Non sprecare il suo tempo se stai cercando qualcosa di temporaneo

Prima di lasciarvi coinvolgere da questa ragazza, ci sono alcune cose che dovreste sapere su di lei. Vedete, lei è diversa da tutti gli altri.

She is not a part-time girl and she isn’t looking for part-time love.

She won’t be there just when she is convenient for you, so you could dump her the very next moment. She isn’t looking for casual flings or meaningless affairs.

She isn’t looking for a no strings attached relationship or for a friend with benefits.

This girl isn’t looking for sex only. She isn’t looking for someone for the night, to warm up next to, or someone whose name she wouldn’t know the next morning.

Don’t get me wrong—if casual relationships are your thing, this is perfectly fine with her. But you should also respect the fact that this is not something she sees herself in.

You should be honest enough and tell her your intentions straightforwardly, before she falls for you and before she wastes her time on something that isn’t going anywhere.

Potreste definire questa ragazza una sciocca. Potreste considerarla un'inguaribile romantica. Potreste definirla antiquata o addirittura infantile.

Ma la verità è che lei crede nell'amore. Un amore vero, incondizionato, eterno.

She believes in real-life fairy tales and she is certain that one day she’ll run into her Prince Charming.

The truth is that she doesn’t fit in with today’s modern dating. She can’t imagine herself sleeping with someone on the first date or being with a man until someone better comes along, just so she isn’t alone.

Instead, she wants to find her soulmate. A man with whom she’ll form a deeper, more intimate connection and with whom she’ll bond on a spiritual level.

No, it doesn’t mean that she thinks of sex as unimportant. And it definitely doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy it.

It’s just that this girl can’t seem to separate her body, mind and soul from one another. If you want to have her, you are getting the entire package. Or you aren’t getting anything.

She knows that nothing in life can be planned. She is aware that things don’t always end up the way she expected them to.

E sa che non c'è alcuna garanzia che una relazione abbia successo.

Ma vuole almeno avere qualcosa in cui sperare. Vuole poter progettare un futuro con l'uomo che le sta accanto, invece di sapere che tutto quello che c'è tra loro due ha una data di scadenza.

She doesn’t want a relationship which she knows is destinato a fallire from day one. She doesn’t want to waste her precious time and energy on something or someone that isn’t worthy of her.

This girl doesn’t want temporary, short-term or partial love that’s full of uncertainty. She wants it all or nothing.

She doesn’t want a relationship in which she’ll feel alone or a relationship without labels and without commitment.

Vuole un amore vero, una volta nella vita, sincero e reciproco. Un uomo che la amerà tutta, un uomo su cui potrà contare e un uomo con cui si vede invecchiare.

Vuole un'anima gemella e un uomo per sempre, tutto in una sola persona.

Qualsiasi altra cosa non sarebbe altro che accontentarsi. E questa è l'ultima cosa che questa ragazza è disposta a fare. Perché preferisce sempre rimanere single piuttosto che accettare meno di quello che sa di meritare.

So please, don’t string this girl along if you can’t give her what she needs. Don’t go after her if you think that she is asking too much or if the two of you don’t want the same things from life.

Don’t enter her life if you have a runaway plan for the moment when things get serious or if you don’t plan to stay.

Don’t make her promises you can’t keep. Don’t fill her heart with hope if you plan on letting her down.

Don’t try to play with her heart because you’ll break it, without being aware of it. Don’t date her if you can’t commit to her.