8 cose che una donna cazzuta e rispettosa di sé dovrebbe fare

Sei una donna. Devi essere consapevole del tuo valore. You have to know that you’re more than good enough…For him, for everyone and everything.

You have to realize that you deserve everything you have and everything you wish for. You deserve even more than that. You deserve the world and you shouldn’t settle for any less than that.

Non si tratta di un discorso puramente femminista. It’s a fact. Women carry so many burdens. We have to take care of so many people in our lives and we are loaded with even more responsibilities and preoccupations.

That’s precisely what makes us so brave and strong. That’s why I’m so proud that I’m a woman e anche voi dovreste esserlo.

Conoscere la propria autostima and have faith in yourself. Show the world that you’re one badass self-respecting woman! Here are some things you should do.

Non confrontarsi mai con gli altri

There will always be someone prettier than you or someone more intelligent or more successful. Don’t waste your time comparing yourself to others because you’ll get nothing out of that.

It won’t make you work on improving yourself. It will only make you bitter or envious. You don’t need that.

Think the other way; no one can be like you and that’s super awesome. In verità, c'è tanta bellezza nelle nostre differenze.

Compatirsi è fuori discussione

L'autocommiserazione è il vostro peggior nemico, quindi lavorate per superarla. Se una persona a voi cara vi ha fatto qualcosa di brutto, perdonatela, perdonate voi stessi per esservi fidati di lei e lasciate perdere.

Pensate in modo positivo e cercate sempre di essere la persona più grande. La vita è bella. Ci saranno sempre dei periodi difficili, ma nulla dura per sempre. Tutto può cambiare in un minuto.

Don’t try to hide your flaws and imperfections

Your flaws are also part of you. Trust me, it is what makes you strong. Embrace them. Show others that you know you have imperfections like all human beings and that you’re okay with it.

Others may try to hurt you using your flaws because they consider them your weak point. By embracing them, you won’t allow them to succeed.

Don’t apologize for being yourself

You must have your own thoughts and opinions. You’re allowed to say how you feel. You have every right to disagree with others and have a different perspective on life.

Tu sai chi sei e non devi mai dispiacerti per questo.. It’s called having self-respect. I know we all fear that other people won’t like it, but that’s their problem, not yours.

Don’t let your feelings control you

Amare qualcuno è la cosa più bella del mondo. Ma sapere che i propri sentimenti sono ricambiati è ancora meglio. Tuttavia, a volte, concediamo troppo agli altri semplicemente perché li amiamo.

Don’t put up with someone treating you badly just because you love them. Non lasciate mai che i vostri sentimenti vi controllino. Non finisce mai bene, credetemi.

Don’t allow anyone to tell you what to do

Women make so many mistakes when they’re in love with someone. The most common mistake is giving their power when they are in a relationship.

Permettiamo alla persona che amiamo di dirci cosa fare. Presto iniziamo a chiedere il permesso per ogni cosa che facciamo.

It’s your life only and only you have the right to make decisions about it. Sure, it’s good to hear some advice about certain things, but making the decision should be up to you alone.

Non aspettatevi mai troppo dagli altri

Sometimes people aren’t ready to do the same things for you as you would for them and you should just make peace with that.

If you think that only your partner can make you happy, you’re wrong. Only you can. If you don’t lower your expectations, you’ll only be disappointed in the end.

Non guardare mai indietro

This is probably the most important thing on the list. Good things happen, bad things happen, someone broke your heart, someone left you…It just doesn’t matter.

It happened and now it’s gone. It’s past and leave it right there, in passato. Don’t continue hurting yourself by looking back at things that mean nothing to you anymore.

Le donne come lei sono così rare al giorno d'oggi. Truly, you’re like a rare diamond so continue to shine the brightest you can.