I just got back from my first vacation in 11 years. I recently said it had been 15, but I did forget I went to Vegas 11 years ago. I’ve written about how my ex would screw up our finances beyond repair and that I have since discovered he also had a gambling habit. This…
It’s been quite a ride. I’ve been through so much you can’t even start to imagine. I think if you had to live in my mind for even a day, you wouldn’t make it. You wouldn’t be able to endure all the pain I’ve felt. But, you know what? That passes. First it consumes you….
1. First of all, I’m not going to go on a hunt. I’m not going to obsess about whether or not he’s coming. Is he around the corner? How long will it take before I get to meet him? Are days or years keeping me apart from him? Who cares! It’s true what they say….
An attachment style is a pattern of behavior you display in relation to others and the way you attach to your loved ones. It is the way you act in your friendships and romantic and family relationships. The original study of attachment styles was primarily about a children-parents relationship but later on, experts realized that…
Hey, old friend. You might be surprised that I’m writing you like this, since you and I are rarely apart and you’ve been a piece of me for ages. However, I’m not sure about the first time I met you. I can’t tell how, when, and why you entered my life. All I know is…
Healing and successfully moving on after a dysfunctional relationship is the dream! But in reality, it’s a mighty task. Everybody has their own coping mechanisms and dealing with the burden of a breakup can be done in a multitude of ways. But one thing that is definitely not encouraged after just having ended a long-term…
1. She has a strong sense of identity. She knows who she is and she knows what she wants in her partner. She is perfectly aware of what kind of person she could get along with and which person would make her wish to shed her skin and forever remain in her safe space. 2….
If I were your man, I would never make you regret saying, ‘Yes’ to me. You would never ask yourself if you are worthy or enough for me because I would show that to you every day. I would protect you and make you feel safe and that would be my mission for the rest…
“You can never leave a place unless you leave that place in your mind!” ~ Mehmet Murat Ildan Remember that it’s your life that you are living. Remember you have the first and final word—no one has the right to meddle with your thoughts and actions. No one has the right to hold all the…
Call me pathetic and an idealist but from the moment I first saw you, I was convinced that you’d be the man I’d spend my life next to. I thought you’d be the person to hold my hand even when I grew old. That you’d be the person I’d start a family with and the…