In normal circumstances, the worst outcome of a shattering break-up is a broken heart. Unless you were involved with a narcissist. Don’t get me wrong—I am not trying to claim that a broken heart isn’t a big deal because it is definitely one of the most painful things all of us experiences. But narcissists don’t…
Most likely, somebody you care for was hurt in the past. Somebody you love and want to help has a deep mark of the past and is carrying it constantly, even now in the present, and you want to help. You wonder how I know you want to help? If you weren’t, you wouldn’t be…
A lot of women make the same mistake when the narcissist they’ve broken up with comes back, especially if they are freshly out of the relationship. We all make that mistake because frankly, we are still in love with our narcissist. Although we know they are bad for us and we’re only going to be…
Narcissists are predators and they are always on the lookout for new victims. They never stop and relax because they can’t live without someone to draw all the energy from. Innocent people, empaths, are their prime victims. They have a lot of energy to give, which draws a narcissist closer to them. An empath’s energy…
Shutting down a narcissist usually seems like mission impossible. Nevertheless, trust me that it can be done effectively. All narcissists have a similar pattern of behavior and consequently, there are some comebacks that work like a charm on almost every single narcissist out there. Here are 6 of the most effective ones. “You are the…
It is a known fact that many relationships have ups and downs and that sometimes partners fight. But you need to distinguish a normal fight from abusive behavior and if you see that is happening to you, you should leave as soon as possible. You need to know that life with an abuser is not…
Trying to reason or have a normal conversation with a narcissist is impossible. You can try. You can fight for your right to speak, but you’ll get nowhere. If he wants to, he will make you feel like you’re talking to a wall—an emotionless, cold, and distant wall. Your words simply won’t get through, no…
For a long time, I was convinced that I was guilty for everything bad that was happening to me. I wasn’t sure how and why, but I knew that I was responsible for the evil that had hit me. I thought that somehow I deserved all the insults I received, all the humiliation I went…
Post Narcissist Stress Disorder (PNSD) happens after you’ve been living with a narcissist. Narcissists change you and the way you perceive the world. They bully and manipulate you into becoming the person you never wanted to be. Their toxic behavior consumes you and turns you into an insecure and scared person. After you break free…
When you hear the words such as ‘abuse’ or ‘emotional trauma’, you only think of the worst possible things. You relate it to pain, destruction, heartache, and permanent damage. However, despite all of this being true, the path of overcoming trauma can also bring you many positive changes that make you grow as a person….