5 segni di perdita di tempo con lui
Nel mondo in cui viviamo oggi, tutti sono troppo occupati e troppo competitivi per avere il tempo di sistemarsi e trovare un partner degno. Gli uomini ne sono particolarmente colpiti, non perché siano più impegnati o più attivi delle donne, ma perché fanno finta di niente o non gliene frega niente di trovare un amore profondo e devozionale.
A meaningful relationship seems like everyone’s dream, but for a guy these days, a hookup is the easier and more convenient option. Even if it becomes more than a hookup, it’s still a question of how serious he’s gonna take it, and the sad truth is that he is probably just wasting your time per i suoi bisogni egoistici.
These are the 5 most obvious signs you’re just wasting your time with him.
He won’t consider real commitment anytime soon
So you’ve met, you like each other, maybe had a few hookups—what now? You talk a lot, and you really start feeling some kind of connection with him but every time you talk you want to ask him: “What are we?”. You hesitate with it because you’re too afraid of the answer.
If this is the case, and if he is not going to be the one asking it, then finally do it. If he doesn’t give you a normal answer, avoids the question or states his opinion and expectations of the relationship in a way that doesn’t suit you—end it.
End it before it consumes even more of your life because you don’t have time for that kind of game.
Le conversazioni ruotano solo intorno ai suoi interessi
He never asks anything about you except the “How’s it going” question. After only a few dates, you literally know everything about him—his interests, hobbies, his exes, etc.
Yet, if you said that you like something, he will forget it in the next 5 seconds. I mean, come on, you’re better than that. Don’t waste your time on self-centered, uomini narcisisti.
You can’t be yourself around him
Per quanto sia divertente e bello, ti sembra sempre di dover fingere di essere un'altra persona quando c'è lui.
Tutti vogliono presentarsi nella luce migliore, ma non è sempre possibile.
When you two hang out, you don’t talk like you usually do, you don’t dress like you usually would and if you’re not around him, you stalk him trying to find out what he likes.
Don’t ever change for a guy! Don’t pretend you’re someone else. Don’t be uncomfortable around someone just to make that person like you.
You can feel that it’s not going to last for long, so stop wasting your time and keep searching for il ragazzo che si sentirà a casa. E' là fuori!
He’s immature
Ragazza, di sicuro non vuoi perdere tempo con questo ragazzo. Se gioca ancora a dei giochi o possiede delle action figure che sono ancora nella confezione originale, non significa che sia immaturo.
Certo, i suoi interessi sono piuttosto infantili, ma se lo rendono felice, chi siamo noi per giudicare, giusto?
Ma se non è in grado di prendersi cura di sé o di voi, non vale la pena dedicargli tempo.
His immaturity can be seen in so many ways and his behavior will probably even embarrass you in public. When something like this happens—it’s time to bounce.
Non sembra avere alcun progetto per il futuro
Is there anything worse than people who have no ambitions and no plans in their lives? Why would you waste your time with a guy who can’t motivate you in any sense?
It doesn’t mean you should dump a guy who hasn’t achieved anything in his life so far, but if he is not planning to change that in the future—do yourself a favor, end it.
