Una lettera al ragazzo che ha capito cosa ha perso, ma troppo tardi

Forse è vero che la gente si preoccupa solo quando è troppo tardi...

While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn’t mean you’ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked.

She told you you’ll remember how she made you feel. In the moments you feel most alone and in the moments when you feel like you need this one friend and you’ll remember her.

Nessuno ti faceva sentire come lei. Ti guardava come se fossi l'unico uomo al mondo.

Qualsiasi cosa faceste era speciale per lei e la osservava con una dose di ammirazione.

Nei suoi occhi si vedeva quello che provava per te. Dalle cose che faceva per te, potevi capire quanto eri importante per lei.

Era sempre presente per te. Voleva essere la tua migliore amica e solo dopo la tua ragazza.

She was one of those girls who did everything in their power to make their loved ones happy and like they’re the most special people in this world.

With her, there was no need to think that you’ll ever be lonely because no matter what, she was there for you.

Era lì per rendere i giorni bui un po' più luminosi. Era lì per illuminarti quando eri triste.

Era lì per alleviare lo stress dopo una brutta giornata ed era lì quando avevi bisogno di qualcuno che ti facesse ridere o di qualcuno che condividesse il silenzio con te.

Semplicemente, lei c'era per te. Qualunque cosa fosse necessaria, qualunque cosa ti servisse, lei era sufficiente.

She would’ve never walked away from you if it was up to her. Voleva restare, ma tu l'hai respinta.. L'hai trattata male.

Tutti i tuoi sforzi sono stati fatti solo a metà. E avete barattato una brava ragazza con qualche ragazza temporanea. La cosa peggiore è che fino a questo momento non ne eri consapevole.

You realized you did wrong. Only now you figured you should’ve been there.

Now you see that you shouldn’t have let her feel alone when she was obviously with you.

You should’ve cared for her like she did for you. You should’ve taken her hand when she tried to reach out to you. You should’ve listened when she tried to tell you how you make her feel.

Ma tu hai scelto di andare dall'altra parte. E ora sapete Perché le donne lasciano gli uomini che amano.

La davate per scontata perché ci teneva troppo. La sua gentilezza nei tuoi confronti è diventata qualcosa che ti aspettavi di ottenere ogni volta che volevi.

You expected her to be there for you whenever you needed her, but you never felt the need to give her anything in return. And that’s not how you do love. That’s now how you make her stay.

Perché, a prescindere da quanto ti amasse, a prescindere da quanto volesse rimanere, aveva una un'ottima ragione per andarsene.

Now you think how good it would be to have her back. Now you’d like to relive all those moments with her.

You wish she’s there with you to hold your hand and tell you how everything is going to be okay.

Desiderate sentire il calore del suo corpo e desiderate che dia un bacio d'addio a tutte le vostre preoccupazioni.

And you think about reaching out to her again. But that’s so selfish of you.

Let’s imagine you manage to get her back. Will you be able to erase all the pain she went through?

Riuscirete a cancellare tutti i brutti ricordi che ha ancora in testa? Riuscirai a cancellare l'immagine di te che la lasci andare via? Sì, pensavo di no.

You had a chance to fix things already, don’t you remember? You have no idea how much she wanted you to stop her from walking away.

She just wanted you to take her hand and tell her to stay, tell her how you need her, how much you love her and how you’re going to figure everything out together. She just needed you to farla ridere.

She’d forget all the pain and she’d turn back and stay. But you missed that chance.

Mentre tu correvi dietro a tutte quelle donne temporanee, lei aveva abbastanza tempo per pensare a tutto.

She had the time to see how you took her for granted, how you didn’t bother to give her anything she gave you back, how she was the one who loved more and who tried more.

Ha avuto abbastanza tempo per vederti per quello che sei. e di rendersi conto che era lei a trascinare la vostra relazione.

While she was walking away she told you that you will remember her. What she didn’t tell you is that once she’s gone, she isn’t coming back. You might’ve realized what you lost, but you realized it too late.

Girls like her don’t wait for anyone. And there is probably now someone who gives her everything she deserves without her needing to ask.

C'è qualcuno che ha aspettato che tu commettessi un errore per poter piombare su di te e farle perdere la testa. L'hai persa.

May this be a lesson to all men, too. You don’t leave a good girl for those temporary ones.

Because when you wish to come back, there won’t be anyone waiting for you anymore.