore che un uomo possa provare in una relazione è essere dato per scontato.

And even if you don’t do it intentionally, it still hurts. So show him that you see what he’s doing and that it means so much to you. Soon enough he will return the favor and your relationship will significantly improve.

Fiducia in lui

Non c'è modo migliore per dimostrargli che ci tenete che dimostrargli che ha la vostra fiducia. Affidategli il vostro cuore, i vostri ricordi e le vostre paure.

Open up to him, no matter how scary it seems. If you’re sure that he’s the one and that he’s worth it, don’t hold any of it back.

Lui merita di sapere come vi sentite e voi meritate di sentirvi in pace. E c'è un modo migliore per sentirla che costruire la fiducia?