Ecco come si perde una donna che ha visto il tuo peggio ed è rimasta

Una cosa che mi ha sempre fatto sentire orgogliosa di me stessa è che sono una donna che corre o muore. Quando amo, amo fino al midollo.

I’m there for you through the good times and the bad times.

I don’t count mistakes and I always find a way to make things better. My mind is open and my heart is big.

I know how to forgive and I know how to see through your pain. I’m a one of a kind woman and all of that wasn’t enough to make you realize that you should have treated me better than you did.

Ti ho visto nel tuo momento peggiore. Ti ho visto quando eri al minimo, comportandoti come tutto ciò di cui avevi paura.

I saw you when you acted exactly like you said you would never act. Maybe that’s what you couldn’t stand.

Forse ti vergognavi di te stesso e te la sei presa con me.

Well, the saddest thing is that your problems aren’t mine but I would have gladly helped you with them if you hadn’t ruined it all.

You started to act so insecurely. I wasn’t allowed to do anything without you. You started acting selfishly.

Everything you said became a manipulation tactic and you wouldn’t let me breathe.

On top of all that, you didn’t even care to make me feel loved or cared for. You were possessive yet cold.

I got tired of giving my best to a person who didn’t deserve me. I knew that life wasn’t about constantly meeting the needs of others but mutual understanding.

Sapevo che c'era di più nella vita che vederti fare sempre lo stesso errore, senza mai cambiare e senza accorgerti di quello che stavo facendo per te.

Ho sempre avuto problemi a lasciare le persone e questa è stata la cosa più difficile da fare, ma l'ho fatto.

You didn’t break my spirit so I still knew my worth. I knew that if I didn’t leave you, I would end up broken and lost. And I’m not that kind of woman.

I’m not someone you can control, someone you can use as an emotional punching bag.

I’m very aware of myself and the things I can do and give. I’m aware that I’m rare. That’s exactly why I know you will regret losing me once you realize I’m gone forever.

It takes me so much time to leave someone but once I’m gone, I’m gone forever. You have lost me.

My heart is broken but my spirit is whole. I’ll find a way to mend my heart but you will never find a way back to me.

Non avresti mai dovuto pensare che la tua debolezza fosse nel tuo dolore, ma nel modo in cui hai lasciato che ti controllasse. Hai lasciato che la tua paura diventasse insicurezza e poi hai lasciato che la tua insicurezza uccidesse il nostro amore.

Love isn’t fear or control or walking on eggshells to stop yourself from triggering someone.

L'amore è una questione di onestà, di profondità dei sentimenti e di vulnerabilità di fronte alla persona amata.

Vulnerability takes courage and you didn’t have it. You let your bad side consume you and you sacrificed our love.

I know you enough to know you won’t change, so I needed to leave you. One day you will think of us and ask yourself how you failed to recognize the true love I was giving you.

We could have healed together but you choose pain. I didn’t. That’s why I’m here, writing this as I contemplate what was once our love.

I hope you’re not doing the same thing to someone else. I hope my love has taught you to face your demons, rather than blame others.

Nel frattempo, riconosco la forza della mia anima. Ho imparato ad avere dei limiti. Ho finalmente capito che non tutti sono degni del mio tempo o del mio amore.