Una lettera aperta alla ragazza che ha smesso di amare se stessa
Sei una ragazza che continuerà a dare finché non avrà più nulla.
You are draining yourself. You want to make everyone around you happy and loved. But, in the process, you are forgetting about the most important person—VOI.
Le persone pensano di poterti calpestare perché non hai stima di te stesso.
Although you think that you are doing good by giving all the love you have to others, that love is not sincere. It can’t be, and it won’t be until you imparare ad amare se stessi.
Dopo aver imparato ad amare e apprezzare se stessi, l'amore per le persone a cui si tiene sarà puro e onesto.
I know it’s hard for you to put a stop to everything all of a sudden, but don’t let le persone ti usano. People are a-holes, at least most of them. They will use any opportunity they get to suck you dry. If you are a good person, and you are, they will destroy you. They will be needing more and more each day—fino a non avere più nulla da dare loro.
You mustn’t let everyone else be better and more important than you. Nessuno ha il diritto di controllare la vostra vita. Volete invecchiare e rimpiangere di aver permesso agli altri di spingervi dietro le quinte della vostra vita, quando il vostro posto è in prima linea sul palcoscenico?
In your life, you are the most important—you are playing the starring role and the world revolves around you. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be able to say, ‘No’.
You will not let anybody down if you don’t jump to grant their every wish. If you don’t feel like going out and if you feel like staying home—stay at home. After all, if any of those people were your true friends, they would get it. But, no, these are the leeches who need your energy to feed off of. Otherwise, they would die.
Remember that you need to take care of yourself. It’s perfectly ok to just stop and rewind yourself. Reconsider some things. Find those that really matter to you because after all, you matter. Don’t forget that.
Siate soli e amate prima di tutto voi stessi. Tutto il resto tornerà al suo posto.
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