Non aspettate che un uomo cambi o cresca perché state bloccando la vostra stessa felicità

Se vi siete mai trovati in questa situazione, sapete quanto sia difficile.

You spend so much time together, you know the deepest part of each other, but something isn’t right and you just can’t ignore it anymore.

Ti addolora vederlo girare in tondo facendo del male a se stesso e a te.

You’ve tried over and over again but nothing’s ever happened.

It’s soul-crushing to know that you can’t help or change the person you love.

The same person who doesn’t love himself because he chooses destructive behavior instead of healing.

Gli esseri umani hanno una natura che crea dipendenza. Per alcune persone, anche la negatività crea dipendenza.

Negativity comes in many shapes and forms. Sometimes it’s toxic behavior, sometimes it is constantly criticizing, sometimes it’s thoughts of despair.

Unfortunately, there’s just so much you can do.

What’s worse, often you want to help him but he refuses and hurts you in the process.

That’s when you know that the wounds are too deep and you’re neither a doctor nor a psychologist.

I’m almost sure you’ve done everything there is to change the situation but you’ve failed every single time.

Anche quando si pensava che le cose andassero meglio, si è scoperto che era solo una cosa temporanea.

That’s no way to live.

Per fare progressi, la prima persona che deve impegnarsi è lui, non voi.

Constantly thinking about the well-being of another person makes us miserable in the end because we don’t have time for ourselves.

Non si può ottenere nulla da due persone squilibrate che cercano di mantenere viva una relazione.

If there’s nothing to give – it’s not a relationship.

By holding onto something that’s already dead you’re stopping yourself from experiencing happiness. Don’t let it slip through your fingers.

La felicità favorisce i coraggiosi. Siate coraggiosi.

He won’t change. You won’t change that fact.

It’s better to move on and let him fight his own battles. In the end, he has to help himself.

Sometimes the problem is exactly the fact that you let him count on you all the time. That’s a sign of a dependent relationship – and that leads nowhere.

In order to make a change in life, everyone has to give up something. If he’s not ready now, he might never be.

You can’t sit and wait for better days. Why should you when you can actively live them?

Sometimes life isn’t a wild sea that throws you around, sometimes it’s just your emotions you haven’t learned to control.

Not everything is possible to control – but with a strong will, it’s possible to optimize almost everything in your life including feelings and relationships.

Don’t rob yourself of happiness. Let go of what refuses to change. Don’t be the victim of circumstances and other people’s decisions.

Not everything is as it seems now. You will move on. Things will get better. You’ll meet new people and life will go on.

Don’t do the same thing he’s doing – don’t be afraid to make a change. Step into your power and decide how you want to live your life.

La prima cosa da fare è smettere di incolpare se stessi per le colpe degli altri.

La seconda cosa è credere di poter fare meglio.

You can do what you set your mind to. Learn from other people’s mistakes and don’t give up.

L'unica cosa che impedisce a una persona di crescere è l'incapacità di adattarsi e di cambiare, unita a una bassa autostima.

Tutte queste cose sono risolvibili se lo si vuole.

Nel momento in cui si realizza questo, ci si libera.

“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” – Maya Angelou