Dio non sta mettendo alla prova la vostra relazione, il vostro partner è solo tossico

You know what this is? This isn’t just some lame letter. It’s an intervention. For you.

Ti capisco, davvero. Sei innamorata di lui e cerchi di giustificarlo ogni volta che ti fa qualcosa di brutto.

Lo capisco perché una volta ero al vostro posto. Una volta ero così ciecamente innamorata di un uomo. Giuro che quell'uomo poteva fare tutto quello che voleva e comunque non l'avrei mai lasciato.

Ho riversato troppo me stessa in quella relazione. Era quel tipo di amore quando si dimentica tutto e tutti intorno a voi. Quella persona diventa il centro del vostro mondo.

Il mio mondo ruotava solo intorno a lui. La nostra relazione è diventata l'unica cosa importante per me.

È diventato il mio ultimo pensiero prima di andare a letto, il mio primo pensiero al risveglio. La ragione del mio sorriso. In un periodo di tempo così breve, è diventato il mio intero universo.

I know that there are no guarantees in life but I never could even imagine that I’d fall so deeply in love with someone who’d be my worst nightmare in the end.

I gave my all to a man who didn’t even deserve for me to wave at him when I see him on the street.

A causa sua, ho perso tante persone che mi amavano sinceramente e me ne pento ancora oggi.

He never gave me any reason to love him at all and even so, I loved him with all my heart. I couldn’t explain that to anyone.

I think that’s how love actually is—unexplainable and unreasonable. However, I know that you get me.  

Si sta solo prendendo gioco di te, fidati. You are worth so much more than that. You are worthy of a man who’ll be able to love you the same way you love him and even more. Someone who’ll appreciate and cherish you.

I turned my back on all the people who spoke badly about him—my family and friends… They all tried to warn me that he wasn’t good for me but I didn’t want to listen. 

Pensavo che fossero solo gelosi.

Geloso di cosa? Di una relazione così tossica e danneggiata? Di un uomo che mi ha mancato di rispetto e umiliato così tante volte?

I didn’t think clearly back then. Now I do but it’s too late. I already hurt my loved ones, people who only wanted to save me from that toxic man and who only wanted what was best for me.

This is my story and I only wanted to get through to you through my experience. I wanted to share my story with you and make you realize what is also waiting for you if you don’t stop it in time.

Don’t blame God anymore for your damaged relationship. Trust me, God is always on your side. He would never make you suffer like you’re suffering right now.

God isn’t testing your relationship. All those terrible things that you’re going through right now aren’t God’s fault. It’s only your partner. He is the one who makes you suffer so much.

Svegliatevi. He doesn’t love you and he never will. He’s there only because he knows how you feel about him and that you’ll do whatever it takes to keep him in your life.

I know that he often tells you how he loves you more than anything in this world and how he’ll stay with you until the end, no matter what.

Quelli sono solo parole and words mean nothing when his actions speak differently. Remember that he’s a player and a pretty good one. He’s good with words because he knows that most women like to hear sweet words.

Per favore, siate più intelligenti di me. Lasciatelo una volta per tutte. Don’t allow yourself to lose all the people who love you because of a man who never did.

As hard as it is, you have to burn that bridge. You have to close that chapter. It’s time to listen to that advice from your loved ones.

It’s time to take back control over your own life. It’s time to make a change. It’s time to admit that you were wrong all this time. It’s time to show that toxic man who il vero giocatore è.

Fidatevi di me, c'è un capitolo migliore scritto per voi nel libro della vostra vita. but you’ll never be able to open it until you completely close the old one.