Voglio l'amore ma mi spaventa da morire

Voglio che l'amore, il vero amore, mi dimostri finalmente che posso essere me stessa. Voglio un amore che non si nasconda, che non sia calcolato, spaventato o indeciso.

Voglio un amore così forte da superare tutte le mie paure. È chiedere troppo?

Sometimes I’m so convinced I will never find it. The emptiness in my chest is too comfortable. I’m used to it.

It seems as if I crave love and at the same time, I’m afraid of it. I’m scared of commitment and being hurt again. I’m scared of making one big decision with such a huge impact on the rest of my life.

Maybe it’s because subconsciously my mind thinks I’m not deserving of love. Why?

I don’t accept myself as I am, and no matter how hard the other person tries to make me comfortable, I can’t feel comfortable inside myself.

La stessa cosa mi fa attrarre da partner che mi maltrattano.

I don’t want to end up with someone who will ruin my life and leave me in pieces. It happened before. That’s why I’m feeling this wrecked in the first place.

When you go through abuse, everything in your life changes. You’re not the person you were before.

Uncertainty and feeling powerless become part of you. There’s no going back to the old.

Francamente, l'idea che qualcuno mi veda solo il modo in cui I am scares the heck out of me. It’s almost like admitting quello che vedete ora è tutto ciò che posso darvi. And I‘m scared that’s not enough.

I don’t want to just wake up heartbroken one day. I’d rather wake up lonely even if it hurts. The fear of future pain is almost paralyzing.

However, I want to overcome this fear and I’m aware that the first step in overcoming it is changing my relationship with myself.

When we stop limiting our feelings and let ourselves be vulnerable, things start changing. If we’re not vulnerable, we’re not being honest with ourselves.

Lo ricordo a me stesso: Da qualche parte là fuori c'è una persona che accetterà le tue imperfezioni e non penserà mai a te come a una persona che non ha mai pensato a te. troppo o troppo poco qualsiasi cosa. Qualcuno che ami veramente tutto ciò che siete.

Ma prima di questo, dovete farvi vedere da loro.

Don’t paralyze yourself in fear and don’t give or accept half-hearted love.

Be yourself proudly. Don’t let the past trauma take you away from you. You’re more than the things that happened to you.

Don’t close off your heart because by doing that, you’re hurting yourself anyway.

Ogni lezione di vita ha il suo significato. Tutto nella vita va avanti, quindi lasciate che vada avanti.

Don’t settle thinking I’m that girl who’s going to end up alone forever. That’s not true! You decide who you are.

Instead, stop thinking about love and a relationship as something unattainable. Making an effort towards something always opens a new door you didn’t know about.

Make a connection, say what’s on your heart, don’t worry about how you’re being perceived, and let the magic happen.

Being hurt or even being alone isn’t the worst thing that can happen to you. Every situation is a chance for growth.

Take your pain and what you learned from it to plant something new – something that can be your own revolution.

You can have someone you can call your own, someone who will be there always. Someone who loves you without limit – who won’t make you feel worthless, overlooked, put aside or sad.

Meritate di amare e di essere amati a vostra volta. Aprite il vostro cuore a qualcosa di nuovo.

Start by loving yourself and watch things change. Little by little you will find yourself doing things you never imagined. Bit by bit you’ll notice fear disappearing.

Love is the most powerful of all things, so don’t underestimate its importance in your life. You need it, you’re deserving of it, and you can experience it in its truest form.

Don’t let it scare you. True love doesn’t know fear.

Esiste. Lasciate che vi trovi.