Ecco come la perderai
Come puoi non vedere che sei tutto ciò che ha sempre voluto?
Dio solo sa quante ragazze ci sono là fuori, come lei, che fissano il telefono in attesa di un tuo messaggio di risposta. Ma non c'è risposta.
Tutti quei social media, e per cosa? Per poterla ignorare in 10 modi diversi?
Siete stanchi di stare su un piedistallo? Perfetto, perché lei vi toglierà presto da lì.
You see, she’s not a quitter. She is a fighter. She is a go-getter. She has everything in her life figured out. Everything but you.
You’re the only enigma she’s struggling with. She’s ready to give you all the love she has and to let you in her life, but it takes two to dance the tango.
The journey of life awaits you; the only thing you need to do is get on board. And you’re still standing there frozen.
You were (and you probably still are) her first option, the only option she sees and yet you go out there playing games—hard to get and playing with her feelings.
Perché sai di poterlo fare. Hai tutto questo potere su di lei. Ti ha dato quel potere perché le hai promesso le stelle. Quello che ha ottenuto finora è stata solo polvere.
She needs you to let her know you’re there. To show her you care.
What she appreciates the most is the effort you make for her. An effort to see her, to let her know you’re thinking of her.
And she’s ready to hold onto you until you’re ready for as long as you need. But if you show her that you will never be ready, she will walk away.
"You don’t have to barare di perdere la vostra ragazza o la vostra donna. Potete perderla a causa della mancanza di comunicazione, di attenzione e di mancanza di rispetto.
It’s not all about what you do, sometimes it’s about what you DON’T do.” – Chris Sain Jr.
Blowing hot and cold may make you feel supreme, but it will backfire. You’ve done your best to feed her demons and insecurities. She keeps reaching for you, but you pretend not to see her.
Ogni sguardo che rivolge a voi ha una storia da raccontare. Sei illetterato? O sei solo nervoso?
She would’ve been gone a long time ago, but you keep doing the same thing over and over again—when you see her pulling away, you show up and it’s all rainbows and butterflies for a while.
The pattern is always the same: you come back, make a promise you’ll be there, kiss and hug and then you’re out again.
Nevertheless, she’s still there. She’s still hoping the two of you are meant to be. But, it won’t be long before si rende conto del suo valore e decide di prendervi a calci fuori dalla sua testa.
What you fail to realize is that she’ll get tired eventually.
And then…
Non ci sarà più nessuno a lottare per la vostra attenzione. Non ci sarà più nessuno a lottare per voi. Non ci saranno risposte rapide ai vostri messaggi (se/quando deciderete di inviarne uno).
Her giving up doesn’t mean her stopping to care for you. It’s just that there is a certain amount of yourself you can give in vain, and she already gave herself all in.
Don’t wait until you’ve lost her to realize what she means to you.
You know she’s the right one—but you are not fighting for her.
It’s like you enjoy the game that you’re playing. The only problem is that you’re oblivious of her strength.
As much as she’s strong enough to love you unconditionally, that is how much she is capable of leaving you.
Just because she didn’t do it yet, it doesn’t mean she won’t do it at all.
There is someone out there who’s gonna give her the love she deserves.
