Tradimento telefonico: 8 segnali digitali dell'infedeltà del vostro partner

L'elenco definitivo degli indizi di tradimento sul telefono che vi aiuteranno a identificare un traditore digitale (o a togliervi il dubbio)!

“Ask you once, ask you twice now

There’s lipstick on your collar

You say she’s just a friend now

Then why don’t we call her?”

Anne Marie’s hit Ciao Adios è l'esempio perfetto di un romanticismo d'epocain un'epoca in cui per arrestare un traditore ci si doveva basare su prove fisiche (come rossetto sul colletto, orari d'ufficio prolungati, ecc.).

Per nostra fortuna, i tempi sono cambiati e le porte del mondo delle prove digitali sono spalancate!

I moderni telefoni cellulari, piattaforme di social mediaLe app di spionaggio e altri strumenti tecnologici ci hanno permesso di rintracciare facilmente i nostri partner (potenzialmente) traditori.

If you suspect your partner is being unfaithful, you’ve come to the right place! Here is a list of telltale digital signs to help you learn how to catch un partner traditore!

Come scoprire un traditore: 8 segni digitali del tradimento del vostro partner

1. Il vostro partner è riservato e iperprotettivo nei confronti del suo telefono.

Il segno numero uno che il vostro partner vi sta tradendo è se sono riservati e iperprotettivi nei confronti del loro telefono.

Il modo più semplice per riconoscerlo è confrontare il vecchio comportamento con quello attuale.

Vi nascondono lo smartphone quando messaggiano con altre persone? Corrono alla velocità della luce quando qualcuno invia loro un messaggio di testo?

Hanno iniziato a fare tutte le telefonate fuori casa (e lontano da voi)? Si portano dietro il telefono ovunque (anche quando vanno in bagno)?

If your answer to the majority of the above questions is yes, there’s a high chance your partner is hiding something from you, so you should prepare yourself for scoperta della relazione e recupero della relazione!

They know that they’re doing something bad, so they instinctively try to hide such behaviour and become overprotective of their devices.

They are scared of getting busted, so they’re doing everything in their power to protect their lies.

2. Il vostro spyware rileva le prove

Modern spyware is one of the most powerful “cheat detectors” at our disposal, so it would be a shame not to use it, right?

To help you with a spyware mission, I’ve divided it into four evidence sections in which you can find a “how to” explanation for each action:

Prova 1: Individuazione del dispositivo

If you want to find out about your partner’s current whereabouts, locating their device is one of the easiest methods.

Don’t worry, you won’t have to jailbreak their device because everything is already on their phone.

Se utilizzano un dispositivo Apple collegato a un account di famiglia, è possibile localizzare facilmente il loro cellulare accedendo a iCloud.com (verificare prima che la funzione di condivisione della posizione sia abilitata).

Once you’ve logged in, click on ‘Find My iPhone’ or use the ‘Find My Friends’ app.

If they use an Android phone and are logged in to Google on a shared computer, the procedure is the following: Type “Find My Phone” into the search bar and voila, you’ll have their phone location!

Evidenza 2: Storia dell'ubicazione

Se volete controllare tutti i luoghi visitati in precedenza dal vostro partner, la funzione dei servizi di localizzazione è la vostra amica!

By checking all the places they visit frequently, you will easily notice if there’s one special place that they prioritize.

And here’s how you’ll do it:

Per gli utenti di iPhone è necessario procedere come segue: Fare clic su Impostazioni > Privacy > Selezionare Servizi di localizzazione > Scorrere fino a Servizi di sistema > Selezionare Posizioni significative.

Se i clienti utilizzano un telefono Android con accesso all'account Google, è possibile trovare le informazioni sulla cronologia delle posizioni in Google Timeline (a cui si può accedere con l'app Google Maps).

Prova 3: Controllo dei registri delle chiamate

Checking the call logs on your partner’s phone is another simple way to track your partner’s infidelity. All you need to do is check all the outgoing and incoming calls as well as messaggi di testo.

Prestate attenzione a quante volte un determinato numero li ha chiamati o ha inviato loro un messaggio e a quale sia il nome del contatto.

One letter names are pretty popular among cheaters, so if you notice something like that, you have every right to be on alert. We’ll talk more about names and numbers below, so stay tuned!

Prova 4: applicazione mSpy

If you’re looking for an app to help you decipher whether or not your partner is cheating, then the mSpy app is your saviour!

Ci sono molte applicazioni di spionaggio in circolazione e sareste sorpresi di sapere quante persone le usano.

So, if you’re feeling uncomfortable about using them, you shouldn’t! You have every right to access the real truth and to get help from modern technology like this app.

With the assistance of this spying application, you can check your partner’s chat history from all the latest messenger services (Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Viber).

Now, what if they’ve deleted all the messages? No worries, because they are still stored in the software’s control panel, meaning you can access them there whenever you wish!

Pro tip: You can verify a person’s online identity by using an online dating investigation service called Pesce gatto sociale.

3. Hanno molti nomi e numeri sospetti tra i loro contatti.

Checking your partner’s contacts is a surefire way to identify cheating on phone signs.

If they have something to hide from you, you can be sure that they will alter their contacts’ names out of fear that you’ll figure out their game.

Ci sono molti modi in cui possono cercare di mascherare la loro infedeltà quando si tratta di nomi di contatti: ecco i più comuni:

– They have contact(s) consisting of only one letter (X, M, P, which is usually their lover’s initial).

-Hanno contatti che consistono in un mix di lettere e numeri indecifrabili.

– They have contact(s) with suspicious occupations like ‘Plumber Woman’ or similar.

Correlato: 11 segni che il vostro partner vi tradisce su Snapchat

– They add a lover’s number under a family member’s name.

Ai loro occhi, tutte queste combinazioni sembrano una scusa perfetta per lasciare i locali quando vogliono.

Also, they’re convinced that it’s perfectly safe to have their lover’s number listed under a family member’s name.

Ma quando iniziate a scavare più a fondo nel loro cellulare, noterete che tutti questi nomi e numeri sospetti sono lì per un motivo.

Their main purpose is to cover their lover’s identity and protect them from being caught in a lie.

Vedi anche: 7 cose da sapere sui traditori (secondo la scienza)

4. Hanno un secondo telefono o schede SIM alternative

Questo è un marchio di fabbrica di ogni traditore professionista. Avere un secondo telefono o schede SIM alternative è una copertura perfetta per qualsiasi traccia di infedeltà. Perché?

Because it’s like having two identities. All the data on the “cheating phone or SIM card” will be saved there, and therefore, far away from your eyes.

They will just shift between phones and cards and you’ll have no idea what is going on in their life, even if you use the mSpy app.

But, there’s one surefire way to break the enigma! If you notice that they’re calling you from an unknown phone number and tell you that they borrowed a phone from a friend, think again.

If this happens once, then maybe it is true. But, if it happens constantly, then you know there’s something bigger going on there.

È successo a una mia amica. Sospettava che il suo Il marito tradiva on her, but she couldn’t find a single clue of his infidelity.

She went through his phone, his laptop, – everything she could think of – and it was all clean.

And then, after some time, she started receiving calls from an unknown number and every time she answered it, it was him – her husband.

It didn’t take long to connect the dots, so she asked him why he was always calling her from that same unknown number.

He literally froze and didn’t know what to say, then he started to stumble over his words and fidget.

And then, she knew that something was fishy, and boy, was it fishy! He had succeeded in lying to her through his phone, but he couldn’t manage it in person because his eyes revealed the real truth.

5. Passano molto tempo al telefono

If your partner has never been a fan of spending too much time on their phone, and now they can’t stop looking at their smartphone screen, then you know something’s not right.

Passare molto tempo al telefono può significare due cose:

-They’re either so busy that they can’t stop looking at their phone even when they’re not officially at work.

– They’re chatting with their lover (or lovers?).

If you know that the nature of your partner’s job doesn’t require them to work 24/7, then you can eliminate the first option.

This means there’s a high probability your partner is suddenly spending so much time on their phone because they’re in contact with their lover.

They’re sending pictures to each other, chatting about their day, arranging the next date, and hoping that all this will stay their little secret.

In most cases, it really does stay a secret if partners are persuasive and if they offer “valid” reasons for their phone addiction.

E in alcuni casi falliscono prima ancora di riuscire a trovare una scusa.

When they sense that you’re snooping on them and being suspicious about their recent behaviour, they start being overly protective of their phone.

If you notice this, then you can be sure they’re not really busy working, rather they’re busy pretending that they’re working. (Talk about a perfect modern life cover.)

6. There’s no history of speaking to or texting anyone on their phone

You open their call logs hoping that you’ll find something to confirm your doubts, but there’s nothing. Their phone is CLEAN!

They’re literally on their phone day and night (even when they are on the toilet) but there is no history of them speaking to or texting anyone on their phone.

Inutile dire che si tratta di un'enorme bandiera rossa.

Inoltre, questo è uno dei modi più semplici per rompere una partner traditore. I mean, who in their right mind would delete all their texting and speaking history if they didn’t have anything to hide?

It’s evident even to a child that they’re doing it for a reason. And the reason is that they’re hiding something from you.

This is a next level cheater personality because they don’t even bother changing their contact names or buying a second phone. They just delete their communication history on the current one.

They’re not only cheating on you, but they’re also cheating on themselves because they evidently lack innovation, creativity, and effort.

But, perhaps they secretly want to be caught and that’s the reason they’re doing it this way.

I read somewhere that most cheaters subconsciously want to get caught and that’s why they leave all kinds of clues hoping you’ll uncover them.

Maybe that’s the reason why they choose to delete things on their phone instead of professionally hiding clues like others.

7. Si nascondono e sussurrano al telefono

Ricordate tutte le scene dei film in cui un coniuge traditore (di solito un marito traditore) sgattaiola dalla camera da letto al bagno e sussurra al telefono.

When we see that, we don’t even need to hear what they’re talking about because we already know that they’re probably talking to their amante.

Now, I’m not directly familiar with the real life situation, but I bet there are many partners who practice that kind of communication. They hide and whisper on their phone.

They leave you in bed, watching a movie alone or whatever you’re doing at that moment and they hide somewhere in the house to talk to their lover.

They whisper like someone is going to kill them any second and they can’t risk getting busted.

E quando tornano e chiedete loro perché ci hanno messo così tanto tempo, inventano una scusa banale come la diarrea, una situazione urgente al lavoro o un familiare malato.

Ed eccovi lì, bloccati tra la vera verità e le loro bugie. Non sapete più a cosa credere, né tanto meno cosa fare.

But, there’s one thing you need to pay attention to, which can help you decipher the enigma behind it. If they do it often, then you should trust your gut and be alert.

Also, try sneaking out and following them, but be careful that they don’t bust you instead!

Vedi anche: 13 segni evidenti di senso di colpa da parte del marito traditore

8. There are odd charges on your partner’s credit card

Having a joint bank account has its advantages and one of them is checking your partner’s expenses.

If you notice that they’re spending their money on things that you’ve never received or seen anywhere in the house, then you know the items ended up in someone else’s hands.

Cose come gioielli, orologi costosi, abiti, ecc. Anche in questo caso, possiamo fare un paragone con gli scenari cinematografici in cui sono soprattutto gli uomini a sorprendere le loro amanti con regali costosi.

Basti pensare a Richard Gere nel film di culto Pretty Woman in cui vizia la sua donna con molti regali e trattamenti speciali.

Even though no one in the movie is cheating, you still get the point. It’s in our nature to want to surprise and make someone we like and care for feel special.

So, if you notice any odd charges on your partner’s credit card and you know they’re not intended for you or anyone in your circle of people, it’s a huge red flag. But, don’t react too soon.

Lasciate perdere per qualche tempo per vedere se hanno comprato quell'oggetto speciale per voi. In caso contrario, avviate una conversazione sincera e chiedete di conoscere la verità dietro le loro strane spese e il loro comportamento.

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If you’ve just realized (or you suspect) that they’ve been cheating on you…

First of all, don’t panic! If you have only one digital sign indicating infedeltàSpesso non è sufficiente (anche se dipende dalla forza del segno).

Ma se la maggior parte degli indizi di tradimento corrispondono, allora avete tutto il diritto di sospettare che stiano facendo qualcosa alle vostre spalle.

Come sempre, prima di fare qualcosa di drastico (per non dire stupido), cercate di parlarne con il vostro partner. Una conversazione sincera è la cosa migliore per entrambi in questo momento.

Tell them openly everything that’s on your mind and ask them to tell you the truth!

And, don’t worry, this time they will not be able to lie to you because you will see the truth in their eyes!

After that, it’s up to you to choose in which direction you’ll go. Whichever path you choose, I’m sure you’ll do the right thing!

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