Le persone ti danno del pazzo quando dimostri loro che non puoi essere manipolato

Avete finalmente preso posizione per la prima volta nella vostra vita e siete stati immediatamente dichiarati pazzi e folli?

You’ve put up with so many bad things. You’ve tolerated way too much from other people.

You’ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it was coming from people you loved and cared for.

Now, you’ve decided to put a stop to all of that and finally choose yourself and your well-being for once in your life. I have to congratulate you; it’s a very difficult task because you really must be very strong to confront cruel, persone tossiche.

Prendere posizione allontanerà le persone tossiche

Improvvisamente, tutte quelle persone vi hanno voltato le spalle. La vostra decisione di farvi valere ha allontanato molte persone dalla vostra vita.

Questo è un dato di fatto, ma sapete cosa? It’s the best thing that could ever happen to you. Those people were bad for you anyway, and they never even deserved to be a part of your life.

Honestly, people tend to be like that sometimes. They’ll forget about you, leave, or even call you insane when they realize that they can’t use you, and when you show them you won’t allow them to treat you the way they did before.

I know it can be painful to hear them talk like that about you. You might even start reconsidering your behavior and whether you were right or not. However, you must understand that…

It’s not you. It’s them

You’re never the problem; the people who mistreated you are. They want to manipulate and use you for their benefit.

Don’t ever allow them to make you doubt yourself. You can’t put up with things you don’t deserve because you clearly know the difference between what you deserve and what you’re getting.

Dire NO significa conoscere i propri limiti

Don’t feel guilty for standing up for yourself. Don’t feel bad for setting confini in your life and distancing yourself from certain people because it’ll save you from being hurt.

It’ll definitely keep you from getting your heart broken.

It’s good to know your limits. Tracciate una linea nella sabbia quando certe cose nella vostra vita sono inaccettabili e rispettate voi stessi abbastanza da non permettere agli altri di oltrepassarla.

It’s important to know when enough is enough and when it’s time to let go of people and move on.

Ricordate che avere un carattere forte è il vostro superpotere.

I’m sure you’re asking why it’s a superpower. The answer is straightforward; it can make your life much easier and happier.

Having a strong character means you’re able to control your mind and your heart, your thoughts, and your emotions. It means you’re confident. It means you have unshakable faith in yourself.

You won’t allow others to manipolare or play games with you because you know you’re so much better and smarter than that. That’s not crazy; that’s the greatest love of all — SELF-LOVE.

Dare del pazzo è solo un altro modo per manipolarvi.

They want to make you think that you’re overreacting. They want to make you question your self-worth. They want to humiliate you.

It’s just one more trick they use to manipulate you and gain control over your life. BUT, they won’t succeed, and do you know why?

Because you won’t fall for their cheap attempts at manipulation ever again.

They’re blame-shifting and pretending to be the victim

They’re calling you crazy because they want to present themselves as the real victim in this story. Believe me. You’ll constantly go round in circles.

They won’t ever apologize to you, and they’ll try to make you look insane, hoping they’ll succeed in their intention to manipulate you once again.

It’ll happen again and again until you decide to break that circle once and for all and cut them out of your life forever. It won’t make you a victim either; it’ll make you a strong and courageous winner.

Don’t allow them to win

Look at this as a fight. It’s a battle between good and evil, between you and those persone tossiche. They’ll use many different weapons to try to intimidate you or make you doubt yourself.

Don’t allow them to win the fight. Hold on and be strong. Good will always triumph over evil, trust me.

Believe in yourself because that’s what hurts them the most. Don’t let them change you. It’s better to be called crazy than to be someone’s fool.